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Episode 126 – Kinky Discordant

Many of us are fortunate to be in relationships with other kinky guys. Some of us aren’t for a variety of reasons — we discovered our kinky interests while already in a relationship or simply because we sometimes can’t control whom we fall in love with. So how do we handle our sex lives when we as kinky guys are madly in love with guys who are totally vanilla?

We received a letter from one of our faithful listeners who describes one such situation. So we talk through many of the issues surrounding a “kinky discordant” relationship, including several options that may be available.

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Have you bought your t-shirt yet?!? We gots some awesome NoSafeWord shirts! You need one! Or one of each. But by the time you read this, there are only hours left to purchase one. (You do read this the instant we publish, right?)

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They’re only available until the evening of February 14, 2015!

Show Notes

In the News

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Stealth Cocksucker Hood.

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Episode 125 – Bamm-Bamm

Lesson learned from this episode: Don’t do things to get you noticed when you’re sporting a mullet. On this episode, we chat with Bamm-Bamm, who was International Leatherboy 2012, about his introduction to the leather world, his experiences with drag, and being a titleholder. We also discuss the epic idiocy of someone who tries to tell other people what makes a “true leatherman.”

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We have our brand-spankin’ new t-shirts for you to order. They’re pretty damned awesome, so get one soon. Or get one of each. Or get a bunch to give to your friends. All of the cool kids will have one. You don’t want to be one of the others.

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But hurry! They’re only available for one more week, until February 14, 2015!

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Who’s the Bamm-Bamm?
  • First experience in a leather bar
  • International Leatherboy 2012
  • Drag queen
  • Conflicts with other leathermen over drag

Quotable Quotes

“Everybody wants to fuck a clown once.”

About Our Guest

International Leatherboy 2012 Bamm-Bamm is a transplant into the South Bay community, having been raised on a small farm in Kansas and getting his Bachelors degree in Political Science from Kansas State University.  He shares his life with his partner Ryan and two very large and bouncy bio-puppies. Bamm-Bamm has traveled around the world exploring his perversions, living in places like London, Berlin, Amsterdam, Bangkok, and NYC. Most recently, Bamm-Bamm lived in Phoenix, AZ while studying for his Masters Degree in Justice Studies (the brochure assured him he could become a superhero). Bamm-Bamm is a proud member of the Phoenix boys of Leather, and SCCLA.  With a special passion for bootblacking and leather care, Bamm-Bamm takes great pride in exploring his kinks and helping others discover theirs through positive inner development and self awareness. Bamm-Bamm can often be found bootblacking at the SF Eagle and various events.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Growler Open-Chin Puppy Hood.

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Episode 124 – Chairman Meow

The kitty rejoins us after many months away. Nightcat has a unique perspective on the kink universe. He’s a furry, a kitty, and the president of Seattle’s puppy/handler club. We explore the intersection of the puppy and furry communities and some of the growing pains of a young puppy club.

Get Your T-Shirts!

We have our brand-spankin’ new t-shirts for you to order. They’re pretty damned awesome, so get one soon. Or get one of each. Or get a bunch to give to your friends. All of the cool kids will have one. You don’t want to be one of the others.

http://nosafeword.com/shirt

But hurry! They’re only available for two weeks, until February 14, 2015!

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Las Vegas
  • SEA-PAH president
  • Controversy about inviting furries into a puppy/handler group
  • Puppy bowling & furry bowling
  • How to handle the friction between various different groups in the kink universe

Daddy Tony-ism

“You Wouldn’t Bring A Chicken Into A Doggy Park.”

About Our Guest

Nightcat was found on a Miami beach and raised by Jewish wolves. He enjoys the finer things in life, like caviar, jock straps, and Bill Cosby’s Jell-O™. Recently elected dicktater of SEA-PAH, Nightcat enjoys gambling on the Riviera, arctic poaching of penguins, the sweet sensation of new Q-Tips™ in his ears, and long walks on the beach with Jeebus™. (That helps him to remember where he came from in Miami.)

(No penguins were harmed in the writing of this bio.)

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Neoprene Muscle Tank.

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Episode 123 – Midori Part 2

Last time, we started our discussion with the wonderful Midori. We have already received reports of dangerous rapidly descending heavy objects in gyms. Please be sure to have a firm grip when listening to the second part of our chat.

Midori is participating in this year’s AIDS/LifeCycle. She will be a roadie. (Not to be confused with a groupie.) Make a pledge to help her meet the fundraising goal. And you can see a picture of her jugs!

If you want to learn how to use rope as a tool for mind-blowing sex, you can attend one of the Rope Dojos taught by a team of awesome people, including Midori. Go here to sign up. But sign up quickly after a Dojo is announced; they fill up fast.

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Explosion of interest in rope bondage
  • Types of rope
  • Overcoming intimidation
  • What Midori is doing now for practice
  • Thoughts on suspension
  • Guys who want to play with Midori
  • Techniques with the rope
  • AIDS/LifeCycle
  • Rope Dojo Classes

Hashtags

  • #ClitChubby
  • #BagOfMarblesGoingUpMyButt

About Our Guest

Winner of 2013 Best Sex Educator, Best of San Francisco, by SF Weekly Magazine!

Sexuality educator, author and artist based in San Francisco, Midori’s made an improbable career out of being the traveling coach on the art of creative and sensual living.

Dubbed “the super nova of kink” by Dan Savage, Midori is known for her hilarious and practical classes on enhancing sexual fulfillment, boosting confidence and expanding personal growth. Native of Tokyo, Japan, she brings a unique perspective pleasure and authentic living.

She wrote the first English language book on Shibari with “Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage” the hot essays in “Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink” and twisted dark science fiction in “Master Han’s Daughter” . In 2001 she founded Rope Bondage Dojo®. She has trained many cadres and leads many Dojos each year. She also created ForteFemme , a unique women’s dominance weekend training and empowerment intensive.

Also find her as PlanetMidori on Facebook / Twitter / Instagram / Vine / Vimeo

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Silicone Face Cage.

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Episode 122 – Midori Part 1

Many of us, yes even the gay kinky boys, know this episode’s guest. We’ve seen her books or photos. We’ve gotten boners over the bondage photos. And she is deliciously wicked with great ideas about what to do with the bondage.

She’s so awesome that we had to get Midori on the show. Enjoy!

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Listener letter
  • Midori is so judgey
  • Who is Midori?
  • Rope Dojo
  • Using your voice for seduction
  • How did she get started with rope bondage?

Hashtags

  • #NasalViolation
  • #FemTentacles (#Femtacles)
  • #PervFail
  • #Breasticles
  • #Boobarama

About Our Guest

Winner of 2013 Best Sex Educator, Best of San Francisco, by SF Weekly Magazine!

Sexuality educator, author and artist based in San Francisco, Midori’s made an improbable career out of being the traveling coach on the art of creative and sensual living.

Dubbed “the super nova of kink” by Dan Savage, Midori is known for her hilarious and practical classes on enhancing sexual fulfillment, boosting confidence and expanding personal growth. Native of Tokyo, Japan, she brings a unique perspective pleasure and authentic living.

She wrote the first English language book on Shibari with “Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage” the hot essays in “Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink” and twisted dark science fiction in “Master Han’s Daughter” . In 2001 she founded Rope Bondage Dojo®. She has trained many cadres and leads many Dojos each year. She also created ForteFemme , a unique women’s dominance weekend training and empowerment intensive.

Also find her as PlanetMidori on Facebook / Twitter / Instagram / Vine / Vimeo

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the “Pubic Enemy #1” Electro Cock Cage by MyStim.

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Episode 121 – Sesame Street Sex

Whenever tonight’s guest is on the show, we all know that craziness will happen. A lot. And this episode is no different.

We talk about a whole lot of stuff with Tyesha. Stopping the drinking of alcohol, motorcycle rallies, titties, a whole lot of stuff about contests, and Sesame Street. With all of that, what could go wrong?

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • No more drinking
  • Motorcycle rally
  • What is with the gay man’s fascination with tits?
  • Inappropriate touching at a bathhouse
  • Distinguishing baking products from sex lube
  • Contests and advice to judges
  • Kinky Sesame Street
  • How to keep contests and titles relevant
  • Leather Bingo
  • Listener letter

About Our Guest

Tyesha is first and foremost, a Leatherwoman. She is also a Queer Femme Tomboy, forever student, writer, a lover of history, teacher, musician and “paper schlepper” with an outgoing nature leads her to volunteer her gifts and talents wherever needed.

Tyesha has lived in the DFW and surrounding areas for the past decade and officially calls Dallas her home though she currently lives in Wilton Manors, FL. An ex military brat, she knew about her sadomasochistic nature even while a young girl living in Italy and is grateful for the opportunities to discuss and demonstrate her thoughts on it. She also enjoys talking and teaching on generational and minority issues.

Tyesha has served as NLA-International Policy and Procedures Chair, Registration Coordinator for Gender Odyssey, President of the Dallas girls of Leather and Leatherati.com as their Calendar Editor, Staff Writing Correspondent and Contributing Editor. She still serves NLA-International as Secretary and Policy and Procedures Chair and now serves as Editor for Leatherati.com. She has served on many other boards and committees including Beyond Vanilla and Women in Leather International and Dallas Fresh Leather.

Tyesha believes that evolution does not happen without knowledge of the past, neither does it truly evolve fully without the help and creativity of the future. She knows that wisdom and foresight have no age limit. When people understand this, history will be repeated less, solutions will be achieved faster and the Elders will have the ability to go on vacation. She is grateful for the mentors and close friends and family that continue to help the growth of her Identity and journey.

You can find Tyesha on Facebook as tye.leather and Twitter @TyeOshun. She was also on Episode 28Episode 29, Episode 101, and Episode 103.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Deluxe Neoprene Sleepsack.

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Episode 120 – Playing Without a Playspace

Hey all, for this show we talked about some of the challenges and stories around doing some playing without a playroom. There are those times when you are trying to do some serious BDSM lay in the woods, or in a hotel room, it can always be more challenging than having your own play space made for it. We also talk about the ways in which we had to create playspaces in apartments where noise, cleanliness and not being able to build into the structure all present challenges to work through!

We talk about it in the only way we know, with a bunch of nutty talk!

Show Notes

 

In the News

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Flat Fuck Sheet.

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Episode 119 – Mr. Kristofer

Bondage, bondage, bondage. We gots a guy on the show this time who’s really into bondage. And he’s been helping us be into bondage for a long time. I still have a bondage porn catalog that Mr. Kristofer published way back when. And he’s here to talk with us about that tonight.

We also have a lovely conversation about playspace etiquette. Don’t miss this one!

Show Notes

About Our Guest

Mr. Kristofer is an experienced player who has been an active member of the BDSM community for 25 years. He got his start in fetish porn as Steve Landess and became a producer himself soon after. He currently directs porn for COLT Studio Group and started the site BoundJocks.com 4 years ago. You can catch his latest project and sexual interests on his bondage blog at MrKristofer.com.

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Mr. S. Deluxe Leather Jacket.

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Episode 118 – Edge of Glory

Well, we couldn’t get through the entire cruise during our last episode, so here we are again! Listen in to hear about the rest of the cruise.

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. Thank you, Mr. S, for your long-standing sponsorship of the NoSafeWord Show.

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Episode 117 – Ciao Ciao Double Ciao

Most of the NoSafeWord crew went on a cruise recently. And oh my, did they have a time. Guess what, kids? They share their entire week-long cruise with us. Hang onto your weights, boys!

Show Notes

In the News

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Unbreakable Cane.

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Episode 116 – Jorge Takes a Pee Break

Once upon a time, in Daddy Tony’s previous life in San Francisco, he had a boy. They had quite the time together, and now Jorge joins us to tell all of us about himself before, during, and after Daddy Tony.

Always be careful of the dirt that your former partners have on you. Never forget that, boys.

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • La historia de Jorge
  • Community activism and leadership
  • Whipping
  • 15 Association
  • HIV Story Project
  • Ritual
  • PrEP

About Our Guest

Kink player since the age of 20, Jorge Vieto has held the title of SF Leather Daddy’s Boy XXII, has been a Fraternal member of the 15 Association, and a member of the board of SF Leather Alliance. He has worked as Leather Network coordinator for the Stop AIDS Project and currently works doing HIV and Hepatitis C testing for Syringe Access Services in San Francisco for the San Francisco AIDS Foundation.

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Leather Sleeveless Hoodie.

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Episode 115 – RubberKai & David Ocean

This week, we had the pleasure of having two guests to talk with us. RubberKai and David Ocean are married kinksters, a lot of fun, and very hot. They opened up to tell us all about their kink history and how they met, fell in love, and got married. We’ve talked about polyamory before, but they bring their unique perspective and a great energy to the discussion. It’s obvious that they enjoy what they do.

We had a blast with them. Don’t miss this one!

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Kink background
  • How they met, dated, and got married
  • Travelling around
  • Polyamory and openness to guys outside the relationship
  • PrEP positive
  • Introversion and extroversion
  • Finding a special mate

About Our Guests

RubberKai is a traveling and flying kinkster hoping to shine up the world. A kinkster since he was legally allowed to be, Kai started into the kink scene at 18. Presently based in Chicago with his husband, and ever expanding rubber collection, he is an active member of the Chicago Rubbermen and is on the board of Mister International Rubber where he has been running the Demo/Play pit for the last 4 years.  In his free time he repairs/alters rubber clothing and other kink gear, is a bit of a gym bunny, and sews costumes. Originally from the Midwest he has called 7 states home and has visited 25 states and 13 countries. Kinky traveling piques his interest and he regularly visits several ‘three letter acronym’ events all over over the world, helping him study languages, German at the moment. You can find him on Facebook as ‘Kai Van Der Gummi’ or on twitter as @RubberKai. A little dirtier RubberKai, can be found on Recon, Gay Romeo, and a few SeriousMaleBondage videos. Finally, Kai is proud to flag Red, Grey, Yellow, Blue, Light Pink, Black Velvet, Leopard and Houndstooth.

David Ocean has been actively open about being a slut for his entire adult life. After a short life in porn and nude dancing circa-2002, David decided to become open and candid about his sexual proclivities in hopes that his open and candid life might give comfort to others attempting to do the same. While still as slutty as ever, he now chooses to focus his time on his beautiful husband, great friends, hot kink, and dirty sexcapades. Traveling the world at his husband’s side, David has had the opportunity to attend leather events in not only his home of Chicago, IL, but also California, Arizona, Washington DC, Seattle, Berlin, London, Amsterdam, and more. An avid PrEP (Truvada) connoisseur, and occasional XXX performer, David is a pierced tattooed ginger who just can’t get enough. He is continually looking for ways to expand the community of kinksters, and abolish PrEP / Slut Shaming. You can follow David on Twitter at @DavidOceanXXX or Tumblr at http://blog.davidocean.com.

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Double Duty Gag.

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Episode 114 – Project Touchbase

With the daily hubbub of life, it is very easy to lose contact with our friends. We have various social media apps, and that seems to keep us all informed of what’s going on with our friends. But how well do we actually connect with our friends in 140-character messages, or when those status updates are written for the whole world to see? Do we have the same quality of social interaction as we did 5 or 10 years ago?

Pup Figaro thinks that there’s something missing. He’s here to tell us about Project Touchbase, which he and Pup Havok have started, as a way to help people reconnect with each other. And he tells us all about it on this episode.

Show Notes

In the News

About Our Guest

Pup Figaro is a co-founder of Project Touchbase with Pup Havok. He is Alpha Pup in the Wruff Pack and has been owned by his Daddy since 2008. Figaro is a Border Collie and as such can be found herding the local pups and Handlers to events. After moving from San Francisco, he found that he very much missed the close-knit SF pup community. He got involved with SEA-PAH, founded VAN-PAH (Vancouver Pups and Handlers), and won the title of Northwest Puppy 2014. Named for his involvement in Opera and Classical singing, Figaro enjoys meeting new pups and finding ways to strengthen the pup community. Figaro loves snickerdoodles, scritches, moshing, and sitting with his tongue out. In July of this year, he won the title of International Puppy 2015.

You can find Figaro on Twitter as @PupFigaro, on Facebook at Pup.Figaro, and on Recon as FigaroPup.

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Show Tail by Square Peg.

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Episode 113 – Can You Even Handle It?

Puppies, puppies, everywhere. But what would puppies be without their handlers? CHAOS, that’s what they’d be. We’ve done a few shows where we discussed various aspects of puppydom. (Like kingdom. Not puppy doms. But a king is usually a dom. Nevermind.) In this episode, we hear about things from the other end of the leash.

We are very delighted to have Northwest Handler 2015 with us. Daddy Rodney has a whole pack of puppies, and he has a lot to say about working with a pack and the handler headspace.

(I was only off by one minute.)

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Show Notes

In the News

Quotable Quote

“I so want to get Mama Tits to dress up like the Queen of England and put Daddy Tony on a leash.”

Discussion Topics

  • We love Canada
  • The polyamorous aspects of an entire pack of puppies
  • The mostly undefined role of handlers
  • Handler headspace

About Our Guest

After meeting Pup Figaro in 2008, Daddy Rodney became actively involved in the puppy play lifestyle.  Since 2008, he’s gone on to become the Daddy for their family pack, Wruff Pack, which currently has 5 puppies and a squeaky toy.

Daddy Rodney is proud to be a founding member of SEA-PAH and VAN-PAH. He’s traveled around the Northwest and in July 2014 to St. Louis for IPC and has had the opportunity to meet pups, Handlers, and those interested from all over the US.

Daddy Rodney competed in the Northwest Puppy and Handler Contest in August 2014 and won his current title of Northwest Handler 2015.  He looks forward to continuing to grow with our thriving puppy community.

Daddy Rodney was previously on Episode 46, when he and Pup Figaro debuted on the NoSafeWord Show.

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Deluxe Leather Sleepsack by Fetters USA.

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