Episode 134 – Boys Will Be Boys

Whew! That wasn’t as much of a train wreck that I was afraid it would be. (SHHHHH! Don’t tell Daddy Tony that I wrote that.)

So this time we have Daddy Tony, Mikey, and Drew on the show. We talk a lot about how things work from the daddy/dom/sir/master side of things on the NoSafeWord Show. But tonight we talk all about how it is from the other side of our play and relationships. Enjoy!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • How do the boys handle all of the different headspaces that they have?
    • Puppy, boy, sub, husband, top, daddy
  • The Boy Union™
  • Switching
    • How does the headspace work when you sub and then do a revenge scene?
  • Boner and Brutus
  • Etiquette for sub vs. slave vs. puppy vs. boy
  • Negotiations from the sub side of things
  • Collars

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Acrylic Ball Press.

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Episode 133 – The Super Show

(No, it doesn’t have that many S’s. You need to butch it up a bit more.)

Superheroes! That’s what we’re talking about on this episode. Pablo Greene joins us. He’s the author of How to Kill a Superhero. Lots of fun discussion with him about why he has a superhero fetish. Also, we talk about where and how to get your hands on a good superhero costume.

After that, we review Drew’s nominations for the hottest superheroes in various categories. We’ll set up a survey so that you can vote on who you think is the hottest, most fun in the sack, and best relationship material of the mutant variety. Check here for the survey in the next day or two.

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Pablo Greene
  • His books
  • Why is there a super hero fetish?
  • How does one acquire superhero gear? (Here’s a hint: Go find the guide at howtokillasuperhero.net.)
  • Take our Survey! https://www.surveymonkey.com/s/CPRMMBJ
  • Who’s the hottest superhero, in the following categories:
    • Most likely to be good boyfriend material
    • Best power UNF
    • Hottest hero
    • Best power
    • Overall best gear

About Our Guest

Never heard of superhero fetish? Then it’s time you met author Pablo Greene, who is leading the genre with his four-book series How to Kill a Superhero. The books tell the story of Roland, who must learn to harness the powers of The Golden Man, whose secrets are found in an occult book by the same name. The series has been a hit with fans of gay men’s erotica, as well as readers of fantasy and sci-fi. How to Kill a Superhero has been featured at International Mr. Leather, Southeast Black and Blue, the Leather Archives & Museum, Dart’s Domain, No Safeword Show and Ropecast. The first two books are available now, and book three, titled Transformation Fetish, releases in 2015. You can meet Pablo this year at IML and Urban Bear Fair in New York City as well as New York Comic Con. Pablo is based out of New York City. For more info, visit howtokillasuperhero.net.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Fist Mitts with D-rings from the Fetters USA line.

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Episode 132 – Informed Decisions

One’s HIV status is intensely personal. It should be disclosed and discussed whenever negotiating any kind of sexual activity with another person. Generally, we don’t talk about it because of the historically negative reactions from society and many within the gay and kink communities. But are there situations when we should disclose someone else’s HIV […]

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Episode 131 – Scentsless in Seattle

… And back to our normal (ahem) crazy selves. We dig into the stupidity of the world around us, some letters from our amazing listeners, and the role of the smell of a sexy man in our play. Oh, and many many side trips into the bushes, around the fire hydrants, and multi-layered tangents because […]

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Episode 130 – Beyond Consent

In this episode, we tackle a very serious topic.  Domestic violence and abuse are not easy subjects.  In vanilla relationships, they are difficult to recognize when they are happening to you. It’s even harder when done in the context of power exchange, dom/sub, or BDSM. Pup Nitro joins us to talk about this sensitive and […]

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Episode 129 – Rubbery!

Rubbout 24 is coming up. Really soon! Like within the next 4 weeks. So you should get your tickets. But before we get to that…. Reid is one of the organizers of the rubbery pervertfest in Vancouver BC way up in the Canada. He’s here to talk about the event. We also talk a lot […]

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Episode 128 – A Night At the Museum

There is a rich history in the leather community. Most of it is passed on between generations through folklore. Unfortunately, we have a bit of a generational gap in the gay community. One of our greatest resources is the Leather Archives & Museum. The folks there collect things from around the world that have been […]

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Episode 127 – Listener Letters

On this episode, we have a couple more letters from our faithful listeners. While some of us really enjoy giving up control, we sometimes panic when its gone. We talk a bit about how to overcome that so we can relax and enjoy our kinks. And we also discuss how to deal with discomfort surrounding […]

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Episode 126 – Kinky Discordant

Many of us are fortunate to be in relationships with other kinky guys. Some of us aren’t for a variety of reasons — we discovered our kinky interests while already in a relationship or simply because we sometimes can’t control whom we fall in love with. So how do we handle our sex lives when […]

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Episode 125 – Bamm-Bamm

Lesson learned from this episode: Don’t do things to get you noticed when you’re sporting a mullet. On this episode, we chat with Bamm-Bamm, who was International Leatherboy 2012, about his introduction to the leather world, his experiences with drag, and being a titleholder. We also discuss the epic idiocy of someone who tries to […]

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