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Episode 163 – To Sir with Love

Yesterday, we lost a dear friend and member of our family when Sir Alan Penrod passed away suddenly. He was a friendly sexy leatherman who gave much of himself to the leather community, both in Atlanta and abroad. Our hearts go out to his family, Nitro and David.

Godspeed, Sir Alan.

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Episode 162 – I Could Give a Fuck Part 1

My little black swans! You will all get this.

We welcome back Allena to the podcast. She opens up with us about a topic that is very personal. And she shows us how we can deal with serious life-changing events with our kink friends.

Show Notes

Douchepickle of the Week

  • Y’all Qaeda

In the News

Topics

  • Breast cancer
  • Treatment
  • Libido
  • Support network

About Our Guest

Allena Gabosch served as Executive Director of the Center for Sex Positive Culture since its founding in 1999 until her semi-retirement in January 2015. She is currently the Development Director for CSPC. She has been active in the sex positive movement practically from its beginning, and says she’s “busy creating sex positive culture on a daily basis!” Allena has been producing educational and social events for the sex positive community since 1990. She co-owned and ran Beyond the Edge Cafe in the mid-1990s, providing a modest space for parties and workshops, until they closed their doors in 1999. It was then that Jim Duvall approached her with the idea of the Center and asked her to be its Executive Director.

She is a frequent speaker on many sex positive subjects at colleges and conferences around the United States and Canada, with an emphasis on BDSM and polyamory. In addition, she was the Festival Producer for the Seattle Erotic Art Festival. She is a past board member of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. In the Spring of 2008, Allena was appointed to the Seattle Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Commission. Allena is a bisexual, poly switch and considers herself extremely blessed as she has a rich and full poly life, with many amazing and loving people in her “polycule”. In her less than mundane non-kinky life, she is active in Landmark Education, loves theater, good food, walking around Seattle and hopes to run for Seattle City Council in a few years.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature Hemp Rope from Twisted Monk.

Mr. S also has two of Monk’s starter packs of rope. Starter Pack 1 and Starter Pack 2.

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Ungagged Episode 06 – One Notch Tighter

Bondage. Bondage, bondage, bondage. Whoops. Dick’s getting hard now. Yeah, so that’s why I enjoy doing it. Very horny. On this episode of Ungagged, the puppies talk about bondage. From the sub-getting-tied-up-perspective, naturally. So strap yourselves in, it’s going to be a cozy fun ride.

Show Notes

Topics

  • Why do we like bondage? (Hint: It involves boners.)
  • How do you get into it? What equipment do you need?
  • Geared? Clothed? Naked?
  • Stepping up your game
  • Self-bondage
  • Safety tips
  • Favorite bondage gear
  • Fun places to find fun gear and furniture

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Essential Wrist & Ankle Restraints.

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Episode 161 – Into Older? It Depends.

The gay community struggles with the issue of age. There are a lot of guys who have strict age limits on the men they will socialize with and the guys they’ll have sex or play with. Others of us will often make snap judgments based on the age listed in a man’s profile online. Some of these limitations are insultingly superficial; some are necessary to avoid a creepy factor or prison time. Most of these limitations affect everyone’s self-esteem, whether we realize it or not.

On this episode, Daddy Tony and Sparky explore some of these issues both with the gay community in general and with kinksters and BDSM practitioners specifically.

Show Notes

Douchepickle of the Week

  • Martin Shkreli

In the News

Topic

  • How are things different in the kink and play scenes as you age?
  • When limiting yourself to only guys of certain age, you’re missing out on potential mindblowing connections.
  • Sometimes age limits are necessary — for instance, to avoid minors.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. The crew of the NoSafeWord Show would like to give a big thank you to the folks at Mr. S Leather for all of the support that they have given us over the past two years. Please look at their latest newsletter, get yourself some awesome gear, and be sure to let them know that you appreciate their sponsorship of the NoSafeWord Show.

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Ep 5 – Just One More Inch

Ha! You thought this episode was going to be about dick size, didn’t you? From the title, there. Nope! This one’s all about … butt play! Brutus and Mikey talk with Ansel about the basics of ass play. Oh, and prehensile penises.

Show Notes

Games

  • Would You Rather?
  • Word Association

Topics

  • Levels of anal play
  • Preparation
    • Diet
    • Cleanout
    • Lube
    • Gloves
    • Toys
    • Pee first (This is about butt play not watersports, boys.)
  • The big event
    • Misconceptions
    • Relax
    • Feelings
    • Size
  • Aftercare
    • Balms
    • Diet
  • Problems
    • Fissure
    • Hemorrhoids

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Egg Plug in SuperSoft Bronze by Square Peg.

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Episode 158 – Another Match Game

Well, folks. You’ve heard the NoSafeWord version of Match Game before. That’s right! We’re doing another round of wacky questions about current topics. Don’t want to miss this.

Oh, and Pup Debit doesn’t understand the question.

Show Notes

In the News

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Leather Sleeveless Hoodie.

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Ungagged Episode 04 – The Devil Is in the Details

Most of us start exploring BDSM, domination, and submission on the sub side of the equation. One of the things we find very early is that there seem to be a lot of rules about how one should or shouldn’t behave. What kinds of things are expected from us when we haven’t learned those rules or expectations? Bndgkid and Brutus talk about the most prevalent rules and expectations to help you navigate.

Show Notes

Games

  • Steakhouse or gay bar?
  • Gay Bondage Porn Star or Country Music Singer?

Topics

  • Rules for how a boy or sub should act
  • Rules for other subs can be (and probably are) different than your rules.
  • Ask before touching or interacting
  • Hanky code
  • Levels of protocol in differing situations

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Unit X-Stretch and CockSling 2.0, both by Oxballs.

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Ungagged Episode 03 – I Didn’t Sign Up for This

Are submissive guys (and gals) supposed to just accept whatever they’re told to do by a dominant? There are some kinky folks who think so, both doms and subs. That is not a very healthy way to approach something that is supposed to be fun for everyone involved. During this episode of Ungagged, the puppies talk about how to recognize when someone is either a bad dominant or is just not your type of dominant, as well as how to figure things out when in a play scene and things go wrong.

Show Notes

Topics

  • Puppynight!!!
  • How can we tell when a guy is a “bad” dominant?
  • Maybe “bad” doesn’t mean they’re actually bad. Maybe we’re just not a good fit.
  • How can you deal with a situation with a bad dominant or something that you’re not comfortable with?
  • Communication is key
  • Safety net
  • Long-distance relationships

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Head Trip Kit by Fetters USA.

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Ungagged Episode 02 – The ‘Ol Switch-a-roo

Many of us kinksters are only dominant. Many of us are submissive. But there are also those of us who enjoy both sides of the play equation. This episode is about the switches in the kink world. And this is Ungagged, so we approach the topic of switching from the submissive perspective.

Show Notes

Games

  • What Am I Thinking?
  • Two Truths and a Lie

Topics

  • Switching: Able to take the dominant or the submissive role
  • What does a sub get out of dominating someone?
  • How Brutus discovered he enjoys domming
  • Don’t play a part that you don’t feel naturally
  • Motivations for domming or switching
  • How dom energy feeds back into sub space
  • Switching quickly

 

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Fetters Max-Security Locking Shorts.

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Ungagged Episode 01 – A Submissive’s Toy Box

Well, hello! This is our first episode in a new podcast. Ungagged is a show run by the puppies on the NoSafeWord crew — Bndgkid and ThatDrewLion. We’re going to explore the gay kink world from the submissive, switch, and nerd perspectives.

In this episode, we talk about what kinds of toys a submissive should have. So if you’re a sub either just starting out or if you’ve been around kinksters for a while, we have some ideas about what kind of gear to get and what to consider when thinking about getting some gear.

Oh, and DIY = Do It Yourself.

Show Notes

Topics

  • Hello! Introductions.
  • First kink gear
  • What types of scenes or situations will you be using the gear in?
    • Bar scene gear
    • Everyday comfort gear
    • Gear for play
  • Budget
  • Wearables (Gear for wearing)
  • Usables (Gear and toys for playing)
  • Having your own toys helps a dominant to know how to use you
  • Gear you may not want to spend money on as a sub
  • What do you wish you had when first starting out?
  • What are some bad pieces of gear you’ve bought?

About Our Hosts

Bndgkid

Bndgkid has been on a few episodes of The NoSafeWord Show:

ThatDrewLion

ThatDrewLion has also been on a few episodes of The NoSafeWord Show:

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Asylum Socks and the Viper Sock, both by CellBlock 13.

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Episode 157 – UnSafeWord?

Well boys and girls. It’s another wacky episode. No guest. Just some of the best news stories around and a couple of letters from our listeners.

Show Notes

In the News

Listener Letters

  • Daddy Tony murders more town names in the UK.
  • Question about intense pain play.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Ball Gag Slave Collar.

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Episode 156 – Nutsack

Hey, lookie! We have more letters from our listeners. We have a couple of new listeners, we have some funny stories, and we have a thoughtful question related to BDSM and kink gear. Listen along with us while we read some letters.

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Cassandra is a new listener who loves us. Welcome, Cassandra!
  • Lesson of the day: Don’t do porn tough-guy voice during sex
  • Black olives up the butt
  • And cucumbers
  • And tampons
  • Is kink gear and BDSM play evil? Or do people think that?

About Our Guest

D. None of the above

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Neoprene Tri-Color Open Ass Boxer and the Neoprene Tri-Color Open Ass Brief.

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Episode 155 – Where Are My Keys?

Some guys like having things up their butts. Let’s face it, they feel good. Some guys like having big things up their butts. And some guys love having a whole hand up their butts. That’s what we’re talking about tonight! We get some history and advice from two local guys who have done lots of fists.

We discussed fisting with Larry Shockey way back in Episodes 7 and 8, so you can get more info from a different perspective in those episodes.

Show Notes

Love and Marriage

Sparky and Damien got officially married a couple nights ago. They went to watch a live recording of a different podcast called Keith and The Girl. And they happened to have their marriage license with them, so Chemda, one of the hosts of the podcast, officiated their wedding after the show. It’s official – Sparky and Damien are lawfully wedded husbands. There is wedding video.

In the News

Topics

  • Pup Ansel started with fisting while not knowing anything about how to do it
  • ThatDrewLion started with fisting while not knowing anything about how to do it
  • How you should get started with fisting. (Hint: Find someone who knows something about how to do it)
  • Three things you need to know to be a pro fister:
    • Lube recipes
    • Clean-out technique
    • Fisting diet
  • What do you guys get out of fisting or being fisted?

About Our Guests

Pup Ansel

Though he’s still a young pup, Ansel has been in the fisting community for several years and is a recent convert to the broader fetish community. Having just recently found his puppy side, he is eager to share his experience and information with new people. Outside the playroom (and inside too) he enjoys photography, PC gaming, and going to the gym. You can find him and his talented hole on Twitter as @FurDogAD.

ThatDrewLion

ThatDrewLion has been on The NoSafeWord Show several times. And he’s on the crew! He knows a thing or two about fisting. He sticks it into other guys, and likes to have his ass played with a lot. Previous episodes: 49, 58, 59, 76, and 77.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Six-Ball Chain Gang.

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Episode 154 – And One in the Stink

Part 2! Greg talks with us some more about the trials of working kinks into a marriage. And a bit about how he makes some of the kids’ activities more fun for him.

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Adult-oriented Hallowe’en costume.
  • How to do kinky things while balancing the spouse and kids.
  • Dreams with caving floors that rub your dick, slides, pools of marshmallow that cause orgasms.
  • Weirdest thing Kat did to Greg.
  • Gunge is foreplay.

About Our Guests

Greg

I’m an extremely down-to-Earth kind of guy who happens to get into a huge variety of kinks. I’m always interested in seeking out new and exciting scenes and have made some great kinky friends over the years. Mostly, I just really enjoy playing with a creative top who can get pleasure out of using my body as they see fit. Outside of being kinky, I like to swim, play video games and board games, and just hang out. Of course, I can always do those while wearing something kinky too. ;)

Kat

Kat thinks she’s not very interesting, so she didn’t want me to write anything about her. Well, you know I can’t do that! Kat is a lovely person. She enjoys board games. (I know this because she’s kicked my ass at one or two of them.) She’s kinky. She’s a lot of fun to be around. :)

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Neoprene Full Access Pant.

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