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Episode 192 – Right Brain, Left Ball

Creativity and stuff!  Sparky and Daddy Tony chat up our guests Brutus and K0mpy all about being creative, from getting started to finding continuing inspiration, learn about how these two creative pups come up with awesome home-solutions to common kinkster problems, and how they break down challenges!

Show Notes

News

Topic: Creativity

  • Different types of creativity – play is absolutely included!
  • Improvisation, adaptabality, and finding solutions
  • You are creative, learn to embrace it!
  • Copying isn’t always a bad thing

About our Guests
Brutus: @thatdrewlion
K0mpy: @k0mpy

About Kompy: Starting in the Minneapolis kink and party scenes, K0mpy Dog found his way into puppy through the furry community. He frequently returns to the mid-west to support events and spread the good word of pup.

In Seattle, K0mpy brings his experience as a promoter, programmer, and art major to the SEAPAH board of directors. In his free time, he is an amateur latex clothing designer and photographer.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Patrol Gloves!

You’re not in head to toe leather without a good pair of leather gloves. These smooth finish Leather Patrol Gloves are meant to fit tight. Made from .45mm ultra-thin Cabretta Leather to ensure a snug, smooth fit while providing an exceptional grip and maximum dexterity. Not only do they look good but they allow you to do pretty much anything you can do without gloves on. Plus, when your boy sees you in these he’ll be begging you to use him. Patrol-Gloves-G004-6

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Ungagged Episode 16 – Far Away Play

The Puppies are back again with another episode to help all you kinksters out there! This time they are tackling the subject of long distance relationships. Let’s face it, it is a real challenge sometimes to find the person that is going to match all your kinks. There are a great many of us out there that rely on having a relationship is our play buddies, friends, and collared partners over longer and longer distances.

Having an online relationship is can be a challenge for anyone, but rewarding at the same time. The puppies talk about some ways to deal with having a long distance relationship as well as some ways to ensure it is healthy for both of you.

 

Show Notes

Topics

  • It’s back, kids, that’s right it is time for THE BEST OF CRAIGLIST
  • Long Distance Relationships
    • Distance is a relative term
    • Actual Relationships online
    • Expectations and Fantasy V. Reality
    • Experiences as a gay
    • Experiences as a boy
    • Experiences as a Sir
    • Over vs. under communication
    • Types of orders
    • Communication without exaggeration
    • Pro/Cons

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Fuckgear Racer Vest .

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Episode 191 – Semper Fido

Today we talk to the illustrious and amazing Pup Scuff Northwest Puppy 2017 and International Puppy of the year 2016. We explore his approach to pup-play and inspiring kink journey overcoming deep life challenges. We discuss how to approach the puppy community for newbies.

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Poop Horoscopes
  • Overcoming life challenges
  • Balancing life and kink
  • Finding your place in the community

About Our Guests

Skuff Pup is an Arkansas native who moved to Seattle 7 years ago after an 11 year career as an active Marine. He started his kink journey within the ab/Dl community over 15 years ago. This led him to the furry fandom which ultimately found its way to the pup and leather communities.

Skuff has been active within the leather and pup community in Seattle for many years, and became a part of the board for SEA-PAH two years ago, and is currently the Puppy relations for SEA-PAH.

Skuff is the 2016 international Puppy of the year and the 2017 Northwest Puppy title holder.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the FuckGear Chaps

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Ungagged Episode 15 – Headspace Healing

Our mad scientist puppies have been up to a lot of projects, and thinking about so much more, using the very latest technologies, like 3d printing and VR. They are always researching the latest things that they can come up with create even better bondage scenes!

Show Notes

Topics

  • Talking about future tech and kink!
    • NovaPro Glasses
    • Estim/ErosTek
    • VR
    • Dating Apps
    • Crowd Funding
  • Bad Scenes
    • Every situation is unique
    • Headspace problems
    • Abuse problems
    • Anticipation of failure versus success
    • Comfort versus communication
    • Frustration and emotion in scene
      • Top down frustration
      • sub up frustration

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Leather Bar Vest .

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Episode 188 – It’s whatever the fuck you want! Part 2

Ever wonder why some people just automatically grab your butt when they first meet you?  What’s cool and not cool when it comes to assuming what people are into?  Sparky and Daddy talk all about perceptions of kink, and how to check your ass-umptons at the door!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Assumptions of kink!  Just cause I like A doesn’t mean I like B and C
  • Just because I am into being treated rough, doesn’t mean I want to be treated rough by you.
  • Similarly just because I am into something, doesn’t mean I am into it right now (flogging, piss play)
  • People who aere into chastity are much more gung-ho about chastity than those who are not into chastity (Bandwagon Fallacy)
  • Experience doesn’t trump facts.  It’s possible for a top to have been doing it wrong for a long time.
  • Because bad things happen to good people, doesn’t mean that you can’t have fun if you take precautions and educate yourself. Don’t be afraid of the boogie man
  • Don’t assume that because a person got off a certain way means they are going to every time. What you did to get them off may not be what they got off on.
  • Personal incredulity – Your own personal dislike or disgust to another’s kink isn’t really relevant on how the kink is a good choice for them or not. The only measure should be if  it is safe and doesn’t harm others.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Deluxe Mr. S Ball Gag.

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Episode 187 – It’s Whatever The Fuck You Want

In The Audience!

Russ and Will
Brutus
Bndgkid
Damien

Show Notes

Listener Letter! Newbie in Chicago!

In the News

Topic – Platitudes and Kink

  • Prime directive – non-interference policy.
  • Separating online fantasy from reality.
  • Revisiting collar etiquette.
  • Emotions!  Structure in a very unstructured world.
  • Ebbs and flows – the community is not “dying”
  • HBO presents fucking Donald Trump with a barb-wire strap-on.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode is sponsored by Mr. S Leather in San Francisco:

For this episode, we feature:

Adjustable Steel Spreader Bar

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Episode 186 – Bootblack Dream Team

We talk to Erick and Meghan today about their leather journeys. We answer what bootblacking is all about. Talk about the energy exchange of bootblacking. Its our first show back from the recording break people… please bear with us…

Show Notes

Topics

  • We’re back!!
  • Sparky got laid in Orlando and doesn’t want to talk about it
  • Michigan’s sexual education event Sinergymi
  • Our guests personal bootblack journeys
  • Alaska Center for Alternative Lifestyles
  • Bootblacks status in the leather contest circuit
  • Things degrade quickly

About Our Guests

Erick Joseph, International Mr. Bootblack 2016

Erick Joseph is proud to have served the community as the first ever Alaska State Bootblack and now currently as International Mr. Bootblack 2016! His passion for bootblacking stems from his discovery of all things leather at the Alaska Center for Alternative Lifestyles located in downtown Anchorage, Alaska. For Erick, bootblacking is a fulfilling form of service to his community, as well as a way of helping others preserve the positive energy of their leathers. Most importantly, he enjoys the sexiness and connection that a good boot scene can encompass.

Erick’s goal throughout his title year as Alaska State Bootblack had been to cultivate the bootblack community in his home state by planting seeds of education while blacking at events from dungeon parties to steam punk conventions. In addition, he has bootblacked at every Imperial Court of All Alaska event he was invited to! As IMBB his goal is to bring a positive and FUN face to International Mr. Bootblack while having hot scenes in and out of the stands!

Erick enjoys traveling, meeting others, and creating bonds with community members for future endeavors. He describes himself as a dedicated, hardworking, loyal, and FUN Bootblack with a special interest in service and blacking from the lap.

He invites EVERYONE to come have a FUN year with him and Tigger as they spread the word of IMBB and IML across the world

Meghan Bootblack, International Ms. Bootblack 2016

Meghan is proud to represent her community as International Ms Bootblack 2016.

Since 2012 she’s been active in her local Kink and Leather communities, blacking regularly at The Barracks, ReMix and fundraisers throughout her region. At home, Meghan runs a Boot Lab for new and existing bootblacks in the area. She also serves as Treasurer for Mr. Friendly: Team Louisville, and is a full member of Titans of the Midwest.

Meghan seeks to create an experience in her chair that not only honors and worships your Leather, but also your journey. Bootblacking gives her the space to define her ideas of sexual expression and spirituality in ways that resonate deeply.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Electro Cock Cage 2.0.

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Ungagged Episode 14 – The Third Hole

Ever heard the term Sounding and not know what it was? Now is the time to find out! The puppies are going to talk about Pee Hole Stuffing. What are the risks and how do you do it safely, and how to do you have a fun time with it. So crab a pipe cleaner, stuff yourself and listen up!

(the NoSafeWord legal department wants to remind everyone, don’t stuff a pipe cleaner up your dick hole. Not a good idea. The person writing this shit has lost his mind)

Show Notes

Topics

  • Follow up on the pup headspace discussion that was discussed on the show we did called Episode 175: Pup Identity
  • Pee Hole Stuffing!
    • Mikey has only done it a few time, Brutus however…
    • What is sounding?
    • Why is it fun?
    • Potential risks
    • What kind of sounds should you work with?
    • Penis Sphincters!
    • Catheter play?
    • Do Not Lose the Count!
    • Remember, there are risk involved, just like everything. Be careful, and have fun with it!

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Manetic Ball Stretcher .

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Episode 184 – Listening to the Listeners

Daddy Tony and Sparky open up the mailbag this week to talk about your listener letters!  After busting a load to the dick pics sent in by our awesome listeners, Sparky and Daddy get around to answering your questions about everything from rubber gear, loud sex, and some awesome throwbacks to some earlier episodes!

Show Notes

In the News

Topic – Listener Letters!

  • Is there non-latex rubber gear?
  • CAN you be as loud as the hell you want when you’re making love?!
  • What does undetectable actually mean and does that mean unsafe sex is OK?
  • OMG, we’ve been discovered!!  It’s happening for us!!
  • Dealing with body changes and rocking your own energy! (and you owe us a dick pic, Trekboy008!)

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the The Handler Collar and Gag!.

Mr. S Leather — The Handler Collar & Gag

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Episode 182 – Pride Match Game

One of the ways in which we carry our message, which is all about making sure the fun is in our kink, is to stop for a moment and do something out-of-the-box. Well today, we forego the normal kink topics and do a show featuring a game of matching (cause I guess we shouldn’t call it the other thing or get into trouble). We had a BBQ of friends and asked a few to jump on the show with us to play our game.

I think that you are going to find it was a damn good time!

Happy Pride Month, everyone. We love you!

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Rigid Collar & Cuffs.

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Episode 180 – Like a Fine Wine…

Our good friend Kinkidiver is back and here to talk about how sometimes experience, knowledge, and history can be some of the sexiest features you’ll ever find in a guy, especially when it comes to BDSM!  Sparky, Daddy Tony, and Jeff tackle the topics of agism, what older gentlemen have to offer, and why being a hot young twink isn’t always everything!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Older guys do tend to have more experience and knowledge!
  • Many are experienced in mentoring – but some want to play too!
  • Body image and how to handle getting older
  • Experience-hunters
  • Dealing with energy levels and getting older

About our Guest

Kinkidiver has been happily tying guys up (and getting tied up himself) for many years. One of the NoSafeWord crew has known him for 18 years. He loves bondage, rubber, leather, and sports gear and is an all-around perv. Just our type!  You can find him as kinkidiver on Recon.  Kinkidiver was also on Episode 62.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Vector Ultra-Padded Straightjacket.

Mr. S Leather — Vector Ultra-Padded Straitjacket

We’re really excited about our new Vector Ultra-Padded Straitjacket. After months of testing and design updates we’re ecstatic with the end result.

This piece comes with full body padding in the front and back. The padding also extends to the arms and hands. With this extra cushioning your joints are well covered so you can stay in this comfortably for a long time.

This new design has a more fitted body so you’re going to look amazing in it too. We’ve also made the cockstraps much more comfortable. From the back it fits like your favorite jock would! Velcro closure at the back allows you to hold the straitjacket in place as you cinch it on your boy.

We’ve included numerous D-rings along the sides so you’ve got a lot of great tie down points. Just like our Deluxe Straitjacket this comes with an arms down option that allows you to use it like a sleepsack. Six belts lets you get your boy in just the right position for this feature. These same belts allows you to lock his arms back along with the pinion strap.

Bondage meets sexy in this hot new piece. Made right in the heart of SF by our devious production team. Come see it at IML this weekend and see why this may be one of the best straitjackets out there!

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Episode 177 – Bday Puppies

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Newly Weds – 2016 edition! I’m not even sure what a buddy bar is…
    • Brutus wants it noted that these were very difficult questions to answer!
    • Puppies continue to fail to understand the questions.
  • If you’d like to flash your junk, Maricolpa County is the place to be!
    • Sparky used to be on the yearbook editing Staff, for sure a cool guy.
  • Fisting – A hands-on demonstration!
  • Grindr – Don’t use pervy as a word on the profile. Code words for something you’re not expecting.
    • Michelle Obama invented Scruff. Thanks Obama!
    • Daddy’s English accent continues to amaze.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Padded Hand Sling.

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Episode 152 – ToyTorture

In this show we interview ToyTorture, a fun kinkster from Kink Heav– I mean Germany! We talk about his life experience growing up kinky and how he started his toy review website ToyTorture.com. We compare the differences in the various kink-cultures he’s gotten to experience and the expansion of kink culture.

Show Notes

Topics

About Our Guest

Growing up in a rural area of the coast of nothern Germany Frederik was kinky dirty boy before he even knew the word “sex”. Once he discovered the internet he was soon all over the (porn) place. Being a shy and introverted yet happy pig who is willing to try everything at least twice he is almost always open for a good discussion about BDSM history and theory, play scenes and snuggles.

To let others participate on his quest of finding the best toys for great scenes and to give something back to the community, he started ToyTorture.com in 2012 a website focusing on reviewing BDSM toys and helping new people into the sometimes overwhelmingly complex world of BDSM. Through his website he got to know our own Drew Lion who he started off on his “real” journey into kink on a trip to San Francisco.

When he is not working (for his website) or is looking for love in all the wrong places he enjoys going to the gym, reading, playing PC and table top RPGs and way too much baking cakes. You can follow his kinky live on Recon, PlanetRomeo, Twitter and of course ToyTorture.com.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Double Strap Suspender Harness.

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