Episode 216 – Safety Dance

Description of Show

The guys turn to the more sobering subject of safety – both personal safety and online safety.

 Show Notes

  • What Now? It is still Trump. Keep up the pressure, and be patient.
  • In the News
  • Safety. Even in the “liberal” neighborhoods, violence does happen.
  • Do the common-sense things for personal safety: Walk in well-lit areas, walk with other friends, and be simply aware of your surroundings (and put up your cell phone) as you walk.
  • Also if you are on-foot and being followed by a car: change to the opposite direction immediately. That will buy you some time to get out of the situation.
  • Flight, not fight: Always choose running away. Only resort to fighting if there is no escape from it.
  • Be the loudest fighter: Scream…shout…attract attention as much as possible.
  • Be an efficient fighter: Go for a kick to the kneecaps first. Hard to defend against and can be an effective attack to affect their mobility, which gives you a better chance to get away.
  • Other high-percentage areas to attack: the eyes, ears, and nose.
  • A good chest area to aim for is where the rib cage meets the sternum/breastbone. Hitting that area will likely knock the wind out of them.
  • What about guns for personal protection? Research shows that guns are only effective against attacks where you see them over 20 feet away. Also, if they are more than 20 feet away, you are safer running away versus shooting.
  • Another effective attack is to grab them by the collar, push back and pull them toward you as hard as you can. Can be very disorientating, and would give you more time to run away.
  • Use the weapons you have: your keys, a whistle, even a small metal baton.
  • Learn self-defense: Aikito, Karate, Krav Maga, and even boxing and mixed-martial arts.
  • Practice online safety: Keep your kink life separate by having different Facebook profiles for your private and public lives.
  • You do not publish your address or phone number for anyone to look at.
  • Also tend to communicate with well-established profiles with lots of online friends, even common friends.
  • Do not reveal your workplace and/or its location to anyone. Describe your job in generic terms.
  • Having face pics is an effort to show trust to others that they talk to. A person not having face pics and refuses to share them should be a big, red flag.

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Episode 215 – Foot in Mouth, Please

Description of Show

Today, at popular request, we talk about feet! Despite Sparky’s personal aversion, we brought on a veritable foot fetish expert, author James T. Medak, to talk to us about all things feet. This is also perhaps our most pun-filled episode to date!

Show Notes

  • In the News
  • Podophilia – Foot Worship!
    • Our guest was suggested by fan of the show, TiedFeetGuy.
    • Introverts and folks from repressive environments tend to more often into feet
    • Foot sucking and service can be an intense power play and show of total submission
    • Tickle torture is a common way tops can enjoy feet paired with bondage
    • Foot fetishism can be an obsession, a primal lust and need for worship. Foot pigs will pay for used smelly socks for example.
    • Foot fucking and foot jobs can be an intense sensation for both
    • It’s hard to introduce your foot fetish to a potential partner. Many get very self conscious about the social stigma.

About Our Guest

James T. Medak is the author of five best-selling erotic tomes, including Getting Off on the Wrong Foot, How to be a Foot Pig, and an anthology called The Best Foot Forward. When not working on his sixth novel, he maintains a popular Tumblr and continues to get into all sorts of kinky things with his boyfriend. He lives in Chicago.

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Episode 214 – Cock Holster

Description of Show In the age of Trump, it’s a great time to re-examine the idea of political correctness in the scope of all the crazy news lately.  Show Notes What Now? Stephen Colbert, long time champion of gay rights, is raked over the coals for a crude joke. Is “PC culture” starting to chase its own […]

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Episode 213 – Savage on Consent

Description of Show Dan Savage returns to the podcast as a guest, and we talk about consent.  Show Notes What Now? Dan presents it this week, and mentions three organizations that really could use our donations: ACLU, Planned Parenthood, and the International Refugee Assistance Project. In the News: Sadly, stealthing is the newest, dangerous sex trend…for […]

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Episode 212 – Hot Daddy On Daddy Action

Description of Show We speak to Daddy James, a trans-man who talks about how his kink and his gender identity intersect.  Show Notes What Now? Maybe we should consider a bomb shelter? In the News: Chechnya and the establishment of gay concentration camps. Here is how you can help stop the practice and work is proceeding on […]

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Ungagged Episode 22 – The Best Played Plans

Description of Show The best play scenes involve planning, but too much can ruin spontaneity. In this episode of Ungagged, the puppies talk about how that balance can be achieved without thinking you are in a business meeting while you play. Show Notes In the News It seems the new Nintendo Switch Joy-Con has a syncing […]

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Episode 211 – Daydream Believer

Description of Show Our fantasies…ourselves. This week we talk about fantasies and the different ways they manifest themselves…both in the real world and in our minds.  Show Notes What Now? Voting. Be registered. Don’t wait until right before an election. Register now at vote.org. In the News: When BDSM and a popular, open-source software application collide: Quiet Kinkster Kicked […]

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Episode 210 – Ghostly Reject

Description of Show When we are out there in the world of kink we run into people that are not going to be into us. Or people who are into us that we are not into. And then we have a choice. Do we ignore them? Do they ignore us? Do we just ghost away […]

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Episode 209 – All The News

Description of Show Today we dedicate the show to a wide variety of news articles and listener feedback! Show Notes What now? Know who your congressional representatives are…and get involved in these hot congressional races: California 10, California 25, California 49, Colorado 6, Florida 26, Kansas 3, Minnesota 2, New York 19, Pennsylvania 8, Texas 23, Virginia 10 In the News A new, popular video game features gay sex scenes Is putting your last name on a license […]

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Episode 208 – Rude Screwed and Tattooed

Description of Show Our guest on the show is Sister Domine Trix, AKA Russ, of the Abbey of St. Joan (Seattle chapter) of the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence. Show Notes What now? We live in stressful times, so be sure to get away from the news headlines and go for a walk, relax, get a […]

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