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Episode 131 – Scentsless in Seattle

… And back to our normal (ahem) crazy selves. We dig into the stupidity of the world around us, some letters from our amazing listeners, and the role of the smell of a sexy man in our play. Oh, and many many side trips into the bushes, around the fire hydrants, and multi-layered tangents because the puppies are on the show with us this time!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

No, no. I don’t want to spoil the surprise. You just gotta listen.

But here’s the blog of the hot puppy.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Chest to Wrist Restraint.

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Episode 130 – Beyond Consent

In this episode, we tackle a very serious topic.  Domestic violence and abuse are not easy subjects.  In vanilla relationships, they are difficult to recognize when they are happening to you. It’s even harder when done in the context of power exchange, dom/sub, or BDSM.

Pup Nitro joins us to talk about this sensitive and very important topic.

If you are or think you might be in an abusive relationship, please seek help from trusted friends, family, or professionals. The National Domestic Violence Hotline is available to help or point you in the right direction.

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Nitro’s previous experiences
  • Warning signs: How can you tell when you or someone you love is in an abusive situation?
    • Immediate full control
    • Isolation from family and friends
  • How can you tell the difference between healthy BDSM and abuse?
  • How to find help if you think you might be in an abusive relationship or situation
  • Disturbing statistics about abuse and LGBT people

About our Guest

Bryson “Pup Nitro” Hankinson
International Leatherboy 2011

In 2006, he moved to Atlanta where he met Sir Alan Penrod and began to discover his “Leather Heart”.  Nearly a year later he earned his collar and was given his pup name, “NITRO” (Needs Intense Torture to Reach Orgasm).  Nitro is currently the President of Panther L/L, and is a Co-Founder of the Hotlanta Rubber and Gear Club. He is the co-owner of Southeast Black and Blue, LLC, and co-producer of Atlanta Leather Pride. He has held the titles of Mr. Hotlanta Rubber 2008, Southeast Leatherboy 2011, and International Leatherboy 2011. Nitro teaches BDSM and Leather Lifestyle classes on a variety of topics and enjoys any play involving tight bondage, mummification, rubber/latex, electricity, cbt, and watersports. He also serves as a mentor to other boys, helping them find their voice within our beautifully diverse leather community.

Nitro has been with us a whole lot before, in Episode 98, Episode 80Episode 62, and Episode 10.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Bang Silicone Sound by Oxballs.

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Episode 129 – Rubbery!

Rubbout 24 is coming up. Really soon! Like within the next 4 weeks. So you should get your tickets. But before we get to that…. Reid is one of the organizers of the rubbery pervertfest in Vancouver BC way up in the Canada. He’s here to talk about the event.

We also talk a lot about rubber in general. So for those of you who aren’t into rubber but are curious, there’s info for you, too!

Rubbout is April 2 to 5. Go to the web site. Hurry, get hotel reservations soon to get the discount!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Rubbout 24 details
  • All about rubber
  • Custom-made vs. off-the-rack
  • Sizing
  • How to get into your rubber
  • Body shape and rubber
  • Care for leather and rubber

About our Guest

Reid has been involved in rubber and kink for 16 years. He moved to Vancouver from Calgary in 2009 while he still held the Mr. Rubber Calgary title, and instantly became involved in the rubber and leather community in Vancouver, continuing the work he started in Calgary. He has been organizing Rubbout since the 20th anniversary in 2010 when Mitch Kenyon passed the torch to Doug, Rob, and Reid. He became Mr. West Coast Rubber in 2010 and ran for Mister International Rubber in the same year. In his 4th year organizing Rubbout, Reid has found a growing and integrated local community of gay perverts — in rubber, leather, puppy, and other forms — that are supportive of a growing interest in gear and events and groups that bring these communities together. Never shy to share his knowledge and gear, he has found a varied group of young men craving experience in bondage, kink and fetish.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Holy Trainer Chastity Cock Cage.

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Episode 128 – A Night At the Museum

There is a rich history in the leather community. Most of it is passed on between generations through folklore. Unfortunately, we have a bit of a generational gap in the gay community. One of our greatest resources is the Leather Archives & Museum. The folks there collect things from around the world that have been created and used in the leather and kink histories.  Rick Storer, the LA&M’s Executive Director, and Jakob VanLammeren, the Archivist and Librarian, join us during this episode to tell us all about the Leather Archive & Museum. Listen in and learn something new about our history and the people who work to preserve it.

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • What is the Leather Archives & Museum
  • History
  • What are their collections
  • Upcoming Events
  • What is new at the museum
  • Things that are available online
  • A few years from running out of room

About our Guests

Rick Storer is the Executive Director of the Leather Archives & Museum. He is a certified public accountant and holds a Masters of Library Science degree from Dominican University (River Forest, IL). He has presented papers for library, art and museum conferences and sexuality conferences and enjoys working in the arena where these two subjects overlap. His research interests lie in copyright and privacy issues as related to sexuality and GLBT archives. During his tenure in the corporate world, he worked on a team to successfully bring domestic partner benefits to a large insurance company.

Rick joined the Leather Archives staff as Executive Director in 2002, after serving as a volunteer for the museum for several years. He has been presented with awards including Pantheon of Leather Man of the Year, Pantheon of Leather President’s Award, SouthWest Leather Conference Leatherman’s Heart Award and the Peter Thomas award from Rodeo Riders Chicago. He lives in the Chicago area with his husband, Jeffrey Storer.

Jakob VanLammeren is the Archivist/Collections Librarian at the Leather Archives & Museum, where he establishes priorities, develops written procedures, and creates work plans for archival collections; executes archival processing; provides ongoing supervision and management of volunteers and interns; creates original catalog records; curates and revises in-house and traveling exhibits; and writes From the LA&M Archives, a monthly series published by Leatherati. Jakob graduated with his MLIS with a focus in archives from Dominican University. Jakob also holds an MFA in Poetry from Bennington College (Bennington, VT), and his poems have been published in various literary journals and magazines.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Full Master Cowhide Flogger!

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Episode 127 – Listener Letters

On this episode, we have a couple more letters from our faithful listeners. While some of us really enjoy giving up control, we sometimes panic when its gone. We talk a bit about how to overcome that so we can relax and enjoy our kinks.

And we also discuss how to deal with discomfort surrounding fucking. A couple of topics that are frequently overlooked.

Send us your letters, boys! And men, we don’t want you to feel left out.

Show Notes

In the News

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the 25% Off Cellblock 13 Sale. Hurry before they sell out of their existing stock!

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Episode 126 – Kinky Discordant

Many of us are fortunate to be in relationships with other kinky guys. Some of us aren’t for a variety of reasons — we discovered our kinky interests while already in a relationship or simply because we sometimes can’t control whom we fall in love with. So how do we handle our sex lives when we as kinky guys are madly in love with guys who are totally vanilla?

We received a letter from one of our faithful listeners who describes one such situation. So we talk through many of the issues surrounding a “kinky discordant” relationship, including several options that may be available.

OMG! They’re Almost Gone!

Have you bought your t-shirt yet?!? We gots some awesome NoSafeWord shirts! You need one! Or one of each. But by the time you read this, there are only hours left to purchase one. (You do read this the instant we publish, right?)

http://nosafeword.com/shirt

They’re only available until the evening of February 14, 2015!

Show Notes

In the News

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Stealth Cocksucker Hood.

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Episode 125 – Bamm-Bamm

Lesson learned from this episode: Don’t do things to get you noticed when you’re sporting a mullet. On this episode, we chat with Bamm-Bamm, who was International Leatherboy 2012, about his introduction to the leather world, his experiences with drag, and being a titleholder. We also discuss the epic idiocy of someone who tries to tell other people what makes a “true leatherman.”

HEY! You Need a T-Shirt!

We have our brand-spankin’ new t-shirts for you to order. They’re pretty damned awesome, so get one soon. Or get one of each. Or get a bunch to give to your friends. All of the cool kids will have one. You don’t want to be one of the others.

http://nosafeword.com/shirt

But hurry! They’re only available for one more week, until February 14, 2015!

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Who’s the Bamm-Bamm?
  • First experience in a leather bar
  • International Leatherboy 2012
  • Drag queen
  • Conflicts with other leathermen over drag

Quotable Quotes

“Everybody wants to fuck a clown once.”

About Our Guest

International Leatherboy 2012 Bamm-Bamm is a transplant into the South Bay community, having been raised on a small farm in Kansas and getting his Bachelors degree in Political Science from Kansas State University.  He shares his life with his partner Ryan and two very large and bouncy bio-puppies. Bamm-Bamm has traveled around the world exploring his perversions, living in places like London, Berlin, Amsterdam, Bangkok, and NYC. Most recently, Bamm-Bamm lived in Phoenix, AZ while studying for his Masters Degree in Justice Studies (the brochure assured him he could become a superhero). Bamm-Bamm is a proud member of the Phoenix boys of Leather, and SCCLA.  With a special passion for bootblacking and leather care, Bamm-Bamm takes great pride in exploring his kinks and helping others discover theirs through positive inner development and self awareness. Bamm-Bamm can often be found bootblacking at the SF Eagle and various events.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Growler Open-Chin Puppy Hood.

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Episode 124 – Chairman Meow

The kitty rejoins us after many months away. Nightcat has a unique perspective on the kink universe. He’s a furry, a kitty, and the president of Seattle’s puppy/handler club. We explore the intersection of the puppy and furry communities and some of the growing pains of a young puppy club.

Get Your T-Shirts!

We have our brand-spankin’ new t-shirts for you to order. They’re pretty damned awesome, so get one soon. Or get one of each. Or get a bunch to give to your friends. All of the cool kids will have one. You don’t want to be one of the others.

http://nosafeword.com/shirt

But hurry! They’re only available for two weeks, until February 14, 2015!

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Las Vegas
  • SEA-PAH president
  • Controversy about inviting furries into a puppy/handler group
  • Puppy bowling & furry bowling
  • How to handle the friction between various different groups in the kink universe

Daddy Tony-ism

“You Wouldn’t Bring A Chicken Into A Doggy Park.”

About Our Guest

Nightcat was found on a Miami beach and raised by Jewish wolves. He enjoys the finer things in life, like caviar, jock straps, and Bill Cosby’s Jell-O™. Recently elected dicktater of SEA-PAH, Nightcat enjoys gambling on the Riviera, arctic poaching of penguins, the sweet sensation of new Q-Tips™ in his ears, and long walks on the beach with Jeebus™. (That helps him to remember where he came from in Miami.)

(No penguins were harmed in the writing of this bio.)

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Neoprene Muscle Tank.

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Episode 123 – Midori Part 2

Last time, we started our discussion with the wonderful Midori. We have already received reports of dangerous rapidly descending heavy objects in gyms. Please be sure to have a firm grip when listening to the second part of our chat.

Midori is participating in this year’s AIDS/LifeCycle. She will be a roadie. (Not to be confused with a groupie.) Make a pledge to help her meet the fundraising goal. And you can see a picture of her jugs!

If you want to learn how to use rope as a tool for mind-blowing sex, you can attend one of the Rope Dojos taught by a team of awesome people, including Midori. Go here to sign up. But sign up quickly after a Dojo is announced; they fill up fast.

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Explosion of interest in rope bondage
  • Types of rope
  • Overcoming intimidation
  • What Midori is doing now for practice
  • Thoughts on suspension
  • Guys who want to play with Midori
  • Techniques with the rope
  • AIDS/LifeCycle
  • Rope Dojo Classes

Hashtags

  • #ClitChubby
  • #BagOfMarblesGoingUpMyButt

About Our Guest

Winner of 2013 Best Sex Educator, Best of San Francisco, by SF Weekly Magazine!

Sexuality educator, author and artist based in San Francisco, Midori’s made an improbable career out of being the traveling coach on the art of creative and sensual living.

Dubbed “the super nova of kink” by Dan Savage, Midori is known for her hilarious and practical classes on enhancing sexual fulfillment, boosting confidence and expanding personal growth. Native of Tokyo, Japan, she brings a unique perspective pleasure and authentic living.

She wrote the first English language book on Shibari with “Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage” the hot essays in “Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink” and twisted dark science fiction in “Master Han’s Daughter” . In 2001 she founded Rope Bondage Dojo®. She has trained many cadres and leads many Dojos each year. She also created ForteFemme , a unique women’s dominance weekend training and empowerment intensive.

Also find her as PlanetMidori on Facebook / Twitter / Instagram / Vine / Vimeo

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Silicone Face Cage.

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Episode 122 – Midori Part 1

Many of us, yes even the gay kinky boys, know this episode’s guest. We’ve seen her books or photos. We’ve gotten boners over the bondage photos. And she is deliciously wicked with great ideas about what to do with the bondage.

She’s so awesome that we had to get Midori on the show. Enjoy!

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Listener letter
  • Midori is so judgey
  • Who is Midori?
  • Rope Dojo
  • Using your voice for seduction
  • How did she get started with rope bondage?

Hashtags

  • #NasalViolation
  • #FemTentacles (#Femtacles)
  • #PervFail
  • #Breasticles
  • #Boobarama

About Our Guest

Winner of 2013 Best Sex Educator, Best of San Francisco, by SF Weekly Magazine!

Sexuality educator, author and artist based in San Francisco, Midori’s made an improbable career out of being the traveling coach on the art of creative and sensual living.

Dubbed “the super nova of kink” by Dan Savage, Midori is known for her hilarious and practical classes on enhancing sexual fulfillment, boosting confidence and expanding personal growth. Native of Tokyo, Japan, she brings a unique perspective pleasure and authentic living.

She wrote the first English language book on Shibari with “Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage” the hot essays in “Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink” and twisted dark science fiction in “Master Han’s Daughter” . In 2001 she founded Rope Bondage Dojo®. She has trained many cadres and leads many Dojos each year. She also created ForteFemme , a unique women’s dominance weekend training and empowerment intensive.

Also find her as PlanetMidori on Facebook / Twitter / Instagram / Vine / Vimeo

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the “Pubic Enemy #1” Electro Cock Cage by MyStim.

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Episode 121 – Sesame Street Sex

Whenever tonight’s guest is on the show, we all know that craziness will happen. A lot. And this episode is no different.

We talk about a whole lot of stuff with Tyesha. Stopping the drinking of alcohol, motorcycle rallies, titties, a whole lot of stuff about contests, and Sesame Street. With all of that, what could go wrong?

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • No more drinking
  • Motorcycle rally
  • What is with the gay man’s fascination with tits?
  • Inappropriate touching at a bathhouse
  • Distinguishing baking products from sex lube
  • Contests and advice to judges
  • Kinky Sesame Street
  • How to keep contests and titles relevant
  • Leather Bingo
  • Listener letter

About Our Guest

Tyesha is first and foremost, a Leatherwoman. She is also a Queer Femme Tomboy, forever student, writer, a lover of history, teacher, musician and “paper schlepper” with an outgoing nature leads her to volunteer her gifts and talents wherever needed.

Tyesha has lived in the DFW and surrounding areas for the past decade and officially calls Dallas her home though she currently lives in Wilton Manors, FL. An ex military brat, she knew about her sadomasochistic nature even while a young girl living in Italy and is grateful for the opportunities to discuss and demonstrate her thoughts on it. She also enjoys talking and teaching on generational and minority issues.

Tyesha has served as NLA-International Policy and Procedures Chair, Registration Coordinator for Gender Odyssey, President of the Dallas girls of Leather and Leatherati.com as their Calendar Editor, Staff Writing Correspondent and Contributing Editor. She still serves NLA-International as Secretary and Policy and Procedures Chair and now serves as Editor for Leatherati.com. She has served on many other boards and committees including Beyond Vanilla and Women in Leather International and Dallas Fresh Leather.

Tyesha believes that evolution does not happen without knowledge of the past, neither does it truly evolve fully without the help and creativity of the future. She knows that wisdom and foresight have no age limit. When people understand this, history will be repeated less, solutions will be achieved faster and the Elders will have the ability to go on vacation. She is grateful for the mentors and close friends and family that continue to help the growth of her Identity and journey.

You can find Tyesha on Facebook as tye.leather and Twitter @TyeOshun. She was also on Episode 28Episode 29, Episode 101, and Episode 103.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Deluxe Neoprene Sleepsack.

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Episode 120 – Playing Without a Playspace

Hey all, for this show we talked about some of the challenges and stories around doing some playing without a playroom. There are those times when you are trying to do some serious BDSM lay in the woods, or in a hotel room, it can always be more challenging than having your own play space made for it. We also talk about the ways in which we had to create playspaces in apartments where noise, cleanliness and not being able to build into the structure all present challenges to work through!

We talk about it in the only way we know, with a bunch of nutty talk!

Show Notes

 

In the News

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Flat Fuck Sheet.

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Episode 119 – Mr. Kristofer

Bondage, bondage, bondage. We gots a guy on the show this time who’s really into bondage. And he’s been helping us be into bondage for a long time. I still have a bondage porn catalog that Mr. Kristofer published way back when. And he’s here to talk with us about that tonight.

We also have a lovely conversation about playspace etiquette. Don’t miss this one!

Show Notes

About Our Guest

Mr. Kristofer is an experienced player who has been an active member of the BDSM community for 25 years. He got his start in fetish porn as Steve Landess and became a producer himself soon after. He currently directs porn for COLT Studio Group and started the site BoundJocks.com 4 years ago. You can catch his latest project and sexual interests on his bondage blog at MrKristofer.com.

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Mr. S. Deluxe Leather Jacket.

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Episode 118 – Edge of Glory

Well, we couldn’t get through the entire cruise during our last episode, so here we are again! Listen in to hear about the rest of the cruise.

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. Thank you, Mr. S, for your long-standing sponsorship of the NoSafeWord Show.

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