Ungagged Episode 22 – The Best Played Plans

Description of Show

The best play scenes involve planning, but too much can ruin spontaneity. In this episode of Ungagged, the puppies talk about how that balance can be achieved without thinking you are in a business meeting while you play.

Show Notes

  • In the News
  • Making Play Scenes Hot but Not Scripted
    • Even if it seems overkill, making a full itinerary can still be very helpful, especially for newer subs.
    • Scenes involving VR can be especially fun, but it really involves a lot of planning and setup since you really do not want to fiddle with it during the scene.
    • Having a good electro-stim scene also involves a lot of planning….namely seeing what the limits are for each participant beforehand to avoid boredom or too much pain.
    • Each participant also should plan ahead for what their bodies will be doing during the scene.
      • If you will be bottoming, then you want to be sure you are clean down there.
      • If you will be in a particular position for any length of time, then you should be sure that your body and your muscles are fit enough to stay in that position.
    • The Golden Rule does not always apply: The dom may want to put their assumptions away on what will feel good to the sub and ask a lot of questions to the sub on what feels good and what does not.
    • The Boy Scout Rule: Be prepared! Everything will not work during a scene, so have some alternatives prepared to substitute in just in case something breaks or something is not feeling good to a participant.
    • Home Field Advantage: Planning and executing a scene goes a lot easier when you are familiar with the space you are playing in. The dom in a scene playing at home will be better prepared for the unexpected since they know where everything is.
    • If you are planning a scene in a place that is not the home of a participant, then pack well! Have everything you need in your “bag of tricks” and know where everything is in your bag for quick access.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Leather Head Cushion.

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Episode 211 – Daydream Believer

Description of Show

Our fantasies…ourselves. This week we talk about fantasies and the different ways they manifest themselves…both in the real world and in our minds.

 Show Notes

  • What Now? Voting. Be registered. Don’t wait until right before an election. Register now at vote.org.
  • In the News: When BDSM and a popular, open-source software application collide: Quiet Kinkster Kicked Out of Drupal.
  • Fantasies. Daddy Tony is asked about his, and if they are actively integrated in his life.
  • Sparky relates how his fantasy boundaries work, which are mainly ones that are in the realm of the possible or achievable.
  • Limits to fantasy actualization:
    • Political correctness involving race or age
    • Dropping out of careers for 24/7/365 fantasy
    • Those that cause life-altering physical harm to themselves or others
  • Sparky talks about how his fantasies are more situational and are based on real people he sees from day-to-day.
  • Dark fantasies. Physical harm or violence. Some fantasy actualization could actually cause emotional harm to themselves over concern and seeing the real reactions of the other participants.
  • Hey listeners, we want to hear about your fantasies. Are they possible? Have you ever regretted making a fantasy come true? Tell us about it at info@nosafeword.com.

 

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Deluxe Leather Straitjacket.deluxe-leather-straitjacket-dolan-wolf-sj009-18

 

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Episode 210 – Ghostly Reject

Description of Show When we are out there in the world of kink we run into people that are not going to be into us. Or people who are into us that we are not into. And then we have a choice. Do we ignore them? Do they ignore us? Do we just ghost away […]

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Episode 209 – All The News

Description of Show Today we dedicate the show to a wide variety of news articles and listener feedback! Show Notes What now? Know who your congressional representatives are…and get involved in these hot congressional races: California 10, California 25, California 49, Colorado 6, Florida 26, Kansas 3, Minnesota 2, New York 19, Pennsylvania 8, Texas 23, Virginia 10 In the News A new, popular video game features gay sex scenes Is putting your last name on a license […]

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Episode 208 – Rude Screwed and Tattooed

Description of Show Our guest on the show is Sister Domine Trix, AKA Russ, of the Abbey of St. Joan (Seattle chapter) of the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence. Show Notes What now? We live in stressful times, so be sure to get away from the news headlines and go for a walk, relax, get a […]

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Episode 207 – Lawd Have MIR-cy

Description of Show Our guest on the show is Preston ‘Wexx’ So, Mr. International Rubber 2017. Show Notes In the News: A politician running for Arizona governor is actually honest…about his sex life. Preston vs Bill O’Reilly: MIR – Preston talks about the night he assumed his title…and a few of the more interesting parts of […]

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Ungagged Episode 21 – You Wanna Be A Star, Don’cha?

Description of Show Have you ever thought of doing porn, or what it might be like? We share some of our limited experiences and much more we have learned from friends and others in the community around us to help you if you have considered acting in or producing porn. Show Notes In the News […]

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Episode 206 – Newfoundcock

Description of Show We are talking with one of our listeners, MaskdCat, about the challenges organizing events for kink groups. Show Notes Douche Pickle of the Week: Caitlyn Jenner…and this: Our guest, MaskdCat, talks about spandex, rubber, and how he even gets into different headspaces with the different materials. Professional wrestling: a gateway drug to kink? […]

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Episode 205 – Totally Masc 4 Masc, Bro

Description of Show We are talking with our friend Debit (first debuted on the show in Episode 51 – Covering Recovery and has been back many more times) about masculinity and identity issues within the kink world. Show Notes Douche Pickle of the Week: Women Trump Supporters Close Their Accounts At Nordstrom For Dumping Ivanka Sparky is now […]

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Ungagged Episode 20 – Double Male-Bag

Description of Show Now that we’ve hit 20 episodes of the Ungagged podcast, its time for another dip into the mailbag (last time was Episode 10!). Before we do that, we run down some very important stories of the day. Show Notes In the News Fascist Furries find themselves unwelcome in polite fur-ciety. Every woman […]

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