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Episode 234 – Match Game Again

It is that time of year again. In celebration of DFT’s birthday we have a party in the studio with a bunch of friends and play Match Game. This year we had a bit of a theme! Sisters!

First, our special guest contestant was my own real life Sister, Beth! She was up for a visit and got to experience a house full of friends and frolic! Well, not so much frolic, because that would be weird. She was one of the contestants for the game, squaring off with my best friend from college, Antonio! At one time he was kind of like a sister to me too, but that is for another time

And our panel this year was Sisters as well. Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence. the Abbey of St Joan. We put together a panel, including DFT aka Gladys Pantzaroff, plus five more sisters.

Not a lot to this episode other than some good clean fun!

*Warning* controlling levels during a party is difficult, especially when some people where loud near the mics. We recommend that you listen with someone other than earbuds.

 

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Ungagged Episode 27 – That Sweet OC

Description of Show

This episode talks about how to create original online content.

Show Notes

  • In the News – Craigslist Missed Connections!
    • You only need to grab a hammer to be Thor
    • Seven foot tall unicorn really misses his honey in the black tutu
    • A skinny skeleton gets some smooth talk
    • Aquaman resists his new-look image
    • Straight male shows off for Chun Li
    • He had him at “no homo”
    • Mimes go all altruistic
    • A moment of love shared over pink thongs
    • Lets go back to the barn
  • How to Produce Online Content
    • What is your motivation for making content?
      • Just wanting to share your experiences?
      • Want to have fans?
      • Make money?
    • Just be advised that it is a lot of work to make good original content.
    • Different types of content to be made: review sites, educational sites, porn, advice on kink.
    • How will you deliver your content? Written content, podcast, or video can be delivered in many different ways. Make your own website with a hosting company or using services like YouTube?
    • Be careful with different services that you are not violating their terms of service, especially with adult content.
    • Your content will always benefit from being tastefully presented, so get advice on website design and even have an overall branding approach professionally done.
    • Sometimes you can team-up with others in presenting original content. If you have website creation abilities, you can always partner with others who is good at creating content or have the means to create content.
    • Making high-quality content does require high-quality equipment.
    • Good content creation also requires one to be able to do many things well…all at once.
    • Prepare yourself for the haters: You will get lots of criticism, some good, and a lot delivered in the rudest way possible.
    • Think also about legal issues. How will you organize yourself as a company? Will your content open you to legal issues…like adult content? Talk to a lawyer to get the best advice.
    • Be organized. Lots of things will be going on, and being organized is key, especially when you need to deliver content on a regular basis.
    • Look into content delivery platforms like WordPress and its seemingly infinite number of plugins that will let you add features to your website…like an online store.
    • Since you will now be using a megaphone, be aware that you can create unintended drama.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature Neo Black Sweatpants.

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Episode 233 – Yum my Yuk

Description of Show

Today on the podcast…yums…and yuks…and the men who love them.

 Show Notes

  • What Now? 
  • In the News
  • Don’t Yuk My Yum – Kink shaming
    • Is there ever a time that it is okay to shame someone’s kink?
      • Anything involving non-consensual acts or involving those who cannot consent.
      • Anything causing permanent physical disability.
    • So is there a way to politely or altruistically yuk someone’s yum?
    • There are borderline cases where every individual has the right to make up their own mind about it. Examples being “playing Nazi” or racial play.
    • Still, a yuk definitely can become a yum – since a yuk really has more to it than you think.

Join our Telegram chat!  https://t.me/joinchat/DKke0gfuG6RhFZQ91FnK2w

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature Neoprene Cyber Pants and Tee! The tee is $119.95 and the pants are $189.95.

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Episode 232 – United Nations of Kinkdom

Description of Show

For this episode, we have a discussion with a group live from the UK on Skype during Manchester Leather Weekend!

Show Notes

  • How are the kink scenes different between the US and the UK?
  • Are there differences in the ways drug use is looked at and the drugs that are used?
  • Is Europe more “cosmopolitan” in general over the United States?
  • What about the use of PreP in the UK?
  • While the leather community and the rubber/latex community tend to be in the same group in the US, how does that differ in the UK?
  • Is the Sister community in the UK as much a crossover to kink as it is in the US?
  • What about the (non-racist) skinhead community in the UK and why is it more prevalent there than in the US?
  • Line dancing and lesbians in the UK??!!
  • Are women a big presence in the kink scene in the UK?
  • Does (country) size matter? DT Tony and Sparky talk about how the compactness of Europe makes a difference.

Guest

DT Tony lives in Chester, U.K., near Manchester and Liverpool. He is into BDSM, CP, face fucking, BC, gloves, oral, anal, CBT, TT, milking, dildos, electro, gags, leather, rubber, and so much more.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Stainless Steel Ass Hook, just $139.95:

 

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Episode 231 – Absolutely

Description of Show

We all hear those rules that are tossed out there regularly. The rules that say you must absolutely never this or you must always do that. But is that really in line with having kink lifestyle, where you are exploring the boundaries of sex on a regular basis? And does it help?

 Show Notes

 

Guest

We are joined by our long time friend of the show: Educator, blogger, international raconteur, midnight rider, bondage slut puppy, Master Dart!

Dart has loved bondage and kink for many years. He started out as a sub and now nothing turns his crank more than being a muscled up sub roped at his mercy. He embraces the idea of being a part of the “New Guard” of leather and using kink to feel GOOD and have FUN! He stays active playing/judging/teaching/performing at leather and BDSM events around the country. He lives near Atlanta with his partner Bart. Find him at his blog Dart’s Domain.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Padded Fist Mitts, just $69.95:

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Episode 230 – Dental Damn

Description of Show

Let’s talk about news, news, and more news…including travel news from Daddy Tony.

 Show Notes

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Fleshlight Turbo Thrust, just $69.95:

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Episode 227 – Rock that Bawdy

Description of Show

This week we have the pleasure of talking to Dixie De La Tour, a sexual folklorist who is the creator, producer, and host of Bawdy Storytelling.

 Show Notes

  • What Now? 
    • The Southern Poverty Law Center has been watching and cataloguing our home grown hate groups since 1971. They need your help to keep track in this new era of a growth in extremist activity. Donate at donate.splcenter.org
  • Bawdy Storytelling
    • Known as The Moth for pervs
    • Show started 10 years ago in San Francisco, now also monthly in Seattle and touring different US cities
    • Upcoming September 2017 dates in Brooklyn, Baltimore, and Boston. Check bawdystorytelling.com for more upcoming dates.
    • There is a companion podcast available on the same platforms you find this cast.

 

About our Guest

Dixie De La Tour is a sexual folklorist, storyteller, entrepreneur, teacher, catalyst, coach, community builder, facilitator, & instigator (& that’s just for starters). She is the founder, curator & host of the award-winning sex and storytelling series, Bawdy Storytelling (“The nation’s original sex and storytelling series” – Playgirl, “The Moth for Pervs” – LA Weekly)

Called “a stiff shot of courage in a push-up bra”, Dixie is passionate about storytelling’s power to connect strangers. A former sex party producer & adult dating site community manager, she founded Bawdy Storytelling, a multi-city brand of sex-positive self advocacy that’s changing the world and making our relationships more authentic and accessible. Bawdy is hosting a national conversation about Sex and Kink as relayed through the personal stories told in the cities it visits – there is no better way to understand, empathize and accept than through storytelling!

As a storyteller, Dixie’s own dating stories can been heard on the Risk! podcast and her own Bawdy Storytelling podcast (which was selected by Esquire.com as a top 5 ‘Best Sex Podcast’) Ping her (she likes that) at @Bawdy, facebook.com/DixieDeLaTour & at www.BawdyStorytelling.com

 

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Tailpipe Chastity cock cage and ass plug.

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Ungagged Episode 25 – Mellow Yellow

Description of Show

The pups spend this show discussing things piss play related! And this little piggy went we-we-we all the way home!

Show Notes

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature Versatile Phone Holder.

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Episode 226 – Mentors, the Fresh Maker

Description of Show

The guys spend the show discussing mentorship: being one and how to find one.

 Show Notes

  • What Now? 
  • In the News
  • Mentorship can be an explicit or an implicit relationship
    • There is always the explicit Sir/boy type of relationship
    • On the other hand, some mentors do not even realize they are mentors
  • Has mentorship, over time, gone down because of the Internet?
  • Mentorship does not have to be just “showing someone the ropes.” Mentors can also impart more advanced knowledge to those who are not beginners.
  • Being a mentor is not about acting like a superior person. Authenticity is extremely important, not putting on airs.
  • Seeking a mentor:
    • Carefully consider who your mentors will be.
    • As said before, it does not have to be an explicitly-stated thing. Just being around that person is sufficient. In other words, no awkward, formal request to a potential mentor is necessary.
  • What do you look for in a mentor? Send us a message at info@nosafeword.com and let us talk about it.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Jock Holster Bone, just $89.95:

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Episode 225 – We are back!

Description of Show

We are back! To avoid pulling something (ahem) we are going to hear from our listeners and provide feedback.

 Show Notes

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Locking Waist Belt, just $139.95:

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Ungagged Episode 24 – The More the Merrier

Description of Show

The pups spend this show discussing group sex, group dynamics, and how to make your group experiences the best they can.

Show Notes

  • In the News
  • Group Sex
    • The pups start out small and talk about threesomes.
      • Are two-as-a-team strictly pleasuring the other the best way to have a threesome?
      • A common reason against any group sex: too much going on and too much concentration needed.
    • Play parties
      • The mood of each party can be very different…so keep your expectations reasonable.
      • With lots of other scenes going on around you, it can be a problem if you are easily distracted by sound.
      • There is always going to be a better chance of drama when more people are involved, so be ready and be calm.
      • If it is a party of 8 or more people, then be sure the party has a separate, more social space.
      • Reasonable expectations, but have some expectations and have a plan of how to make that happen.
      • How do you deal with the guy who won’t take no for an answer? Be direct. Try to be polite, but say it in no uncertain terms..

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature Saddle Soap.

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Episode 224 – Sir Yes Sir

This episode is a rebroadcast of Episode 99.

 

Being a gay kinky pup in the military can be a bit of a balancing act.  Thankfully, it is much less of an issue today than it has been in years past.  In this episode, we talk with three of our fellow kinksters who are or have served in the military: Pup Jimmy, who is currently on active duty as a reservist; Skuff Pup who was recently in the Marine Corps; and Daddy Tony, who served wayback in the Navy.  We talked about some of the differences in how gay men were treated in the military over the years and how Jimmy balances his work, gay, and kink lives while on active duty.  There’s some good stuff here you don’t want to miss!

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Serving in the military
  • Differences in the treatment of gay men in different military generations
  • Kinky while on active duty
  • Fooling around in the service

About Our Guests

Pup Jimmy

Jimmy Basset is a young Soldier in the Army reserves, out to and accepted by his closest battle buddies.  His battle buddies often accuse him of being “you kinky fuck” but they have no idea of the specifics or just how right they are. He was recently adopted by pup Tank and welcomed into that family by Tank’s other beta, Ace. Still new to the wide world of kink and the Atlanta kink scene, he’s having the time of his life making new friends in the community and learning what really gets him going. Often seen at the Atlanta Eagle on gear nights, there is no telling what he’ll be wearing or who will be scritching him.

You can find Jimmy Basset on Facebook at BlueBeaglePup on Recon as madein88 or around Atlanta in person.

Skuff Pup

Skuff Pup is an Alpha, bottom boy, big brother, and sometimes handler, living in the greater Seattle area. A long time member of the kink community, he moved to the Pacific Northwest from Florida in 2009, though he is an Arkansas native. Skuff’s primary kink is ABDL and age play as well as a part of the furry community. He is the resident Queerbilly (just a country pup at heart), an Australian Shepherd to be exact, and can be seen herding up the strays in his boots and Wranglers. Skuff is a Staff Sergeant in the United States Marine Corps, active duty from 1996-2007, and is now retired from active duty, but with the right boy, the SNCO has been known to make an appearance. Skuff loves scritches, leather, rubber, bondage, gas mask play (instant boner for those!), snuggling, and chasing RC cars and is an avid outdoors/camping pup. He also contributes to the NoSafeWord show by running the tumblr page. He was sidelined from play for over a year because of a spinal injury/surgery, but is well on the mend and back in action! So shoot him a message, he won’t bite. Well, maybe just a little..
You can find Skuff on Twitter as @Skuffpup, on Facebook as Skuff.pup and of course, shoot him an email at Skuff@nosafeword.com

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Neoprene Gas Mask Hood.

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Episode 223 – Covering Recover Rebroadcast

This is a rebroadcast of Episode 51

 

Boy Josh is new to Seattle and has been on the road to recovery from past drug addictions that was a big part of his life as a part of early kink experiences. He is now on the road of recovery and was willing to share his story.

Drugs are a part of American life in general, and all of us have had to deal with drugs as a part of our kink life. Be it trying ourselves or knowing others who use or have used. And we all have different levels of what is acceptable and not when it comes to drugs being a part of play.

So having a honest, open communication about how drugs affected one person, in this case with Boy Josh, we get to explore what the impact of drugs can be to us all.

We thank Josh for talking with us about his very personal journey!

Show Notes

 In the News

 

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Episode 222 – Daddy Fucking Giggles Rebroadcast

This is a rebroadcast of Episode 37

 

Only because it is legal in Washington, Daddy Tony and Sparky decided to imbibe a certain cookie at the beginning of the show to see if we could make it through. We did… sorta. Barely.

If you want to understand the name of the show, listen to the end through the credits. A little extra for ya all.

We had a lot to cover as you can see from the show notes, and we had a great time doing it. Can’t wait for the next one!

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Wacky tobacky cookies
  • While we were away, On the road for work
  • Sergio
  • Working late at night
  • Damien’s BBC
  • Northwest Puppy Contest
  • Atlanta Play Party
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