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Episode 68 – Prepping for PrEP

No matter if you are living with HIV or not, know someone who is living with, or if you are just getting started in kink, no matter where you are on the spectrum if you are listening to this show you are likely in the target group that needs to know the latest about HIV prevention and treatment.

And in the very latest is the usage of PrEP (Pre Exposure Prophylaxis) is now front and center of the public health community. There are so many questions regarding prep; including what it is, how to use it, how effective it is, should you take it, what does taking it say about me, should it say anything at all.

For this show we brought back our friend Karen Dykes, a local health professional that specializes in infectious disease and HIV, to share her knowledge about PrEP and so much more. She makes reference during the show to a great site where you can learn more, which is prepfacts.org

Even if you know you will never be at risk because you don’t ever do anything risky, there is some great information in this episode for you, for everyone. So excited to bring this to you.

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • What is PrEP and why would you use it?
  • Which people should consider PrEP?
  • Possible health and social side effects
  • Questions from our fabulous listeners

 

About Our Guest

Karen Dykes is a nurse practitioner that specializes in infectious diseases, STD’s, and HIV. She lives in Seattle.

Sponsors

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Episode 67 – Young Guns Part 2

For this episode we continue our conversation with Erick and Christopher from San Francisco. Be sure to check out Episode 66 to hear the first part of this.

For this one we learn more about Erick and Christopher themselves. Where they came from, how they got into kink, and how they met each other. We also spend some time talking about what it is like to be a kinkster in San Francisco.

You don’t want to miss this one!

 

Show Notes

Discussion Topics

  • Their own personal kink journey
  • San Francisco

About Our Guest

Erick was born in Guatemala City, Guatemala but raised in Arizona; Chris was born and raised in the San Francisco Bay Area. They both moved to San Francisco [separately] in their early twenties where they started dabbling in kink. They met in January of 2010 and quickly discovered each other’s kinky curiosity. Soon after, their mere dabbling turned into a ‘full stream’ of play and exploration; one that continues to this day.

Erick has written articles for Instigator Magazine under the pen name “Havoc,” and has held many positions in various LGBT fundraising organizations that he still volunteers for from time to time. He currently works at The Edge Bar in Castro, even hosting a monthly gear event called CODE, which Chris helps create marketing materials for. Chris has previously taken part of an HIV vaccine study and also volunteers with many LGBT organizations around the city. They, along with four others, also started the Young Leathermen’s Discussion Group to help other fellow young kinksters. Chris stepped in as Judge’s Boy for the Hayes Valley Leather Contest years ago and that’s where both him and Erick got their start in the contest scene.

Together, for the past four years, they have been helping run the Mr. San Francisco Leather Contest; Chris now as Judge’s Coordinator and Erick now as Den Daddy. Erick has also taken on producing the Mr. Edge Leather Contest.

 

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This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Rubber Pillow Case. It’s awesome and everyone should have one. #justsayin

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Episode 66 – Young Guns Part 1

Some friends of Daddy Tony’s were in town, visiting from San Francisco, and we thought this was a great opportunity to talk with them. Erick and Christopher have been together for a few years, and have been working in their community with the Young Leathermen’s Discussion Group (TYLG).

We took the time to talk with them about what it is like to be a young leatherman, especially in a community as established as San Francisco. The conversation went so well we ran out of time to go over all the topics we wanted to cover, so we split this one in two parts.

We will have part two later in the week!

(btw, stick to the end, there is extra this time)

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • YLDG – Young Leathermen Discussion Group
  • Age differentials and the dynamics they create

About Our Guest

 

Erick was born in Guatemala City, Guatemala but raised in Arizona; Chris was born and raised in the San Francisco Bay Area. They both moved to San Francisco [separately] in their early twenties where they started dabbling in kink. They met in January of 2010 and quickly discovered each other’s kinky curiosity. Soon after, their mere dabbling turned into a ‘full stream’ of play and exploration; one that continues to this day.

 

Erick has written articles for Instigator Magazine under the pen name “Havoc,” and has held many positions in various LGBT fundraising organizations that he still volunteers for from time to time. He currently works at The Edge Bar in Castro, even hosting a monthly gear event called CODE, which Chris helps create marketing materials for. Chris has previously taken part of an HIV vaccine study and also volunteers with many LGBT organizations around the city. They, along with four others, also started the Young Leathermen’s Discussion Group to help other fellow young kinksters. Chris stepped in as Judge’s Boy for the Hayes Valley Leather Contest years ago and that’s where both him and Erick got their start in the contest scene.

 

Together, for the past four years, they have been helping run the Mr. San Francisco Leather Contest; Chris now as Judge’s Coordinator and Erick now as Den Daddy. Erick has also taken on producing the Mr. Edge Leather Contest.

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Stainless Steel Ice Lock.

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Episode 65 – Pup Razz

Part of our goal here at NoSafeWord is to explore all the different avenues of kink that are out there. Recently one of the supporters of our show, Nightcat, referred to us a female pup from the Portland area. She is a relatively new kinkster herself, into puppy play and now the president of the puppy group in Portland, PDX-PAH. We thought that this would present a chance for us to get some new perspectives and new voices.

We talked a lot about the role that gender and gender identity plays in our community, which ended up being a very interesting discussion. We also had a great friend to the show, Hobbit (from Episode 28 and Episode 29) join us for the show and add to the discussion! It was a great time for us all and I can’t wait for you all to hear it.

 

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Changes and new projects with PDX-PAH
  • Handling strong personalities in a kink organization
  • Mixing genders and orientations in a play party or mosh
  • Being a female in a pup community of mostly gay men
  • Gender fluidity and identity

About Our Guest

Jess Menton (also known as Pup Razz) is a female pup based out of Portland, OR. She is new to the kink community but quickly learning in leaps and bounds. She runs a pup perspective blog called Awkward Paws, Tangled Bras and is the current president of PDX-PAH.

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Aluminum Paddle. It’s awesome and everyone should have one. #justsayin

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Episode 64 – Polyamory Part 2

We continue on with our discussion from Episode 63 on Polyamory with Allena! This time we get even more in depth with our discussion, and I think there is something here for everyone to enjoy and learn. Thank you Allena for joining!

Show Notes

Discussion Topics

  • Are there fixed rules for doing polyamory?
  • What are some key areas that need to be negotiated?
  • What are some other issues?
  • What are some key societal issues to be conscious of?
  • Reasons why poly may not be for you

About Our Guest

 

Allena Gabosch has served as Executive Director of the Center for Sex Positive Culture since its founding in 1999. She has been active in the sex positive movement practically from its beginning, and says she’s “busy creating sex positive culture on a daily basis!” Allena has been producing educational and social events for the sex positive community since 1990. She co-owned and ran Beyond the Edge Cafe in the mid-1990s, providing a modest space for parties and workshops, until they closed their doors in 1999. It was then that Jim Duvall approached her with the idea of the Center and asked her to be its Executive Director.

 

She is a frequent speaker on many sex positive subjects at colleges and conferences around the United States and Canada, with an emphasis on BDSM and polyamory. In addition, she is the Festival Producer for the Seattle Erotic Art Festival. She is a past board member of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. In the Spring of 2008, Allena was appointed to the Seattle Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Commission. Allena is a bisexual, poly switch and considers herself extremely blessed as she has a rich and full poly life, with many amazing and loving people in her “polycule”. In her less than mundane non-kinky life, she is active in Landmark Education, loves theater, good food, walking around Seattle and hopes to run for Seattle City Council in a few years.

http://thecspc.org/

http://thefspc.org/

http://www.seattleerotic.org/

 

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Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Deluxe Ball Gag with Vinyl Straps. It’s awesome and everyone should have one. #justsayin

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Episode 63 – Polyamory Part 1

We are very excited to bring this episode to you all. Not only because it is a great to have Allena back with us (listen to her on Episode 31), because we love her! It is because the subject of polyamory is such a lively discussion.

In between our usual antics, we spend a lot of time discussing what it is and what it isn’t. What it means to us and what it can mean to other people. If you are not aligned to polyamory at all you are still going to find the discussion fascinating. It was a fun time and I can’t wait to get this to you!

This is part 1 of the discussion, we have part 2 for later in the week!

 

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Why we asked on Alena on the show
  • What is Polyamory?
  • Is Polyamory an orientation or a structure?
  • What are some Poly structures and relationships and words we can use to help us describe them?
  • Can single people be polyamorous?

About Our Guest

Allena Gabosch has served as Executive Director of the Center for Sex Positive Culture since its founding in 1999. She has been active in the sex positive movement practically from its beginning, and says she’s “busy creating sex positive culture on a daily basis!” Allena has been producing educational and social events for the sex positive community since 1990. She co-owned and ran Beyond the Edge Cafe in the mid-1990s, providing a modest space for parties and workshops, until they closed their doors in 1999. It was then that Jim Duvall approached her with the idea of the Center and asked her to be its Executive Director.

She is a frequent speaker on many sex positive subjects at colleges and conferences around the United States and Canada, with an emphasis on BDSM and polyamory. In addition, she is the Festival Producer for the Seattle Erotic Art Festival. She is a past board member of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. In the Spring of 2008, Allena was appointed to the Seattle Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Commission. Allena is a bisexual, poly switch and considers herself extremely blessed as she has a rich and full poly life, with many amazing and loving people in her “polycule”. In her less than mundane non-kinky life, she is active in Landmark Education, loves theater, good food, walking around Seattle and hopes to run for Seattle City Council in a few years.

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the The Claw Mitt.

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Episode 62 – BC

While talking with Pup Nitro (first appeared on Episode 10) we learned he has done some presentations at events about Breath Control, and we thought this was the perfect time to talk about this subject. For some, breath control is the biggest turn on. For others it is the scariest thing that can be done to them.

Given how easy it is to get this wrong, we thought that we would tackle this subject. With Loki (from Episode 55) tied up at his side in a leather straitjacket, Nitro takes us through issues of safety, energy exchange and the type of breath control play that is out there.

You don’t want to miss this one!

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Safety – Safety – Safety
  • What is Breath Control?
  • Types of Breath Control
  • Gear that can be used
  • Energy Exchange from Breath Control 

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Leather Sport Jock!

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Episode 61 – Dreadfire

For this episode we have on our old roommate, Dreadfire. He was back in town for visiting the family and we wanted to take the time to pick his brain. There is a great deal of info we can learn from someone that moved from Seattle to the gay kink mecca known as Chicago. What is it like there, who are the people, what are the differences. We also ask him about what it was like to relocate to that area. And finally we also learn about his new love of furries and being a furry himself.

Daddy Tony was not in town for this show, so we asked past guest Nightcat to join us and sit in Daddies seat.

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Moving to a new location
  • Living in the gay mecca
  • Having big events in a home city
  • Fur suiting

 

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

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Episode 60 – Kink Porn

Christian asked us if we would ever have a porn star on the show, and we thought, Why NOT! We want to talk to everyone in our kink world and get all the perspectives that are out there, and this was a great way to get the story of what it is like to be a kink porn actor. Sure we all look at porn, but how many of us ever get the chance to be in person.

What is it like? How do you get into it? What do your husband or your family think about your job? How do you prepare?

Amazingly fun getting to know him and we were happy to have him on the show!

Show Notes

In the News

About Our Guest

 

In less than a year after finally deciding to dive into the world of gay porn, Los Angeles-based adult actor and model Christian Mitchell has already shot movies with some of the top studios in the business. Despite entering the industry later in life, Mitchell’s intense features and extensive experience as a BDSM bottom were fast to catch the attention of award-winning Director Christian Owen, who quickly cast him in one of Hot House’s Club Inferno movies for his porn debut.  Since then, he has gone on to star in films from Raging Stallion/Fetish Force, Titan Rough and numerous scenes for online porn sites. 

 

Mitchell is a nominee for Cybersocket Magazine’s 2014 “Best New Porn Star” award. In addition to his studio work, Mitchell has modeled products for Mr S Leather and appeared in their hardcore video demos.  He is also a model for TwistedDNA4SXY.com fetish home furnishings and writes about various Kink and BDSM subjects for their company blog. An admitted kinkster and blatant fetishist, Mitchell credits his years as a member of L.A.’s Avatar BDSM Club as a big reason for his success in porn  Years of participating in Avatar’s public “safe, sane and consensual” BDSM demonstrations gave him the confidence to step in front of the camera. Mitchell strongly believes that safe sex saves lives and, as a result, he only stars in roles using condoms, gloves and recognized safe sex practices.    

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Mr. S Leather Co.

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Episode 59 – Pervertables Part 2

For this episode we finish up our discussion about Pervertables, cover a lot more than we did the last time. This was a fun one to make!

Remember, you can always email us with your stories of how you have made your own pervetables. Can’t wait to hear what you come up with!

 

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Episode 58 – Pervertables Part 1

For this show we decided to do something a little bit different. We wanted to talk with the two kinksters that we personally know that love playing with all kinds of “pervertables”, so we invited on Sparky’s Sir, VisibleRestraint, and DrewLion.

For those that haven’t heard the term before, pervertables are items that were not intended to be perverted but can be purposed in all kinds of kink play. The thought here was that by discussing all the different kinds of pertables and share some stories on how they can be used, we can spur some ideas out there for our listeners.

We want to hear from you and your stories of pervertables. Tell us about any we missed, or fun stories about the pervertables that you have used. Can’t wait to hear what you come up with!

This along with listener letters and this was a great show!

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Shorts 07 – Venus

For this show we have on the makers of the Venus 2000 milking machine. We wanted to know more about this history of this product, since it has been around for a while, and diverse communities that make up the customer base. Both Dave and Bunny from the company were great to get to know and very open about their process.

This was a great episode and we learned a lot about them, so we are very much looking forward to bring this one to you!

 

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Shorts 06 – Things-that-are-similar Game

Ok, I feel like we have done more than enough in “borrowing” a game show format, so in the text I am just going to call it “Things that are similar Game”. You will get it when you listen to it.

This show was recorded back during the same night as the episode of Daddy Tony’s birthday! (Episode 53, listne to it at http://nosafeword.com/posts/episode-x-2/ )

That night we decided to do a little fun time because we had everyone there, so this show is just us playing the game, but as you will hear it was a damn good time!

We were lucky to have Mama Tits for this episode, along with a lot of our friends playing along. Enjoy!

 

About Our Guest

Seattle’s Skyscraper Hostess, the One and Only Mama Tits is the creation of Brian Daniel Peters. You may recognize her as the former Host of LeFaux at Julia’s on Broadway from 2010-2011 or as one of the hosts of the Seattle Pride Parade for the past 4 years alongside Sylvia O’Stayformore at the 4th and Bell stage. Mama Tits was one of the hosts of the 2010 Pride-fest Main stage at Seattle Center, she was the Original Hostess of the hottest weekday club night on Capitol Hill, ElektroPoP! from 2011-2012, and the Original hostess of the Capitol Hill Talent Show. Mama is also the Producer and Star of “Mimosas with Mama”, Seattle’s #1 and Longest running weekly Drag Brunch, and works various private events around the Seattle area and across the country. Find her at twitter.com/TheMamaTits or facebook.com/TheMamaTits.

 

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Shorts 05 – Vince Andrews

For this episode in our Shorts Series, we interview the author Vince Andrews about his two books he has published, the Leather Boy Handbook and To Walk with Strangers. Both are unique and interesting books from two completely different ends of the spectrum of kink books.

We talk with Vince to get to know him a little better, as well as to explore what is both the books, his motivations for writing them and where he drew his characters from. This was an interesting episode that we hope you enjoy!

Show Notes

Discussion Topics

www.adynatonpublishing.com

The leather boy handbook

https://www.facebook.com/TheLeatherboyHandbook
To Walk with Strangers

https://www.facebook.com/groups/374041089363154/

 

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Stainless Steel Chastity Cock Cage, a Mr. S Leather Exclusive!

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