Episode 94 – The Last Half Mile

Kinkidiver is a close friend to several of the NoSafeWord crew. We invited him to talk with us about his history in the Seattle leather community and to talk about his experiences with his partner and boy. We had a blast on this show!

Musical interlude provided by Bensound.

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • How it was for Kinkidiver to get here tonight
  • How Sparky knows him, when they first met
  • Kinky in a rural area
  • Just starting a 3-way relationship
  • How to Meet Guys 101

About Our Guest

Kinkidiver has been happily tying guys up (and getting tied up himself) for many years. One of the NoSafeWord crew has known him for 18 years. He loves bondage, rubber, leather, and sports gear and is an all-around perv. Just our type!

You can find him as kinkidiver on Recon.

Kinkidiver was also on Episode 62.


Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Set of 4 Bondage Points.

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Community dealing with loss

Below are two announcements of fairly recent losses within our local community. We here at NoSafeWord have struggled with how to properly express ourselves on the show anytime there is a loss of of fellow kinkster.

For the first, Bill Parkin is a member of the community with whom I have met but had little chance to get to know personally. I have, however, seen the impact he has had on the community because of several people who have spoke highly of him. He should be celebrated for his contributions and efforts, that is a given; but more importantly we should celebrate how many lives he managed to touch and help lift up. Good journey Bill.

The second loss, Pup Phoenix, is far more difficult to discuss, especially on a comedy podcast. When the loss is of someone so young, so sudden, so unexpected, it is that much more difficult to feel like we do justice to celebrating who he was and creating a proper memorial. Questions surrounding the manner of how he passed and why jump to the front of our minds, naturally; but necessity of decorum out-weighs the need to know, even when the motivation is to try to find some way to use the tragic death as a way to start a conversation about preventing further losses.

In the end we chose not to tackle the subject on the air… for now. Rather than using specific examples we hope to one day, in the future, to find a way to talk about loss and how we can deal with it, or perhaps prevent further losses when possible.

Until then, we hope everyone will take a moment to remember and wish them well to where ever their next journey takes them.


For those of you who have not heard, the Seattle Leather community has recently lost two important titleholders. Bill Parkin, most recently Seattle Leather Granddad 2011, passed away on Friday, 20 June and Pup Phoenix, Seattle Daddy’s Boy 2014, unexpectedly passed away this Monday, 7 July.

Bill “Ma” Parkin was truly one of the founding members of the Northwest Leather Community. For many people, “Bill Parkin’s Home For Wayward Boys” was where they learned and grew into the Leather lifestyle. He would open his house for many, providing them with a safe and stable place to grow personally and professionally. Over the course of decades of involvement with the Seattle Leather community, he helped mentor many of the individuals we now see as leaders. In addition to building the Leather community, he also helped establish the Seattle LGBT bowling leagues that are still popular today. We will remember him for his brilliant blue eyes, sparkling smile and quick wit; we will forgive him for his habit of salting his beer.

Phoenix was an enthusiastic member of and contributor to the Northwest Leather Community. He competed in last year’s Northwest Puppy Contest as well as winning the Seattle Daddy’s Boy 2014 title. As part of his title year activities, he co-hosted the annual Chili Feed, lead the Leather and Kink contingent in this year’s Pride Parade, and most recently, represented SML at TRC’s Black Forest Party. Most of all, we will remember him for his contagious smile, energy and his efforts to include all of his Leather brothers and sisters in the community.

Sunday, there will be a series of events to remember both Bill and Phoenix. People will be gathering from 10AM-1PM at West Seattle Bowl, for a celebratory “Sunday Gay Bowling” to remember Bill. At 2:00PM, there will be a Celebration of Life for both Bill and Phoenix at the Cuff, including memorabilia from both individual’s lives. Please come in gear to honor and remember both Bill’s and Phoenix’s contributions to the Leather Community, as well as bring stories and memories of both of them. Per Bill’s wishes, there will be no speeches or eulogies.

Yours in Leather,

Mark Handel, on behalf of the Seattle Men in Leather Board

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Episode 93 – Mama Tits Part 1

The wonderful Mama Tits joins us again for this episode. She was one of the hostesses for this year’s Seattle Pride Parade, and she is making quite a splash with a video clip of her encounter with some uninvited guests just prior to the start of the parade. We are delighted to have her with […]

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NoSafeWord is on vacation this week

Hey all! For this 4th of July weekend the crew is taking some time off to rest up and get ready for some crazy fun shows this summer. There will be no show posted this week. Love you all! Stay safe out there.

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Episode 92 – PRIDE

This is a very special episode of the NoSafeWord show. We recorded this live from the pride parade! Well… live to tape at least. We don’t have the ads like we normally do, or the interviews. No news stories or all that make. Just the two of us in the back of a truck, rolling […]

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Episode 91 – What Does the Pup Say?

So there’s this hottie. He lives in Seattle now with his pup. He kisses really well, and it’s really hot to make out with him. We invited him and his pup to do the show with us tonight! It turns out he’s good with his mouth … on a mic, too. Kognition and his pup […]

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Episode 90 – AOL Inches

As modern kinky gay and bi men, we need to have profiles in “personals” web sites and apps if we want to get laid. It’s how guys connect with potential playmates. When you’re in those web sites, the first impression other guys have of you is in your profile, both what you write and the […]

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Episode 89 – Alphas

For this episode, we welcome back Bouncer Pup. You may remember him from way back in Episode 05, when he had recently won the title of Mr. West Coast Rubber 2013. This time he brought another fun puppy with him. Kodiak is Bouncer’s Alpha. We had a lot of fun talking with them and finding […]

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Episode 88 – It’s Only Gay if Your Balls Touch

If you’ve ever wanted to know about the straight kink scene, now is your chance! Dave is a polyamorous straight kinkster who is Drew’s best friend, and he joins us to talk about his history and kink interests. We also explore a bunch of the differences between the gay and straight kink scenes. (And frat […]

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Episode 87 – Let’s Do Brunch (TauntonGuy Part 2)

In our last episode, we talked with Stephen about exploring his lycra, rubber, and watersports kinks with his husband Jason (aka Jay), and Jay earning the title of Mr. International Rubber. We pick up the story with Jay’s all-too-brief experience as MIR. We also discover in this episode that Stephen really likes brunch. Show Notes […]

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