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Ungagged Episode 13 – Flipbook Families

Show Notes

Topics

  • General Kink Trivia Game
    • Damien versus Drew
  • Managing Poly Relationships
    • Why would you want to go poly
    • Creating new experiences
    • What are the challenges of a poly relationship
      • Communication
      • Roles & Labels
      • Moods
    • Monogomy and jealousy
    • Adding new people to the Polycule
    • Removing people from the Polycule

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Howler Muzzle Light Gray.

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Episode 184 – Listening to the Listeners

Daddy Tony and Sparky open up the mailbag this week to talk about your listener letters!  After busting a load to the dick pics sent in by our awesome listeners, Sparky and Daddy get around to answering your questions about everything from rubber gear, loud sex, and some awesome throwbacks to some earlier episodes!

Show Notes

In the News

Topic – Listener Letters!

  • Is there non-latex rubber gear?
  • CAN you be as loud as the hell you want when you’re making love?!
  • What does undetectable actually mean and does that mean unsafe sex is OK?
  • OMG, we’ve been discovered!!  It’s happening for us!!
  • Dealing with body changes and rocking your own energy! (and you owe us a dick pic, Trekboy008!)

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the The Handler Collar and Gag!.

Mr. S Leather — The Handler Collar & Gag

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Episode 183 – Piss Play

The indomitable Pup Nitro joins us in the shower this week for an episode answering your questions on piss play. Get wet with us on this episode and prepare to guzzle down some knowledge!

Show Notes

Topics

About our Guest

Bryson “Pup Nitro” Hankinson
International Leatherboy 2011

In 2006, he moved to Atlanta where he met Sir Alan Penrod and began to discover his “Leather Heart”.  Nearly a year later he earned his collar and was given his pup name, “NITRO” (Needs Intense Torture to Reach Orgasm).  Nitro is currently the President of Panther L/L, and is a Co-Founder of the Hotlanta Rubber and Gear Club. He is the co-owner of Southeast Black and Blue, LLC, and co-producer of Atlanta Leather Pride. He has held the titles of Mr. Hotlanta Rubber 2008, Southeast Leatherboy 2011, and International Leatherboy 2011. Nitro teaches BDSM and Leather Lifestyle classes on a variety of topics and enjoys any play involving tight bondage, mummification, rubber/latex, electricity, cbt, and watersports. He also serves as a mentor to other boys, helping them find their voice within our beautifully diverse leather community.

Nitro has been with us a whole lot before, in Episode 138, Episode 130Episode 98, Episode 80Episode 62, and Episode 10.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Daddy’s Belt!

Mr. S Leather — Daddy’s Belt — $62.95

 

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Episode 182 – Pride Match Game

One of the ways in which we carry our message, which is all about making sure the fun is in our kink, is to stop for a moment and do something out-of-the-box. Well today, we forego the normal kink topics and do a show featuring a game of matching (cause I guess we shouldn’t call it the other thing or get into trouble). We had a BBQ of friends and asked a few to jump on the show with us to play our game.

I think that you are going to find it was a damn good time!

Happy Pride Month, everyone. We love you!

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Rigid Collar & Cuffs.

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Ungagged Episode 12 – Old Guard vs. New – Our Journeys

The puppies today have decided to talk about their personal perspectives about the different between Old Guard and New Guard. Now I know, another Old Guard versus New Guard, that has been done! But not like this, because they really focus on their own journey and how they have to come to find their place in the spectrum of guard (trademark).

You are going to find this to be a really great episode with some fun personal stories!

Show Notes

Topics

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Scream Hood.

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Episode 181 – We stand with Orlando

We here at the NoSafeWord Podcast decided that we would deviate from our normal format for the show in light of the horrific tragedy that happened in Orlando last night. The entire LGBT community today was the victim of terror, and the Orlando community itself is dealing with the terrible aftermath of this unconscionable act. We wanted to take a moment to share our thoughts and lend a voice of support to all our brothers & sisters out there during this difficult time.

We mentioned numerous articles and petitions on the show that we are providing to you now in the hopes that you will find them useful as well as give you the opportunity to lend your voice to the causes that may need your support as we wrestle with very difficult political questions this incident raises.

We love you and our community, and hope we all can heal together.

 

  • In the News
  •  Interesting quotes
    • Dan Savage tweeted: Stonewall 1969: cops rush into gay bar to arrest patrons. Pulse 2016: cops rush into gay bar to save patrons.
    • PerroMutt: It’s important to not let extreme fundamentalists dictate your life. Be yourself. Be in control #Pride
    • John Aravosis: I’d like someone to ask Cruz and Huckabee about the rally they attended not 6 months ago, where pastor called for gays to be put to death
    • Mary Bruce: This will be the 18th time Obama has delivered a statement following a mass shooting during his presidency.
    • Mike Huckabee: Please join Janet and me in praying for the victims of the Orlando attack and their families.

 

 

 

 

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Episode 180 – Like a Fine Wine…

Our good friend Kinkidiver is back and here to talk about how sometimes experience, knowledge, and history can be some of the sexiest features you’ll ever find in a guy, especially when it comes to BDSM!  Sparky, Daddy Tony, and Jeff tackle the topics of agism, what older gentlemen have to offer, and why being a hot young twink isn’t always everything!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Older guys do tend to have more experience and knowledge!
  • Many are experienced in mentoring – but some want to play too!
  • Body image and how to handle getting older
  • Experience-hunters
  • Dealing with energy levels and getting older

About our Guest

Kinkidiver has been happily tying guys up (and getting tied up himself) for many years. One of the NoSafeWord crew has known him for 18 years. He loves bondage, rubber, leather, and sports gear and is an all-around perv. Just our type!  You can find him as kinkidiver on Recon.  Kinkidiver was also on Episode 62.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Vector Ultra-Padded Straightjacket.

Mr. S Leather — Vector Ultra-Padded Straitjacket

We’re really excited about our new Vector Ultra-Padded Straitjacket. After months of testing and design updates we’re ecstatic with the end result.

This piece comes with full body padding in the front and back. The padding also extends to the arms and hands. With this extra cushioning your joints are well covered so you can stay in this comfortably for a long time.

This new design has a more fitted body so you’re going to look amazing in it too. We’ve also made the cockstraps much more comfortable. From the back it fits like your favorite jock would! Velcro closure at the back allows you to hold the straitjacket in place as you cinch it on your boy.

We’ve included numerous D-rings along the sides so you’ve got a lot of great tie down points. Just like our Deluxe Straitjacket this comes with an arms down option that allows you to use it like a sleepsack. Six belts lets you get your boy in just the right position for this feature. These same belts allows you to lock his arms back along with the pinion strap.

Bondage meets sexy in this hot new piece. Made right in the heart of SF by our devious production team. Come see it at IML this weekend and see why this may be one of the best straitjackets out there!

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Episode 178 – Kinky Boots

Daddy Tony and Sparky talk with Pup Jimmy all about erotic bootblacking!  Ever wondered what goes on inside a bootblacker’s brain?  We ask Pup Jimmy all about his approach to all things boots, from licking to caring for them.  Ever wondered how much to tip a bootblack?  What you can expect when you go for your first bootblacking?  Find out why getting your boots done can be better than a day at the spa!

Show Notes

Douchepickle of the Week

  • Target Bathroom Lady – it’s the Honey-Boo-Boo version of the Sound of Music.  Baroness von Cunt marches all of the von Cunt children over to the local Target to sing a song about perverts peeing in bathrooms.

In the News

Topics

  • How Pup Jimmy Got His Start in Erotic Bootblacking
  • Walking Through a Typical Bootblacking Experience
  • FAQ on BB  – From Tipping to Etiquette
  • Differences Between Erotic and Non-Erotic Bootblacking
  • How to Get Started in Bootblacking
  • Secrets of Bootblacking – Things They Don’t Want You To Know!

About Our Guest

Pup Jimmy is an Atlanta boot black and puppy. He boot blacks for fun and tips, but gives friends special treatment. It’s not always about the boots for him but uses it as a way to connect with and take care of the community. He’s easy to find around Atlanta, book blacking once a week at a local leather shop and at the Eagle on occasion. If you see him around, give him some scrtiches and he’ll give your boots some love

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Carbon-Fiber Pain Stick!

Mr. S Leather — Carbon Fiber Pain Stick — $22.95

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Ungagged Episode 11 – Doms and Daddy’s and Bears Oh My

The puppies are back! Stand back, kids, cause things are about ready to get crazy!

Show Notes

Topics

  • Today’s game: Would you Rather? – Time to find out what horrible choices the puppies would make!
  • Daddy Hunting – How do you find a daddy?
  • Protocol and setting boundaries
  • Mikey is a Wuss! (that’s on the internet now)
  • First Time Meet ups
  • The awfulness known as “Writing a Profile”
  • The kinds of photos that you can post!

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Chomp Gag.

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Episode 177 – Bday Puppies

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Newly Weds – 2016 edition! I’m not even sure what a buddy bar is…
    • Brutus wants it noted that these were very difficult questions to answer!
    • Puppies continue to fail to understand the questions.
  • If you’d like to flash your junk, Maricolpa County is the place to be!
    • Sparky used to be on the yearbook editing Staff, for sure a cool guy.
  • Fisting – A hands-on demonstration!
  • Grindr – Don’t use pervy as a word on the profile. Code words for something you’re not expecting.
    • Michelle Obama invented Scruff. Thanks Obama!
    • Daddy’s English accent continues to amaze.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Padded Hand Sling.

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Episode 176 – In the News

Summary and notes of show

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Hypnosis files back on Fox this fall.
  • Besides being the Zodiac Killer, Ted Cruz has a tiny penis.
  • NAMBLA Pre-School might be a bad branding idea. Woe to the man who transgenders public restrooms. Because apparently transgender is now a verb!
  • Listen letter: Serophobia and how it can impact an individuals love life. First take away – Polycuels can be complicated. Stigmas around the topic are alive and well in community, despite social niceties. Sero status is an important discussion when it comes to sex and negotiations. Do you have a right to someone’s medical history or Sero status? Is it reasonable to have the expectations of knowing when going into this situation? Discussion is paramount. Keeping on top of sexual health.
  • Is the stigma around HIV status diminishing? More information and better news. Medical advancements have changed how younger generations approach the illness.
  • Roleplay fantasies! Has Daddy done it? Spanky a boy in a baseball dugout. Coach and player, yes! Pup and handler… that’s weird.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the

 

 

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Episode 175 – Pup Identity

Douchepickle of the week: AFA – skidmarks, assholes, soccer mom’s – oh my!  Daddy goes a bit dark on the feelings he has about the American Family Association and gender-neutral bathrooms.

Summary and notes of show

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Started with items noticed locally – local groups seem to be made up of a lot of non-traditional puppies – how to make sure they feel welcome and included without compromising anyone’s headspace.
    •  Distracting at moshes and with other puppies headspaces at time.
  • Sparky has never moshed!
  • Daddy is not quite up to date on the topic – but has seen a bit and can totally identify with the headspace concerns.
  • Fursuits at the rubbout party – respect that it’s their thing, but stood out in the environment – was afraid of shedding!
    • Brutus: Traditional ‘RePUPlican’ values but want’s to ensure everyone is included.
    • Ansel: Easy transition for furries to pup headspace – many furry groups are ‘G-rated’ – puppy communities tend to be more allowing of this.
  • Brutus was a furry – was a fox, then a lion, then a dog, now a ‘me’ – but never felt a ‘furry headspace’.  First ‘taste’ of headspace.
  • Daddy wants to know: What is ‘Antelope’ / ‘Reindeer’ / ‘etc’ headspace?  Is it like pup headspace?  How do they see it fitting into the puppy community.
  • If you are not a puppy and not in a puppy headspace – is it appropriate for you to participate in a puppy mosh where the assumption is that this is for ‘pup space’ – vs. something more open?  Is that offensive?
    • All-skate / Public swim
  • Remember: people have made the transition from puppy to furry as well.
  • Daddy: That gives puppies a fun place to go – but where do other animals go?  Do they have a (e.g.)skunk mosh for people to have their own outlet?
  • Label of ‘puppy’ compared to the label ‘leather’ – we are still defining this as a group.
  • What does it mean to be a puppy?
  • How can we make sure that everyone is included and comfortable without offending everyone?
    • Is this possible even?

About Our Guests

 

Pup Brutus: Bestest puppy in the land!

Pup Ansel: Also the bestest puppy!  What?!  There can be two of them!!!

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Rim Rocker Chair.

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Ungagged Episode 10 – Male Bag

Time to hit the male (hehe, get it!?!) bag for letters from our listeners. We love when we hear from our listeners, sharing their experiences and asking questions that we can talk about. So keep them coming!

Also, OMG 10 Episodes! This is the last time we can say “Dis Many” and shove our paws in people’s face when they ask how many episodes we have done!.

Show Notes

Topics

  • When the Daddy is away the Puppy will Play!
  • Listener Letter – Finding A Kink scene
  • The puppies share their first explorations into the kink community
  • Setting boundaries with your non-kinky partner to be able to explore kink
  • Listener Letter – Hair
  • What kinds of hair works, why would you remove it, and how to remove it
  • Listener Letter – Headspace
  • What is a headspace?
  • Different kinds of headspaces
  • And the puppy’s experiences with headspace
  • “Marks from a good flogging”

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Neoprene Puppy Hood.

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Episode 160 – Bondage to the Max! Part 2

We had such a great time talking with Max that we had to do a second show! We talked a lot more about kink and BDSM. Now, we are just going to jump right into it without a bunch of show notes for two reasons.

One is that, hey its the second part! Didn’t we already say everything about these episodes in the last post? You are ready, you don’t need these amusing notes to get ready for the show do you?

Second, Sparky is doing the notes this week and he isn’t as good at creating these posts, so it is what it is!

Now on with it!

Audience members: Damien!  Bndgkid!  Brutus and Ansel!

Show Notes

  • Kink and BDSM workshops and instruction
  • How did Max get started
  • Rope used to be the step child!
  • Motivation from the Bondage Bottom side
  • Aligning kinks
  • And so much more!

About Our Guests

Max has been active in Seattle’s kink community since 1992 and has been teaching bondage, BDSM, and polyamory workshops since 1999. He’s actively and successfully polyamorous and has several wonderful partners.

While he is proficient with a wide range of BDSM skills, Max especially enjoys the intimacy of rope bondage and the intensity of the singletail. Max projects a gentle, dominant energy, and all of his relationships – and most of his scenes – include a substantial D/S component.

Max’s love of teaching shines through his workshops, and his love for people informs his personal encounters.

Private instruction and coaching  Max offers private instruction and coaching on a wide variety of BDSM technique, to include bondage, scene planning and management, d/s relationships, impact toys, and piercing.

Conventions  Max has presented at leather and kink conventions around the country to include Living in Leather (LIL), Thunder in the Mountains, the 2004 Tribal Instincts Rope Retreat, Atlanta Bound, the Folsom Fringe, Denver Bound, KinkFest, BodyBound, Paradise, Bound in Boston, Shibaricon, and the Fetish Flea.

Events  Max has taught at events sponsored by the Stranger, Babeland, Seattle Men in Leather, Seattle’s Center for Sex Positive Culture, the Triskeli Guild, Suspended Animation and many other kink and sex-positive groups.

Other appearances  Max has rigged for photo and film shoots, done live performance art pieces, and exhibited at both of James Mogul’s ArtBound events in 2000. He donates his services to several charity / fund raising events each year to include tastings sponsored by the Foundation for Sex Positive Culture and Teri Ciacchi’s Kinky Carnival fundraiser.

Bondage Workshop Series  Max serves as producer / chief instructor for Seattle’s monthly “Bondage Workshop Series”, which has run continuously since 2003.

Two-Day Bondage Intensives  Twice each year Max offers a special Bondage Intensive, providing two full days of focused instruction, from the basics through suspension bondage. Max has been teaching the Bondage Intensive since 2005 and graduated his 16th class in March 2014.

More about Max  Max’s website (www.BondageLessons.com) has the most up to date information about his workshops and events.  You can also follow Max on FetLife (Max_BLC), Twitter (MaxRCameron) or Facebook (MaxRCameron)

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature The Morph Ball Bender by Oxballs!

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