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Episode 253 – On The Rocks

Description of Show

Today’s show features our beloved pups from Ungagged Pup Brutus and Pup Boner, a.k.a. Drew and Mikey, as our guests today.

 Show Notes

  • In the News
  • A Listener Letter
    • The listener asks a very important question: when does domination go too far, especially for the sub, and when it is time for the sub to end the relationship?
    • It goes without saying, but if your life is in danger or you may harm yourself, call 911 and get yourself removed from that situation. Go to http://www.thehotline.org if you or a loved one are in danger.
    • Subs, you have a choice, and it is okay to step away from your relationship with your Dom.
    • If you are a Dom, you must be able to listen actively and effectively. You should not be a Dom otherwise.
    • To this particular listener, most of all, we hope you can talk to someone else about all this – from a simple friend to even a professional.
    • Being by yourself is also a perfectly awesome option, so there is always a choice.

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Ungagged Episode 31 – Poppin’ the Shopping Cherry

 

Description of Show

Today the boys talk all about collars, their meaning and symbolism, the good and the bad!

Show Notes

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Episode 252 – Bromosexual

Description of Show

Today’s show is about bromosexuals and their interactions with the general kink community.

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
    • A lot is happening, but how about that…
  • In the News
  • Bromosexuals
    • The mystique of straight guys to gay men
    • The kink community is not just gay people, so straight guys and gay men do mix it up sometimes
    • There are straight guys in kink who actually prefer to be in the gay male scene since they have better gear
    • Still, can a guy be straight and enjoy occasional sex with another man? Have we grown out of labels for sexuality?

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Episode 251 – Yes Safeword

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Today’s show features Bobby Higley – Seattle’s Big, Queer Comic & Producer

 Show Notes

  • In the News
  • Our Guest Today – Bobby Higley
    • Recently produced Safeword
    • Raised Mormon, so not the happiest childhood
    • Found comedy at 18, and has been in the business since
    • Kinks are most definitely funny. Comedy can easily occur.
    • Amidst all the (necessary) rules of kink being welcoming to everyone, kink is still fun.
    • Bobby is active in queer stand-up comedy
    • His company, Gutter Twink Productions, can be found on Facebook.

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Episode 250 – Letters and Words

Description of Show

News and letters from listeners.

 Show Notes

  • A Few Letters from Listeners
    • The guys get some kudos for their Missouri accents, and relay a few interesting stories about the Midwest.
    • From the Midwest to the South, this listener asks the guys for advice on how to get a house slave. He also brings up a kink that the guys haven’t talked about much.

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Episode 249 – Is That Wrong?

Description of Show

The guys take on a variety of topics.

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
    • Roseanne is back it seems. Daddy Tony has some interesting other things he would rather watch.
  • In the News
  • Let’s Open Our Telegram Messages
    • A very hot topic in our forum discussed puppies who happen to be female.
      • The discussion in Telegram could have been more civil, so avoid name-calling there, please.
      • While the pup community is overwhelmingly male, it does not mean puppies cannot be female. We are *all* free to be who we want to be.
      • It does create the issue of those puppies who would prefer to mosh with their own sex. There should be spaces at public mosh events where opposite-sex moshing is designated to happen.
      • Personal preferences are nothing to apologize about, and a cis-male pup having a private party can invite only male-identified pups.
      • At a public mosh in a public space, sex is normally not allowed, so anyone of any cis-gender should be able to attend, while attendees there have the right to choose who they get on the mat with.
      • Still, obnoxious and loud behavior is disruptive, no matter what gender it comes from.

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Episode 247 – Gender Schmender

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Today’s very special guest is Sister PussyWillow and she will discuss transgender and how they interact with the different kink communities.

 Show Notes

  • Our Guest Today – Sister PussyWillow
    • Transgender and the general kink community. Sister will give us some insight.
    • Pronouns. Always important.
    • With our guest, all three of us are Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, so they all talk about gender and being a Sister.
    • Talking of BDSM and Trans, what can the “typical” leather guy do to make Trans people more welcome?
    • The immortal line between a personal preference and being phobic of a community.
      • Where does it lie between a gay cisgendered male who is not attracted to female genitalia, and a trans man who has female genitalia?
      • Must a gay cisgendered male accept every invitation to sex with a trans man out of fear of being called transphobic?
      • Are personal preferences allowed?
    • Let’s go: RuPaul and the banning of trans women from RuPaul’s Drag Race (which Ru ended up rescinding the ban and apologizes.)
      • Will Ru recover from this, or is this time a step too far?
      • If things do go negative, does Ru still need to suffer a full shunning, or maybe just less attention?
      • What about drag and its general prohibition to cisgendered females (while trans men doing female drag does not seem to be a problem?)
    • The unfortunately-common question to trans males who do female drag: Why did you transition to male if you like to wear dresses?

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Episode 245 -Swinging Dead Squirrels

Description of Show

Daddy Tony is back and we take this time to read a listener’s letter.

 Show Notes

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Episode 244 – DFT Down

Today we have a special episode to give an update on where Daddy Tony is at right now. He has been dealing with some health issues and we were not able to record on our normal schedule while he recovers. Send all the best possible love and energy his way.

 

 

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Episode 243 – News and jizz

Description of Show

Today’s show opens up to our listeners and the messages they have sent us.

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
    • Blech. *sigh*
  • In the News
  • Listener Letters
    • One of our listeners asks if it is acceptable to the kink community to have experience being a sub to be a Sir?
      • It is “acceptable” as anything involving consenting adults is “acceptable.”
      • Not everyone may be accepting of you personally, of course.
      • Still, you can do your research online if experience hasn’t taught you. You won’t be perfect of course.
      • Being a Dom requires responsibility…or at least being a good Dom does.
      • Still, a newbie Dom should still go to kink events out-of-town and seek out advice from other Doms with more experience.
    • Another listener questions the worthiness of health care providing anti-viral medication who are bug chasers.
      • We are all worthy, even if some of us have faults.
      • Should smoking, overeating, and other factors also make us “unworthy” of health care?
      • Anti-viral medications are expensive…up to $4,000/month. Still, at least in the US, the drug manufacturer provides financial assistance for most who cannot afford it, both directly from them and through state-level programs that the manufacturer donates to.
      • We in the gay community already experience marginalization. We need to try very hard not to marginalize others, especially aimed at our own community.

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Ungagged Episode 29 – The Doghouse

Description of Show

After game time with Sparky and Daddy Tony, the puppers talk about building your own playspace.

Show Notes

  • Game Time with Sparky and Daddy Tony
    • A game of “define the phobia.” Given a phobia term, describe what it means.
  • Building out your space
    • Dual-use spaces
      • Playroom and (any other room)
      • Lots of spaces like an office, living room, etc. could be a playroom
    • A playspace also is about what is seen before you get to the playspace…so look at your place as a whole.
    • A playspace can look like anything. There are no rules…make it look like what makes you most comfortable and not anyone else.
    • Music is also very important during a scene in a playroom
      • Music gets you away from reality
      • Put on what you want!
    • Furniture for everyday use can also be dual-purpose
      • Look for solidly-built furniture. IKEA will not work and is way too cheaply-built.
      • Hide places that can be used as anchor points
    • The sense of smell – how does your room smell?
      • Find a type of incense or a spray deodorizer that you love, and ONLY use it in that room.
      • Your playroom will smell like your playroom and get you in the mood just by the smell of your playroom.
    • Lighting your playspace
      • LED light strips. You don’t have to get the Philips Hue brand. There are other choices that even are compatible with Hue.
      • Check out Amazon. They have many choices of course.

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Episode 242 – Chasing Bugs Part 2

Description of Show

On today’s show the guys continue their discussion on bug chasers.

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
    • The shutdown. It’s 2018. Take action – get informed, get registered, and VOTE.
  • In the News
  • More About Bug Chasing
    • As with the last episode, refer again to this article.
    • Whenever a kink risks the health of the individual, then we do have to think about their mental health.
    • Getting to that person’s motivation for participating in self-destructive behavior is very important. Is this kink helping them or hurting them (permanently?)
    • Bug chasing is not a kink, to the extent that it is not recognized by other people into kink.
    • The guys do think we should tread carefully about shutting down communication with someone into bug chasing. We should be non-judgmental and open to sharing information with them.
    • It is hard to be completely non-judgmental. Maybe it is better to say to them that you do not have a full understanding of their kink but are willing to listen to them.

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Episode 241 – Chasing Bugs

Description of Show

Today’s show discusses the kink of bug chasing. Is it the taboo of taboo sex?

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
    • Trump, racism, Mike Pence’s preferences, etc.
  • In the News
  • Bug Chasing
    • This article introduces bug chasing, or the kink of an HIV-negative person who desires to acquire HIV. Do HIV exposure laws add to the kink?
    • HIV exposure laws, many of them passed over 30 years ago, need reform. California has recently lowered this crime from a felony to a misdemeanor.
    • How would a bug chaser’s kink change after they become HIV-positive?
    • Does this fetishization of HIV-positive people come from a place of stigmatizing HIV-positive people?
    • Some bug chasers talk about their fetish being about risky, taboo sex that is no different than other sorts of taboo sex.
    • Some others view bug chasing is a form of mental illness or a fetish that should never be encouraged.
    • The guys don’t necessary view it in either extreme. It is more of struggle for them to understand the kink.
    • Definitely there is much more to talk about, and the guys may address it again in a future show.

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Episode 238 – Whatever, Mistress!

Description of Show

Today’s show features Portland’s very own Ginger Vixen Mistress Pixie Fyre (on previously in Episode 200 We are 200Episode 165 Mistress Fyre and Episode 190 Cum Unity).

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
  • In the News
  • Our Guest Today – Mistress Pixie Fyre
    • Mistress Pixie talks about the role of protocol in her personal life, both sexual and non-sexual.
    • The best kind of service between a Dom and the sub is a two-way street
      • For example, the Dom can show a special kind of acknowledgement to a sub’s service as part of the protocol.
    • How is protocol established and effectively remembered?
      • Communication
      • Writing down those protocols agreed upon
      • Do it every time, every day
      • Checking back in with each other if a protocol is still beneficial to both parties
    • Protocol can occasionally lapse.
      • Understanding toward the other person is so important
      • If their life is super-busy or stressful, talk to them about it
      • Putting aside some protocols as a break may be necessary
    • The link between the Dom and the sub through protocol can be a great comfort in times of crisis. Mistress Pixie relates her battle with cancer this year and talks about how meaningful that is in times of crisis.
    • Service is not always fun for both sides of the power equation. Mistress Pixie talks about those kind of services, but an emphasis should be placed on services that are beneficial to the household or to the sub themselves.
    • Hey subs, you can give suggestions to your Dom (politely requested of course!) Offer your ideas to Them on ways to serve that will be fun for both of you.

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