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Ungagged Episode 01 – A Submissive’s Toy Box

Well, hello! This is our first episode in a new podcast. Ungagged is a show run by the puppies on the NoSafeWord crew — Bndgkid and ThatDrewLion. We’re going to explore the gay kink world from the submissive, switch, and nerd perspectives.

In this episode, we talk about what kinds of toys a submissive should have. So if you’re a sub either just starting out or if you’ve been around kinksters for a while, we have some ideas about what kind of gear to get and what to consider when thinking about getting some gear.

Oh, and DIY = Do It Yourself.

Show Notes

Topics

  • Hello! Introductions.
  • First kink gear
  • What types of scenes or situations will you be using the gear in?
    • Bar scene gear
    • Everyday comfort gear
    • Gear for play
  • Budget
  • Wearables (Gear for wearing)
  • Usables (Gear and toys for playing)
  • Having your own toys helps a dominant to know how to use you
  • Gear you may not want to spend money on as a sub
  • What do you wish you had when first starting out?
  • What are some bad pieces of gear you’ve bought?

About Our Hosts

Bndgkid

Bndgkid has been on a few episodes of The NoSafeWord Show:

ThatDrewLion

ThatDrewLion has also been on a few episodes of The NoSafeWord Show:

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Asylum Socks and the Viper Sock, both by CellBlock 13.

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Episode 157 – UnSafeWord?

Well boys and girls. It’s another wacky episode. No guest. Just some of the best news stories around and a couple of letters from our listeners.

Show Notes

In the News

Listener Letters

  • Daddy Tony murders more town names in the UK.
  • Question about intense pain play.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Ball Gag Slave Collar.

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Episode 156 – Nutsack

Hey, lookie! We have more letters from our listeners. We have a couple of new listeners, we have some funny stories, and we have a thoughtful question related to BDSM and kink gear. Listen along with us while we read some letters.

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Cassandra is a new listener who loves us. Welcome, Cassandra!
  • Lesson of the day: Don’t do porn tough-guy voice during sex
  • Black olives up the butt
  • And cucumbers
  • And tampons
  • Is kink gear and BDSM play evil? Or do people think that?

About Our Guest

D. None of the above

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Neoprene Tri-Color Open Ass Boxer and the Neoprene Tri-Color Open Ass Brief.

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Episode 155 – Where Are My Keys?

Some guys like having things up their butts. Let’s face it, they feel good. Some guys like having big things up their butts. And some guys love having a whole hand up their butts. That’s what we’re talking about tonight! We get some history and advice from two local guys who have done lots of fists.

We discussed fisting with Larry Shockey way back in Episodes 7 and 8, so you can get more info from a different perspective in those episodes.

Show Notes

Love and Marriage

Sparky and Damien got officially married a couple nights ago. They went to watch a live recording of a different podcast called Keith and The Girl. And they happened to have their marriage license with them, so Chemda, one of the hosts of the podcast, officiated their wedding after the show. It’s official – Sparky and Damien are lawfully wedded husbands. There is wedding video.

In the News

Topics

  • Pup Ansel started with fisting while not knowing anything about how to do it
  • ThatDrewLion started with fisting while not knowing anything about how to do it
  • How you should get started with fisting. (Hint: Find someone who knows something about how to do it)
  • Three things you need to know to be a pro fister:
    • Lube recipes
    • Clean-out technique
    • Fisting diet
  • What do you guys get out of fisting or being fisted?

About Our Guests

Pup Ansel

Though he’s still a young pup, Ansel has been in the fisting community for several years and is a recent convert to the broader fetish community. Having just recently found his puppy side, he is eager to share his experience and information with new people. Outside the playroom (and inside too) he enjoys photography, PC gaming, and going to the gym. You can find him and his talented hole on Twitter as @FurDogAD.

ThatDrewLion

ThatDrewLion has been on The NoSafeWord Show several times. And he’s on the crew! He knows a thing or two about fisting. He sticks it into other guys, and likes to have his ass played with a lot. Previous episodes: 49, 58, 59, 76, and 77.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Six-Ball Chain Gang.

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Episode 154 – And One in the Stink

Part 2! Greg talks with us some more about the trials of working kinks into a marriage. And a bit about how he makes some of the kids’ activities more fun for him.

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Adult-oriented Hallowe’en costume.
  • How to do kinky things while balancing the spouse and kids.
  • Dreams with caving floors that rub your dick, slides, pools of marshmallow that cause orgasms.
  • Weirdest thing Kat did to Greg.
  • Gunge is foreplay.

About Our Guests

Greg

I’m an extremely down-to-Earth kind of guy who happens to get into a huge variety of kinks. I’m always interested in seeking out new and exciting scenes and have made some great kinky friends over the years. Mostly, I just really enjoy playing with a creative top who can get pleasure out of using my body as they see fit. Outside of being kinky, I like to swim, play video games and board games, and just hang out. Of course, I can always do those while wearing something kinky too. ;)

Kat

Kat thinks she’s not very interesting, so she didn’t want me to write anything about her. Well, you know I can’t do that! Kat is a lovely person. She enjoys board games. (I know this because she’s kicked my ass at one or two of them.) She’s kinky. She’s a lot of fun to be around. :)

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Neoprene Full Access Pant.

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Episode 153 – Two in the Pink…

A few weeks ago, Greg was on our show. And it was fucking hilarious. Well, he’s back. And this time, he brought his wife. So the hilarity is twice as much! Listen to Greg and Kat chat with us about marriage, sexuality, kinks, and things that have happened to the two of them.

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Kat knew about Greg liking guys before he did.
  • But they knew about the kinky stuff quickly.
  • And Kat is funsexual.
  • Protip: Go to parties assuming that everyone has rejected you.
  • Gelli Baff (Google it)
  • Jet-Puffed gone so so wrong.
  • And peanut butter.
  • Pudding, too.
  • Bouncy balls, part 2. (Part 1 is in Episode 144.)

About Our Guests

Greg

I’m an extremely down-to-Earth kind of guy who happens to get into a huge variety of kinks. I’m always interested in seeking out new and exciting scenes and have made some great kinky friends over the years. Mostly, I just really enjoy playing with a creative top who can get pleasure out of using my body as they see fit. Outside of being kinky, I like to swim, play video games and board games, and just hang out. Of course, I can always do those while wearing something kinky too. ;)

Kat

Kat thinks she’s not very interesting, so she didn’t want me to write anything about her. Well, you know I can’t do that! Kat is a lovely person. She enjoys board games. (I know this because she’s kicked my ass at one or two of them.) She’s kinky. She’s a lot of fun to be around. :)

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Leather Polo Shirt.

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Episode 152 – ToyTorture

In this show we interview ToyTorture, a fun kinkster from Kink Heav– I mean Germany! We talk about his life experience growing up kinky and how he started his toy review website ToyTorture.com. We compare the differences in the various kink-cultures he’s gotten to experience and the expansion of kink culture.

Show Notes

Topics

About Our Guest

Growing up in a rural area of the coast of nothern Germany Frederik was kinky dirty boy before he even knew the word “sex”. Once he discovered the internet he was soon all over the (porn) place. Being a shy and introverted yet happy pig who is willing to try everything at least twice he is almost always open for a good discussion about BDSM history and theory, play scenes and snuggles.

To let others participate on his quest of finding the best toys for great scenes and to give something back to the community, he started ToyTorture.com in 2012 a website focusing on reviewing BDSM toys and helping new people into the sometimes overwhelmingly complex world of BDSM. Through his website he got to know our own Drew Lion who he started off on his “real” journey into kink on a trip to San Francisco.

When he is not working (for his website) or is looking for love in all the wrong places he enjoys going to the gym, reading, playing PC and table top RPGs and way too much baking cakes. You can follow his kinky live on Recon, PlanetRomeo, Twitter and of course ToyTorture.com.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Double Strap Suspender Harness.

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Episode 151 – On the Hook

The oldest profession. Or something like that. We have with us a gentleman who has spent a large amount of his time with other men, who pay for a companion. We have a chat about what sex work really is all about, how people perceive sex work incorrectly, and the issues around the federal government shutting down a major web site for escorts and clients to connect. Join us!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • David’s background and what he does
  • Sex work: What it’s really about and why it’s okay
  • Closing of Rentboy.com & government
    • The nature of gay male escort service
  • Perceptions of sex work within the LGBT

About Our Guest

With over 12 million views on his Xtube channel, a fan favorite of the consumer of free amateur porn world wide, and a highly respected and sought after male escort, David-SF is considered one of the best. Raised by wolves in the bay area and transformed into a citizen of the planet, he is a life-long male sex worker, from the street to the sheets. David has spent a lifetime working with men who choose to hire male companionship for a wide variety of reasons.

From businessmen looking for relief at the lunch rush to the disabled war vets amputees and the older recently out-of-the-closet clientele, David has encountered some of the most compelling reasons why the male sex worker is a viable and important craft.

He defends and is armed with a strong belief that sex work should be respected and in some cases even certified as a health care profession.

You will often be hit up by him for money to support various charity work in the HIV & AIDS prevention community, raising money for causes near & dear to his heart. He is a fierce advocate of sex work decriminalization and is currently developing new projects that will spotlight the male sex industry and its history.

David is currently living with his 2 partners in a polyamorous triad in Palm Springs, California.

He spends much of his time in far-off lands taking his clients on once-in-a-lifetime adventures. At 47 years old, business-as-usual is not the theme of any day in the life of this well-known sex worker. You can find out more by visiting his websites David-sf.com or TheMaleAdventure.com.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the ErgoFlow Portable Shower Shot by Perfect Fit.

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Episode 150 – So Fucked Up

In this show we had a few things to catch up on. We wanted to clear the air after last show’s rant on the listener letter. There was an important point that we need to at least empathize with each other and support each other, something one particular listener apparently can’t grasp. We also wanted to share why we didn’t do a show last week. And finally we do a big wrap up of Camp K9 that everyone attended, which is a fun event held by SEA-PAH.

Show Notes

Topics

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Silicone E-stim Vibe.

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Episode 149 – Sadistic Bastard

“Extreme sensation.” Yes, some of us really do enjoy extreme sensation. Others of us enjoy “inflicting” extreme sensation on other people. Tonight, we will have a discussion about sadism – the act of inflicting pain for sexual enjoyment. And in keeping with the theme, this show has some moments of intensity in it, too.

Show Notes

Topics

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Camo Leather Kilt with Belt and Accessory Pouch.

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Episode 148 – Gay Muggles

We talk a lot with and about people in the kink community. We love talking with kinky folks. Tonight, though, our guest is a gay man who is mostly vanilla. So on this episode, kids, we get a different perspective.

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • How does a mostly vanilla gay man view the kink world?
  • Are there kinks you don’t understand?

About Our Guest

Antonio is a long time friend of Sparky. Sparky and Antonio met in the dorms at college many years ago and have been good friends ever since. Antonio is a former drag performer in the Seattle drag scene known as Maxine De La Cunt. Antonio is a known curmudgeon, loud mouth and equal opportunity offender. When he’s not doing that he’s actually doing god thing in the community working for AIDS awareness and education, volunteering wherever they will let him.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Silicone Electro Ass Rammer Bi-Polar by MyStim.

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Episode 147 – Oh No We Are Back

We love our listeners. We also really enjoy when you guys (and girls) talk back to us by e-mail. And sometimes we like it so much, we talk about your e-mails on our podcast. It’s a conversation! Nevermind that it takes weeks. Anyway, we have some lovely listener letters for you in this episode!

Show Notes

In the News

Listener Letters

  • Should I automatically be submissive to my sir’s sir?
  • Thanks for helping me become comfortable with my inner pup.
  • Follow-up: How do I handle coming out to my parents?
  • Follow-up: Legal issues surrounding disclosure of HIV status.

About Our Guest

All of our guests joined us from across the Interwebs by e-mail.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Hanky Wallet.

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Episode 146 – Overload of News

Well, kids. This episode is a demonstration of what happens when you have some … edibles. Daddy Tony and Sparky had some of the pot. And it’s kind of obvious. Join us for a wacky hour of news and another listener letter.

Show Notes

In the News

Quotable Quotes

“It’s like trying to push a marshmallow through a keyhole.”

About Our Guest

Nope. No guest for this episode. Well, a fan who wrote us a letter, but that’s not quite the same thing.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the 1 Ton Chain Hoist.

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Episode 145 – More Listener Letters

Our fans love us. They really love us! They write us letters, too. We love receiving letters (especially if they accompany dick pics) from our listeners. During this episode, we read and discuss some of the letters we have received recently.

Show Notes

In the News

About Our Guest

Guest? We don’t need no stinkin’ guest!

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature their Four Buckle Hand Restraints.

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