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Episode 144 – Bi Now, Gay Later

Some kinksters are crazy! Tonight’s guest is crazy in all of the sexy ways. Cypherrub is a local bisexual married daddy. Father, not that other kind of daddy. He tells us about some of his hilarious antics. And along the way, we delve into issues of kink within marriage, open marriage, Roombas, the in-laws, bouncy balls, offspring, Life Saver pillows, and muggles.

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Cypherrub
  • Young in life
    • Life Saver pillows
    • Easy on the fucking of the Life Savers.
    • Easy on the vacuum pumps!
  • Easy on the shop vacs! (Maybe not so young in life for this one.)
  • Ninja!
  • How the open relationship works with Cypherrub and the missus.
  • Friday Night
  • Stuff he’s into
  • Handling the kink and marriage with the kids.
  • Interacting with the muggles
  • 250 bouncy balls, 3 pairs of pantyhose, and high heels

About Our Guest

I’m an extremely down-to-Earth kind of guy who happens to get into a huge variety of kinks. I’m always interested in seeking out new and exciting scenes and have made some great kinky friends over the years. Mostly, I just really enjoy playing with a creative top who can get pleasure out of using my body as they see fit. Outside of being kinky, I like to swim, play video games and board games, and just hang out. Of course, I can always do those while wearing something kinky too. ;)

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature their new Rubber Puppy Hood.

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Episode 143 – Potato Skins

I had no idea about the history of Skins or Skinheads. A lot of good stuff in this episode including the early history, the beginning of Skin, and what’s happened in the years since.

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Skin
    • What is it?
    • Where did it start
    • Skins and racism
  • Gay Skins
  • How he got started in Skin culture
  • What is the current gay skin culture

About Our Guest

Been a skinhead longer than i’ve known i was gay. Like to go to shows or out for beer. Good conversation pushes my buttons almost as well as beating my balls.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Renegade Powerhouse Pump.

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Episode 142 – Unleashed!

The puppies have invaded! This episode was recorded during SEA-PAH’s Unleashed event. It’s a new social, mosh, and dance, with some bondage demos thrown in for fun. Oh, and we recorded a show at the beginning of the evening! Join us with about 40 or 50 puppies.

Show Notes

Topics

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. While at IML a few weeks ago, Drew asked Skeeter to design a custom puppy hood. Daddy Tony has also had some custom work done. Skeeter is the head of the Research and Development team at Mr. S, she is awesome, and she can do just about anything with leather that you might want. Give Mr. S a call if you have a crazy horny idea, and she’ll work with you to make it reality.

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Episode 141- #TuggerGate

Every contestant at the International Mr. Leather contest brings something unique to the stage. Some of us have more unique than others. Pup Tugger was fierce in his heels and corset. But some leather queens couldn’t handle that and had to boo him onstage or say mean stupid things about him on the Internet after the contest. For this episode, Tugger talks to us about his IML experience, and we explore the conflict from the traditionalists and the rest of us who just want to be who we are and show that to the world.

Tugger is a lot of fun! We had a great time. Don’t miss this one!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Tugger’s a bottom?!?
  • Tugger looks fierce in heels.
  • But some leathermen have small penises.
  • Things are changing, and a leather titleholder can be something more than they used to be.
  • How we feel uncomfortable about things that are different, and how do we handle that?
  • Tugger and future contests
  • Tugger’s etiquette blog

About Our Guest

As a fetishist in Phoenix, Arizona; it is not only the weather that is hot! Tugger came out into the Gay Men’s Leather community in 2009 and hit the ground running. He has gotten first paw experience in multiple types of power discordant relationships and a multitude of kinks. A huge part of why Tugger appreciates the Leather community is the educational opportunities therein. We are happy to educate our brothers and sisters in what we are comfortable in teaching and act as a resource to find information for what we are not. He loves helping his fellow fetishists along in their Leather journey and watching them grow in their life. Let’s make some people uncomfortable; because in discomfort, we are forced to grow!

Follow his journey at puptugger.com. And look at his etiquette blog.

You can see a compilation of Tugger’s on-stage moments from the IML contest.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Leather Sport Tank. It comes in both solid black and perforated versions.

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Episode 140 – Live at IML Part 3

Day 2 of the IML recordings! Today we’re talking with people on Sunday afternoon from the lobby of the host hotel.

Show Notes

Topics

  • Tyesha tells us about the contest events that happened Saturday night.
    • Pecs and Personality
  • Tina — International Ms. Leather — talks about her first IML. She also tells us about the IMsL contest.
  • The fabulous Midori shares her experiences as a first-time IML judge.
  • Rich is a photographer, and he likes to work the crowd at leather events.
  • Brad tells us about the Mr. International Rubber contest.

About Our Guests

Tyesha is here again. We love Tyesha.

Tina Maravilla AKA Sarge is the current International Ms. Leather. You can find her on Twitter: @SargeIMsL2015

Midori was with us again. She has a Rope Dojo coming up on July 18-19, Forte Femme is a female dominance workshop on June 19-21, and the Dog and Pony Show — an art show in southern California on August 1.

Rich Statmiller is a photographer who takes a lot of photos of leather events and other leather and kink. You can see his website at www.richtrove.com.

Brad (ChicagoGear) is one of the official IML photographers. He is also the production coordinator for Mr. International Rubber contest, which is coming up November 6-8.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode, Drew went to the Mr. S booth at the vendor mart and picked out some leather items. He looks sexy in the Carpenter Cargo Shorts in camo. These are awesome shorts that even make Drywall Ass look great! He also picked out a JT’s Miner Cap, also in camo.

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Episode 139 – Live at IML Part 2

And we’re still live at IML! Join us for the second part of our first day recording from the lobby of host hotel during the IML weekend.

Show Notes

Topics

About Our Guests

Trevor Black is Mr. San Francisco Leather.

Martinisoft is a gearhead living in Chicago. You can find him on Recon and Twitter.

Scout is the outgoing International Mr. Bootblack. You can find him on Facebook.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. One of the things that is great about Mr. S is that they will custom-make just about anything for you. If anyone can make some custom leather clothing or play gear, the awesome staff at Mr. S can do it. Visit them at the store in San Francisco, at IML, or other major leather events, or you can give them a call to see what they can do for you.

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Episode 138 – Live at IML Part 1

We’re live at IML! The entire NoSafeWord crew traveled to Chicago for the festivities. All of the hot leathermen, rubbermen, puppies, men in uniform, men in sports gear, and even a few furries. It’s like a kinky Noah’s Ark! Okay, maybe not. But it is fun.

We grab a few people from the live audience and have a conversation about the various IML experiences.

Show Notes

Topics

  • Tyesha’s an IML virgin!
  • Nitro has fun IML stories, too.
  • Steve tells us what it’s like to be an IML contestant
  • Neil talks about hypno and how he has fun with various guys at events like IML. And he does fun things to Sparky.

About Our Guests

Tyesha is one of our frequent guests. We love Tyesha!

Nitro is another frequent guest. And he’s fucking sexy.

Steve is Mr. Ohio Leather 2014.

Neil is an erotic hypnotist who has been on the show several times in the past. You can listen to Episodes x, x, x, and x to hear a lot about hypnotism. You can also go to Neil’s web site  erotic-hypno.com

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode, Mikey went to the Mr. S booth at the vendor mart and picked out two of their new neoprene items. Last episode, we featured the Neoprene Mercenary Vest. He also has a pair of the Neoprene Football Pants. They look very fun in person!

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Episode 137 – Mr. Rubber Ireland

There as an absolutely adorable rubber kinkster in Ireland. There’s probably a lot of them, but there’s one in particular who holds the very first Mr. Rubber Ireland title. And he is here with us to do a show! Join us to hear about the kink scene in Ireland.

If you’re in Ireland or planning to go there, check out www.gearedireland.com for all of the latest happenings.

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Mr. Rubber Ireland – Collie
  • Rubber Scene in Ireland
    • How does it compare with other places?
  • Kink or gear events in Europe
  • Furries haven’t fucked Ireland up. Yet.
  • Who is Collie? Where did he come from?

About Our Guest

Collie is the proud, and the first ever, holder of the title of Mr. Rubber Ireland. He is from Northern Ireland and has been involved in the rubber and kink scene for just over two years now and is loving every minute of it.

During his journey in the kink world, he has discovered that he is a pup and is well known as Pup Link. He shares his life with his pup partner, Felan, and has traveled to Dublin, London, and Berlin to discover more about himself and of the kink world. Collie takes pride in exploring his pup side as well his other kink interests like rubber, bondage, BDSM, and leather, to name but a few.

Collie is a dedicated volunteer with Geared Ireland, a non profit organization that holds a monthly fetish dress code night in Dublin, where gay men can meet up and socialize with each other in their favorite pieces of gear in a safe and friendly environment. On his travels about Europe, he tries to spread the word about Geared Ireland and the fetish scene within Ireland. He does what he can to promote the Irish fetish scene as well as Geared Ireland and all the hard work that the organizers and  the wonderful volunteers do.

As he considers himself fairly new to the scene, he makes a point to try and welcome any newcomers and to make sure that he pays forward the warm welcome that he received. Collie is not afraid to pass on any knowledge he has gained or to loan gear for others to try as we all have to start somewhere. He is a firm believer that every newcomer should be welcomed and aided to ensure that they have the best experience and join the fetish community. Only by welcoming new blood into the community, can the community grow, strengthen, and survive!

You can find him on Twitter as @omegapuplink and on Facebook as MrRubberIreland.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Neoprene Mercenary Pant (also comes with yellow, blue, or red piping) and the Neoprene Mercenary Vest (colored piping available, too).

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The view from the back is nice, too.

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Episode 136 – IML Survival Guide

In just a few short weeks, we will make the annual pilgrimage to the leather mecca in the midwest. For those of us who may be virgins, we bring you the survival guide for the International Mr. Leather contest weekend. Along with all of the usual frivolity that only the NoSafeWord Show can bring you!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Parties
    • Gear Blast
    • San Francisco Party
    • Onyx Party
    • Woof Camp
    • BLUF Party
    • Chicago Hellfire Club
    • Chicago Rubbermen
  • IML Events
    • Opening Ceremonies
    • Pecs & Personalities
    • Contest itself
    • IML Victory
    • Black & Blue
  • Making Plans to play
    • Don’t schedule too much
    • Don’t schedule too little
    • Don’t get your nose bent out of shape, for anything
  • Don’t get too drunk and make a mess of yourself
  • If you want to play with someone, tell him. Don’t hint.
  • But take it well if they say no
  • “Next Best” radar syndrome
  • If you are going there with a partner set expectations ahead of time
    • Good rule… we can fuck at home
  • You are not going to get it all in this trip
  • Never turn your nose up at someone else’s fetish
  • Gear
    • What to bring, what not to bring
    • How to pack
    • TSA Travel Restrictions
    • Handkerchief to the door handle

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Four Buckle Hand Restraints.

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Episode 135 – Staying Alive

Sadly many of us in the gay community have been affected by someone who has taken his or her own life. The crew of the NoSafeWord Show has known several people during the past couple of years. Rattnip shares with us his brush with suicide and discusses with us what it felt like for him. We also talk a bit about how to recognize the signs in our friends.

If you are feeling like things are hopeless and there is no other way out, please call one of these organizations before you do anything else:

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Who is Rattnip?
  • Where he came from
  • His personal story with suicide
  • Signs to look for in yourself
  • Signs in others
  • What you can do to help others

About Our Guest

Rattnip moved to Seattle in July 2014. A New England native, he escaped from the clutches of banking to pursue a career for a large company you are familiar with but will remain nameless. The rat bartended for three years in Boston while putting himself through school and eventually earning his MBA. Now in semi-bartending retirement he is a member of SEA-PAH, a leather and rubber enthusiast, and one of those furry people you’ve heard so much about.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Leather Cocksucker All-Round Zip Hood.

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Episode 134 – Boys Will Be Boys

Whew! That wasn’t as much of a train wreck that I was afraid it would be. (SHHHHH! Don’t tell Daddy Tony that I wrote that.)

So this time we have Daddy Tony, Mikey, and Drew on the show. We talk a lot about how things work from the daddy/dom/sir/master side of things on the NoSafeWord Show. But tonight we talk all about how it is from the other side of our play and relationships. Enjoy!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • How do the boys handle all of the different headspaces that they have?
    • Puppy, boy, sub, husband, top, daddy
  • The Boy Union™
  • Switching
    • How does the headspace work when you sub and then do a revenge scene?
  • Boner and Brutus
  • Etiquette for sub vs. slave vs. puppy vs. boy
  • Negotiations from the sub side of things
  • Collars

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Acrylic Ball Press.

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Episode 133 – The Super Show

(No, it doesn’t have that many S’s. You need to butch it up a bit more.)

Superheroes! That’s what we’re talking about on this episode. Pablo Greene joins us. He’s the author of How to Kill a Superhero. Lots of fun discussion with him about why he has a superhero fetish. Also, we talk about where and how to get your hands on a good superhero costume.

After that, we review Drew’s nominations for the hottest superheroes in various categories. We’ll set up a survey so that you can vote on who you think is the hottest, most fun in the sack, and best relationship material of the mutant variety. Check here for the survey in the next day or two.

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Pablo Greene
  • His books
  • Why is there a super hero fetish?
  • How does one acquire superhero gear? (Here’s a hint: Go find the guide at howtokillasuperhero.net.)
  • Take our Survey! https://www.surveymonkey.com/s/CPRMMBJ
  • Who’s the hottest superhero, in the following categories:
    • Most likely to be good boyfriend material
    • Best power UNF
    • Hottest hero
    • Best power
    • Overall best gear

About Our Guest

Never heard of superhero fetish? Then it’s time you met author Pablo Greene, who is leading the genre with his four-book series How to Kill a Superhero. The books tell the story of Roland, who must learn to harness the powers of The Golden Man, whose secrets are found in an occult book by the same name. The series has been a hit with fans of gay men’s erotica, as well as readers of fantasy and sci-fi. How to Kill a Superhero has been featured at International Mr. Leather, Southeast Black and Blue, the Leather Archives & Museum, Dart’s Domain, No Safeword Show and Ropecast. The first two books are available now, and book three, titled Transformation Fetish, releases in 2015. You can meet Pablo this year at IML and Urban Bear Fair in New York City as well as New York Comic Con. Pablo is based out of New York City. For more info, visit howtokillasuperhero.net.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Fist Mitts with D-rings from the Fetters USA line.

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Episode 132 – Informed Decisions

One’s HIV status is intensely personal. It should be disclosed and discussed whenever negotiating any kind of sexual activity with another person. Generally, we don’t talk about it because of the historically negative reactions from society and many within the gay and kink communities. But are there situations when we should disclose someone else’s HIV status? As you can expect, this is a very gray area for some situations. We have a sometimes difficult discussion on this subject during this week’s episode. And we encourage you to send us your thoughts.

Show Notes

In the News

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Devonshire Gag.

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Episode 131 – Scentsless in Seattle

… And back to our normal (ahem) crazy selves. We dig into the stupidity of the world around us, some letters from our amazing listeners, and the role of the smell of a sexy man in our play. Oh, and many many side trips into the bushes, around the fire hydrants, and multi-layered tangents because the puppies are on the show with us this time!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

No, no. I don’t want to spoil the surprise. You just gotta listen.

But here’s the blog of the hot puppy.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Chest to Wrist Restraint.

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