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Episode 225 – We are back!

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We are back! To avoid pulling something (ahem) we are going to hear from our listeners and provide feedback.

 Show Notes

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Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Locking Waist Belt, just $139.95:

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Episode 218 – You, Dear Listener

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The guys will delve into the listener correspondence pile and give thoughtful, reasonable responses. :)

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
    • It has been one year since the attack on the Pulse club in Orlando.
  • In the News and Letters!

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Ribbed Silicone Anal Trainer Kit for $57.95.

 

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Episode 215 – Foot in Mouth, Please

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Today, at popular request, we talk about feet! Despite Sparky’s personal aversion, we brought on a veritable foot fetish expert, author James T. Medak, to talk to us about all things feet. This is also perhaps our most pun-filled episode to date!

Show Notes

  • In the News
  • Podophilia – Foot Worship!
    • Our guest was suggested by fan of the show, TiedFeetGuy.
    • Introverts and folks from repressive environments tend to more often into feet
    • Foot sucking and service can be an intense power play and show of total submission
    • Tickle torture is a common way tops can enjoy feet paired with bondage
    • Foot fetishism can be an obsession, a primal lust and need for worship. Foot pigs will pay for used smelly socks for example.
    • Foot fucking and foot jobs can be an intense sensation for both
    • It’s hard to introduce your foot fetish to a potential partner. Many get very self conscious about the social stigma.

About Our Guest

James T. Medak is the author of five best-selling erotic tomes, including Getting Off on the Wrong Foot, How to be a Foot Pig, and an anthology called The Best Foot Forward. When not working on his sixth novel, he maintains a popular Tumblr and continues to get into all sorts of kinky things with his boyfriend. He lives in Chicago.

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Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Triple Stripe Rubber Sox:

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Episode 213 – Savage on Consent

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Dan Savage returns to the podcast as a guest, and we talk about consent.

 Show Notes

  • What Now? Dan presents it this week, and mentions three organizations that really could use our donations: ACLU, Planned Parenthood, and the International Refugee Assistance Project.
  • In the News: Sadly, stealthing is the newest, dangerous sex trend…for straight people.
  • We receive a letter asking for advice from Dan about a violation of consent from a prominent member of their local kink community.
  • The discussion moves into consent in general.
    • Having “the talk” before going in. A too-long talk can make the scene less passionate.
    • How you give “the talk.” It can be given in a reassuring, positive, and inclusive way.
    • Practice makes perfect…with the same person. You will read each other more readily without having to vocalize things, and trust between the two grows with each new experience with each other.
    • Consent given during a sexual experience that was previously out-of-bounds…not to be taken lightly.
    • Straight folks new to kink may be at a slight disadvantage compared to the gay male community…since gay men tend to first ask “what are you into?” since there is not one activity assumed to be part of gay sex.
    • Sometimes, consent given even well-before a scene could still be a negative time, but the consolation prize is that the person who gave the consent learned what they did not like.
    • Finally, if you are on the extreme side of kink activities, maybe an e-mail or text exchange stating what is consented to is a good idea.

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Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Padded Scream Mitts:

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About Our Guest

Dan Savage is a sex advice columnist, activist, author, and podcaster from Seattle. Listen to his podcast The Savage Lovecast and read his writing on The Stranger at The Savage Love and SLOG.

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Episode 202 – Pop Goes the Kinkster

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A few months ago the local news weekly, The Stranger, sent a reporter over to our show to do a story about us and other kinky online educational resources from the Seattle area, and thus was the first time we met Matt. He is a sweet guy that did a great write up about our show, so we have invited him back to have a talk with us about how kink culture and pop culture sometimes interact (as sometimes doesn’t). Always fun to hear from matt!

Show Notes

  • A listener letter asking about bar etiquette. The guys talk about extending yourself to others at the bar…verbally that is! More information about bar etiquette can be found in a past episode of the pup’s podcast – Ungagged 4: The Devil is in the Details.
  • Our guest Matt Baume talks about his relationship to the kink community as a journalist who is an advocate of kink from outside the kink community.
  • How does kink and pop culture link up? We talk about different examples in gaming (Ironbull), in movies (Secretary), and in music (Madonna…duh!)

About Our Guest

Matt Baume makes his third visit to the NoSafeWord podcast! Matt is a Seattle-based writer, storyteller, and video maker whose work focuses on LGBT issues, nerds, and anything that is strange and wonderful.

Matt hosts the podcast The Sewers of Paris, where gay men share stories about the entertainment that changed their lives. He is the author of the book Defining Marriage and hosts a podcast of the same name where he and his partner joke and chat about queer issues.

He is currently working on a project called Playing With Pride, featuring personal stories about what happens when queer culture and game culture collide. You can get in touch @mattbaume on Twitter, and check out his YouTube channel for weekly videos about LGBT issues.

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Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Champion Singlet

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Episode 201 – I See Bootblack Part 2

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For this episode we continue the discussion with Patrick about is side job doing phone sex work, and move on to some discussion about the intersection of age and kink culture. This is going to be a highly fun episode that you are not going to want to miss!

About Our Guest

boy Patrick is a queer, switch femme, otter. A native of Dallas, he has a huge passion for leather and fetish wear care. Patrick is all about education and empowerment when it comes to kink, both in and out of the dungeon. Through education and experience we are able to expand our abilities to give and receive pleasure.

Patrick is one of the bootblacks at the Dallas Eagle. He is also the current International Community Bootblack. He thrives off of presence and sharing energy with anyone who will engage with him, on or off the stand. Patrick believes that through this presence we can build bridges between communities, develop a better understand of our history and present, and most importantly connect with one another on a deeper level.

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Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Fetters Sit Sling 

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Episode 201 – I See Bootblack Part 1

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Our guest, boy Patrick, talks to us about bootblacking and how it relates both to his personal sexuality and to the broader community. boy Patrick also discusses his other career as a phone sex operator and Daddy Tony roleplays as a “typical” client. Stay tuned for the second part for the next episode where we talk about age and kink.

Show Notes

In the News

About Our Guest

boy Patrick is a queer, switch femme, otter. A native of Dallas, he has a huge passion for leather and fetish wear care. Patrick is all about education and empowerment when it comes to kink, both in and out of the dungeon. Through education and experience we are able to expand our abilities to give and receive pleasure.

Patrick is one of the bootblacks at the Dallas Eagle. He is also the current International Community Bootblack. He thrives off of presence and sharing energy with anyone who will engage with him, on or off the stand. Patrick believes that through this presence we can build bridges between communities, develop a better understand of our history and present, and most importantly connect with one another on a deeper level.

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Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Fetters Sit Sling 

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Episode 200 – We Are 200

Holy shit, somehow we made it to 200 of these damn things! We hope you are as excited as we are that we hit this milestone (though in truth you probably aren’t, but it is still cool)!

For this episode we start off with presenting a little award to a friend of the show. We did this because she has been going through a lot, and through it all she still supports the community, her family, and our show. So right at the beginning we present this award to Mistress Pixie Fyre (on previously in Episode 165 Mistress Fyre and Episode 190 Cum Unity). And here is a pic of the award we presented to her:

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Then it was time to get the show proper, and we did something completely different this time. You are just going to have to have a listen to believe it!

Here is to another 200 episodes!

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Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Puppy Hood Custom Colors.

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Episode 198 – Tykables

Long time friend of the show suggested that we talk with a friend of his, Tod from Tykables. If you are not familiar with Tykables, you should go to their website: https://tykables.com/

They have a wide range of items for ABDL’s out there, such as diapers, onsies, jeans, and much more. Tod is a great guy that we really enjoyed getting to know, and if you are a friend of any ABDL you are going to find great gifts here. Our favorite are the black and yellow diapers, they are pretty damn hot! !

Show Notes

News Links

Topics

  • Listener Letter #1 – Past attendee to a podcast has a question about chastity
  • Listener Letter #2 – Past guest gives some info about infection rates and the relation to PREP
  • ABDLs and their growth in the community
  • Crossover with other fetishes and kinks

About Our Guests

We at Tykables agree that we must all grow old, but we maintain that growing up is optional. We bring to market items from our and your childhood in adult sizes. Starting with where it all began, diapers.

We are an adult baby owned company that strives to bring the best adult baby diapers and adult baby products to the market.  We are always thinking of new products that will better suit the adult baby and diaper lover ABDL market.  Our products are top quality and sold at affordable prices. We ship our products in discreet packaging via the most economical, yet fastest way possible.

We incorporated on February 14, 2014.  September 2014 our first product, the Waddler went on sale at Folsom Street Fair. We were the first and still only ABDL company to attend Folsom Street Fair.

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Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Blackout Gas Mask.

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Episode 197 – Got it Covered

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Don’t be silly, wrap your willy! Today’s show is all about condoms! We talk about how condoms are received by the community, how they impact play and what we can do to improve our safe sex practices.

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Growing up in a condom
  • Who’s bare? Why?

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

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This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Heavy Duty Sleeveless Tee – $129.95.

 

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Episode 196 – Savage Rebroadcast

Hey all, this is actually a rebroadcast of the first episode we had with Dan Savage. You see recently both Daddy Tony & Sparky work on the Savage Lovecast to help answer some kink related questions! You can find that episode at: http://www.savagelovecast.com/episodes/527

We thought we would repost the episode when he was one with us way back when and hope you don’t notice the difference in the audio quality (I still hate those old mics, grrrrr).

And we will be back soon with some great episode!


 

When we asked Dan Savage  to join us on the show, we were floored when he said yes! He joined us for our regular Friday night recording to do a 2 hour show. We talked to him about how he first got started with his column as well as his new book! (Find Dan’s Book, American Savage, on Amazon)

His book talks about Faith, Sex, Love and Politics, so we came up questions about each one of those topics to pose to Dan. And in Part 2 we will have some questions from listeners who wanted to ask Dan some advice questions. We also get a chance to talk to him about the It Gets Better Project.

We also mention on the show Tynan Fox’s current effort to open an inclusive coffee shop using a kickstarter, you can find out more about it at: http://www.tynanfox.com/2013/08/-latte.html.

Show Notes

 In the News

About Our Guest

Dan Savage is a sex advice columnist, activist, author, and podcaster from Seattle. Listen to his podcast The Savage Lovecast and read his writing on The Stranger at The Savage Love and SLOG.

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Ungagged Episode 18 – Just the Tip

The Puppies are joined by the very fun and adorable Martini from Chicago, and they launch into a big discussion about Foreskin Restoration. Martini has talked with Drew over time about the subject. And one of the fun ways we explore it is because Mikey hasn’t really thought much about restoring of foreskins on guys, so we are exploring the subject from the eyes of a newbie!

This is a fun way to jump into this grown fascination so many guys are picking up!

Show Notes

Topics

  • We play a game of Fortunately/Unfortunately, you won’t believe this one
  • Foreskin Restoration
    • Why do men do this?
    • What was Martini’s experience with it and why he started it
    • Why is it so prevalent to be cut, especially in the USA
    • The scent of a dick! YUM!
  • How restoration works
    • Is it even possible?
    • Is it painful to do?
    • Success stories?
    • Devices that are available
  • The movements to stop circumcision

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Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Cone of Shame.

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Episode 195 – Oh Hell No

Nothing more to say today other than this episode is all about the aftermath.

Hold on to your butts!

 

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Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Shoulder to Wrist Restraints.

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Episode 193 – Sister Roma

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Porn, prevention, and propositions – OH MY!  Today Sparky and Daddy Tony talk with their special guest Sister Roma from the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence all about being a sister, the works that they have done in the past and currently, and Prop. 60 in California, and the reasons why it would be disastrous for both the porn industry and safety across the board!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Sisters are doin’ it for themselves!  Oh, and the community.
  • #MyNameIs – Facebook and identities
  • Prop 60 – The hidden possibilities behind the language
  • Porn and prevention – how they go hand in hand

About Our Guest

January 2017 will mark Roma’s 30th year as one of the most active and widely recognized Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, dedicating more than half her life to community service, activism and fundraising. Roma can be found hosting events from coast to coast and around the globe. Check her out online on YouTube and all social media platforms @SisterRoma.

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Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Long Worm – Square Peg – $139.95.

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