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Episode 206 – Newfoundcock

Description of Show

We are talking with one of our listeners, MaskdCat, about the challenges organizing events for kink groups.

Show Notes

    • Douche Pickle of the Week: Caitlyn Jenner…and this:
  • Our guest, MaskdCat, talks about spandex, rubber, and how he even gets into different headspaces with the different materials.
  • Professional wrestling: a gateway drug to kink?
  • Talking about Toronto and the scene there, notably TORN – Toronto Ontario Rubbermen Network
  • How can organizations manage fundraising without being seen as asking folks too often for money? Sparky makes the point that clearly communicating the reason why funds are being raised is crucial.
  • Organizational drama: What are the issues that affect all organizations?
    • Some give their time too freely and others don’t at all.
    • Knowing the motivations of different members can be helpful, but it’s not a question to ask in a public meeting setting
    • To avoid the risk of burnout, Sparky talks about the importance of clearly-written by-laws that lay out the responsibilities of each officer of the organization as well as clearly stating the purpose of the group.
    • Working smarter and not harder: Invest time in reducing repetitive tasks.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Holy Trainer Chastity Cock Cage.

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About our Guest

MaskdCat is a luchador kitty with fetishes for spandex, rubber, and many other types of hoods and gear. It all started with a wrestling mask at a young age, and things escalated from there.

Currently residing in the Toronto area, he is also one of the organizers for the Toronto Rubbermen, a social group who promote an inclusive space for rubbermen to socialize and celebrate life in rubber.

He can be found on Twitter under the @MaskdCat handle, and he also has a tumblr with plenty of gear smut at maskdcat.tumblr.com

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Episode 204 – The Postman Cometh

Description of Show

Time to open up the ole (e)mail bag! Sparky and Daddy Tony read listener messages and discuss everything from leaving quickly after sex to pansexuality.

Show Notes

  • Now What? Yes, Trump fatigue has set in a bit. Fight that feeling by supporting the organizations that support us. This week, we feature Planned Parenthood.It isn’t just for women! Donate or see how you can take action in support of Planned Parenthood.
  • Leaving for Las Vegas (and other places.) Kink.com is leaving San Francisco.
  • Half-Night Stands: Maybe the rest of the world is finally catching up with gay men.
  • Older kinksters are (still) awesome. Sparky and Daddy Tony read a listener message thanking us for Episode 161 – Into Older? It Depends and talk about good times with older gentlemen in younger days.
  • Barebacking love from a latex allergy? Our second listener message wonders if they knew about their latex allergy sooner and started using polyurethane condoms, then maybe they would not have been so much into barebacking.
  • Positive Depictions of Kink in Film. A British listener lets us know that one example of a kink-positive scene in a film would be a Spanish film called Bear Cub.
  • Our Listeners…Their Cocks. We love appreciative listeners…and their dick pics.
  • A Non-Binary Queer Male Reaches Out. This listener thanks us for Episode
    57 – Leland
    and laments the lack of resources for those of pansexual orientation online and looks for a sense of community.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Stump n’ Dump.

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Episode 201 – I See Bootblack Part 2

Description of Show

For this episode we continue the discussion with Patrick about is side job doing phone sex work, and move on to some discussion about the intersection of age and kink culture. This is going to be a highly fun episode that you are not going to want to miss!

About Our Guest

boy Patrick is a queer, switch femme, otter. A native of Dallas, he has a huge passion for leather and fetish wear care. Patrick is all about education and empowerment when it comes to kink, both in and out of the dungeon. Through education and experience we are able to expand our abilities to give and receive pleasure.

Patrick is one of the bootblacks at the Dallas Eagle. He is also the current International Community Bootblack. He thrives off of presence and sharing energy with anyone who will engage with him, on or off the stand. Patrick believes that through this presence we can build bridges between communities, develop a better understand of our history and present, and most importantly connect with one another on a deeper level.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Fetters Sit Sling 

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Episode 201 – I See Bootblack Part 1

Description of Show

Our guest, boy Patrick, talks to us about bootblacking and how it relates both to his personal sexuality and to the broader community. boy Patrick also discusses his other career as a phone sex operator and Daddy Tony roleplays as a “typical” client. Stay tuned for the second part for the next episode where we talk about age and kink.

Show Notes

In the News

About Our Guest

boy Patrick is a queer, switch femme, otter. A native of Dallas, he has a huge passion for leather and fetish wear care. Patrick is all about education and empowerment when it comes to kink, both in and out of the dungeon. Through education and experience we are able to expand our abilities to give and receive pleasure.

Patrick is one of the bootblacks at the Dallas Eagle. He is also the current International Community Bootblack. He thrives off of presence and sharing energy with anyone who will engage with him, on or off the stand. Patrick believes that through this presence we can build bridges between communities, develop a better understand of our history and present, and most importantly connect with one another on a deeper level.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Fetters Sit Sling 

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Episode 200 – We Are 200

Holy shit, somehow we made it to 200 of these damn things! We hope you are as excited as we are that we hit this milestone (though in truth you probably aren’t, but it is still cool)!

For this episode we start off with presenting a little award to a friend of the show. We did this because she has been going through a lot, and through it all she still supports the community, her family, and our show. So right at the beginning we present this award to Mistress Pixie Fyre (on previously in Episode 165 Mistress Fyre and Episode 190 Cum Unity). And here is a pic of the award we presented to her:

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Then it was time to get the show proper, and we did something completely different this time. You are just going to have to have a listen to believe it!

Here is to another 200 episodes!

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Puppy Hood Custom Colors.

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Episode 199 – Yes Means Anal

 

With so much in the news lately about consent, we thought we would tackle this often misunderstood and very touchy subject!

Show Notes

News Links

Topics

  • What is consent
  • How do you get it
  • When are you not getting
  • How much do kinksters thing about consent
  • Playing with the blurred lines

About Our Guests

It is just Sparky & DFT this time.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Puppy Hood Custom Colors.

 

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Episode 198 – Tykables

Long time friend of the show suggested that we talk with a friend of his, Tod from Tykables. If you are not familiar with Tykables, you should go to their website: https://tykables.com/

They have a wide range of items for ABDL’s out there, such as diapers, onsies, jeans, and much more. Tod is a great guy that we really enjoyed getting to know, and if you are a friend of any ABDL you are going to find great gifts here. Our favorite are the black and yellow diapers, they are pretty damn hot! !

Show Notes

News Links

Topics

  • Listener Letter #1 – Past attendee to a podcast has a question about chastity
  • Listener Letter #2 – Past guest gives some info about infection rates and the relation to PREP
  • ABDLs and their growth in the community
  • Crossover with other fetishes and kinks

About Our Guests

We at Tykables agree that we must all grow old, but we maintain that growing up is optional. We bring to market items from our and your childhood in adult sizes. Starting with where it all began, diapers.

We are an adult baby owned company that strives to bring the best adult baby diapers and adult baby products to the market.  We are always thinking of new products that will better suit the adult baby and diaper lover ABDL market.  Our products are top quality and sold at affordable prices. We ship our products in discreet packaging via the most economical, yet fastest way possible.

We incorporated on February 14, 2014.  September 2014 our first product, the Waddler went on sale at Folsom Street Fair. We were the first and still only ABDL company to attend Folsom Street Fair.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Blackout Gas Mask.

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Episode 197 – Got it Covered

Description of Show

Don’t be silly, wrap your willy! Today’s show is all about condoms! We talk about how condoms are received by the community, how they impact play and what we can do to improve our safe sex practices.

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Growing up in a condom
  • Who’s bare? Why?

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

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This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Heavy Duty Sleeveless Tee – $129.95.

 

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Episode 196 – Savage Rebroadcast

Hey all, this is actually a rebroadcast of the first episode we had with Dan Savage. You see recently both Daddy Tony & Sparky work on the Savage Lovecast to help answer some kink related questions! You can find that episode at: http://www.savagelovecast.com/episodes/527

We thought we would repost the episode when he was one with us way back when and hope you don’t notice the difference in the audio quality (I still hate those old mics, grrrrr).

And we will be back soon with some great episode!


 

When we asked Dan Savage  to join us on the show, we were floored when he said yes! He joined us for our regular Friday night recording to do a 2 hour show. We talked to him about how he first got started with his column as well as his new book! (Find Dan’s Book, American Savage, on Amazon)

His book talks about Faith, Sex, Love and Politics, so we came up questions about each one of those topics to pose to Dan. And in Part 2 we will have some questions from listeners who wanted to ask Dan some advice questions. We also get a chance to talk to him about the It Gets Better Project.

We also mention on the show Tynan Fox’s current effort to open an inclusive coffee shop using a kickstarter, you can find out more about it at: http://www.tynanfox.com/2013/08/-latte.html.

Show Notes

 In the News

About Our Guest

Dan Savage is a sex advice columnist, activist, author, and podcaster from Seattle. Listen to his podcast The Savage Lovecast and read his writing on The Stranger at The Savage Love and SLOG.

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Ungagged Episode 18 – Just the Tip

The Puppies are joined by the very fun and adorable Martini from Chicago, and they launch into a big discussion about Foreskin Restoration. Martini has talked with Drew over time about the subject. And one of the fun ways we explore it is because Mikey hasn’t really thought much about restoring of foreskins on guys, so we are exploring the subject from the eyes of a newbie!

This is a fun way to jump into this grown fascination so many guys are picking up!

Show Notes

Topics

  • We play a game of Fortunately/Unfortunately, you won’t believe this one
  • Foreskin Restoration
    • Why do men do this?
    • What was Martini’s experience with it and why he started it
    • Why is it so prevalent to be cut, especially in the USA
    • The scent of a dick! YUM!
  • How restoration works
    • Is it even possible?
    • Is it painful to do?
    • Success stories?
    • Devices that are available
  • The movements to stop circumcision

Show Links

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Cone of Shame.

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Episode 195 – Oh Hell No

Nothing more to say today other than this episode is all about the aftermath.

Hold on to your butts!

 

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Shoulder to Wrist Restraints.

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Episode 194 – Bad Rep

Today we explore reputation in the kink community, sorting the gossip from the fact, building good standing yourself and ways that it impacts our thoughts and feelings. We discuss how do you treat people’s information, stories and facts shared with you.

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Trump… this time for your feet
  • What’s the difference between reputation and style conflicts
  • How to suss out someone’s reputation
  • What to share and how to share it
  • Fact checking
  • Things and people change

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Japanese Clover Nipple Clamps

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Ungagged Episode 17 – Consensual Nonconsensuality

The Puppies know you sometimes like it a little rough, don’t you? Yeah you do! The puppies jump into a discussion about giving permission to your play partner for a the ultimate in consensual non-consensual play; kidnap scenes. How do you do these kinds of scenes? What are the challenges? Are there ways to make a kidnap scene work that isn’t going to get you landed in jail?

Of course, we are talking all about the fantasy of kidnap scenes, with consensual adults choosing this type of play.

Show Notes

Topics

  • Services that provide kidnap type scenes
    • Extreme Kidnapping
    • Jail Training Center – AKA the Academy
  • Daddy Tony & Sparky’s experiences with doing this type of play
  • Mikey wants to be kidnapped!
  • Fantasy vs Reality

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Inflatable Gag Tube with Head Strap.

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Episode 193 – Sister Roma

Description of Show

Porn, prevention, and propositions – OH MY!  Today Sparky and Daddy Tony talk with their special guest Sister Roma from the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence all about being a sister, the works that they have done in the past and currently, and Prop. 60 in California, and the reasons why it would be disastrous for both the porn industry and safety across the board!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Sisters are doin’ it for themselves!  Oh, and the community.
  • #MyNameIs – Facebook and identities
  • Prop 60 – The hidden possibilities behind the language
  • Porn and prevention – how they go hand in hand

About Our Guest

January 2017 will mark Roma’s 30th year as one of the most active and widely recognized Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, dedicating more than half her life to community service, activism and fundraising. Roma can be found hosting events from coast to coast and around the globe. Check her out online on YouTube and all social media platforms @SisterRoma.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Long Worm – Square Peg – $139.95.

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