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Episode 237 – Puppers On Poppers

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This week we discuss what’s in the news and answer a couple letters from our listeners. In the spirit of #MeToo, we condemn the assholes the assault others for their own pleasure and power.

 Show Notes

  • In the News
  • Our guest today is Sparky’s pup, That Drew Lion, a.k.a. Brutus, the co-host of Ungagged.
  • The main topic: Poppers and Max Impact
    • Poppers:
      • Poppers is really videotape player head cleaner.
      • The most common chemical considered poppers is isobutyl nitrate, but there are many other chemicals in the nitrates that are also called poppers. Amyl nitrate is banned in the US.
      • Why do people do poppers?
        • It is inhaled
        • Euphoric, horny feeling
        • It relaxes the muscles very effectively and quickly, promoting a head rush
      • Also relaxes muscles involved in sex, including the rectum, vagina, throat, and even the urethra.
      •  The bad side to poppers
        • Headaches
        • Out of control feeling
      • Because of the different chemical makeup, the brands of poppers effects vary.
      • Those with respiratory problems should use caution since it causes respiratory irritation.
      • Not many states ban poppers completely. The sale of poppers is banned in Canada.
  • Max Impact
    • It is a product that is not considered poppers, and it has a much stronger effect.
    • It is the chemical ethyl chloride.
    • Usually in a spray bottle
    • It is much more in the realm of anesthesia.
    • There have been many deaths caused by Max Impact
    • Those new to poppers should stay away.
  • Either product can be addictive, and those who are addicted to it are not very fun in bed.
  • Your erection could also be difficult to get or maintain without poppers.
  • Poppers also should never be used while on Viagra, since both lower blood pressure and could lead to dizziness, fainting, and even death.
  • Overall, like any drug, use with caution. As Brutus said, poppers should only be used to accent a scene, but if it becomes a center of the scene, then it could be problematic.

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Episode 235 – Harassment Addiction

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This week we discuss what’s in the news and answer a couple letters from our listeners. In the spirit of #MeToo, we condemn the assholes the assault others for their own pleasure and power.

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
    • Don’t fuck 14 year olds! Don’t touch people without consent!
  • In the News
  • A listener asks if it’s acceptable in the community to be a Sir if one hasn’t served already as an “apprentice” to another Sir.
  • Listener ToyTorture sends us a note and mentions “kink fatigue,” but does not send a dick pic.

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Ungagged Episode 27 – That Sweet OC

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This episode talks about how to create original online content.

Show Notes

  • In the News – Craigslist Missed Connections!
    • You only need to grab a hammer to be Thor
    • Seven foot tall unicorn really misses his honey in the black tutu
    • A skinny skeleton gets some smooth talk
    • Aquaman resists his new-look image
    • Straight male shows off for Chun Li
    • He had him at “no homo”
    • Mimes go all altruistic
    • A moment of love shared over pink thongs
    • Lets go back to the barn
  • How to Produce Online Content
    • What is your motivation for making content?
      • Just wanting to share your experiences?
      • Want to have fans?
      • Make money?
    • Just be advised that it is a lot of work to make good original content.
    • Different types of content to be made: review sites, educational sites, porn, advice on kink.
    • How will you deliver your content? Written content, podcast, or video can be delivered in many different ways. Make your own website with a hosting company or using services like YouTube?
    • Be careful with different services that you are not violating their terms of service, especially with adult content.
    • Your content will always benefit from being tastefully presented, so get advice on website design and even have an overall branding approach professionally done.
    • Sometimes you can team-up with others in presenting original content. If you have website creation abilities, you can always partner with others who is good at creating content or have the means to create content.
    • Making high-quality content does require high-quality equipment.
    • Good content creation also requires one to be able to do many things well…all at once.
    • Prepare yourself for the haters: You will get lots of criticism, some good, and a lot delivered in the rudest way possible.
    • Think also about legal issues. How will you organize yourself as a company? Will your content open you to legal issues…like adult content? Talk to a lawyer to get the best advice.
    • Be organized. Lots of things will be going on, and being organized is key, especially when you need to deliver content on a regular basis.
    • Look into content delivery platforms like WordPress and its seemingly infinite number of plugins that will let you add features to your website…like an online store.
    • Since you will now be using a megaphone, be aware that you can create unintended drama.

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Episode 233 – Yum my Yuk

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Today on the podcast…yums…and yuks…and the men who love them.

 Show Notes

  • What Now? 
  • In the News
  • Don’t Yuk My Yum – Kink shaming
    • Is there ever a time that it is okay to shame someone’s kink?
      • Anything involving non-consensual acts or involving those who cannot consent.
      • Anything causing permanent physical disability.
    • So is there a way to politely or altruistically yuk someone’s yum?
    • There are borderline cases where every individual has the right to make up their own mind about it. Examples being “playing Nazi” or racial play.
    • Still, a yuk definitely can become a yum – since a yuk really has more to it than you think.

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Episode 232 – United Nations of Kinkdom

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For this episode, we have a discussion with a group live from the UK on Skype during Manchester Leather Weekend!

Show Notes

  • How are the kink scenes different between the US and the UK?
  • Are there differences in the ways drug use is looked at and the drugs that are used?
  • Is Europe more “cosmopolitan” in general over the United States?
  • What about the use of PreP in the UK?
  • While the leather community and the rubber/latex community tend to be in the same group in the US, how does that differ in the UK?
  • Is the Sister community in the UK as much a crossover to kink as it is in the US?
  • What about the (non-racist) skinhead community in the UK and why is it more prevalent there than in the US?
  • Line dancing and lesbians in the UK??!!
  • Are women a big presence in the kink scene in the UK?
  • Does (country) size matter? DT Tony and Sparky talk about how the compactness of Europe makes a difference.

Guest

DT Tony lives in Chester, U.K., near Manchester and Liverpool. He is into BDSM, CP, face fucking, BC, gloves, oral, anal, CBT, TT, milking, dildos, electro, gags, leather, rubber, and so much more.

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Ungagged Episode 26: All Glory to Hypnotoad

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This episode of Ungagged is all about hypnosis. We discuss in detail the stages of hypnosis, things to keep in mind before considering it, and resources to help you get started.

Show Notes

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This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature Front Buckle Gag.

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Episode 230 – Dental Damn

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Let’s talk about news, news, and more news…including travel news from Daddy Tony.

 Show Notes

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Episode 229 – Clique Schisms, Part 2

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In the heat of the end of summer, we are here to update you on the craziness of the last week.

 Show Notes

  • In the News
    • Man lands modeling career thanks to his genetically rare different colored eyes seen on his mugshot posted on Twitter.
    • Kathy Griffin is no longer sorry about the famous photo of a fake severed head of Donald Trump.
    • The “crying nazi” speaks out about his mistreatment by the public.
    • Male sex workers get sometimes bizarre requests from their Johns.
  • We continue our discussion of a Telegram chat by a listener from Episode 229 – Clique Schisms, Part 1
    • We discussed this letter from the perspective of defending the boys’ point of view. Now we wanted to discuss the other side of the argument.
    • Using the term “sleazy” marks a view of older men hitting on younger men that shows a bias against older men
    • Age range preferences posted on profiles publicly is discriminatory and denegrating
    • Sparky and Tony discuss some of their experiences with older men and now as older men with younger boys.
    • Sometimes men, regardless of age, can be sleazy. Older men are sometimes painted with a broad brush.
    • Infighting among our community is counterproductive to our shared common goals.
    • We should do what we can to eliminate “Us vs. Them”

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Episode 228 – Clique Schisms, Part 1

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In the heat of the end of summer, we are here to update you on the craziness of the last week.

 Show Notes

  • What Now? 
  • In the News
    • There was a death at a British kink festival in the woods, Flamefest. There were nipple tassles, witches, and hedonism.
    • Queer Cripple Andrew Gurza is building the group DisabilityAfterDark to open up about the intersection of disability and sex.
    • When introducing your pubescent children to sex, don’t for get anal intercourse. Don’t expect your school’s teachers to broach this topic appropriately.
  • With a Telegram chat message from a listener, “My leather club is having a midlife crisis?” we discuss cliques in the gay kink community.
    • Certain kinks and sub-communities draw certain age groups and personalities of people
    • Puppies are a great place for younger and less experienced kinksters to join, and some older guard groups  feel resentment for the loss of past ways boys would publicly join the leather community
    • Gender bending boys still see widespread ostracism from the leather community as well, even as attitudes improve
    • We must evolve for the future, we cannot hold onto purely past ways of doing things and expect them to carry into the future
    • Leather contests need to be brought into a modern day purpose
    • Certain traditions like collars are evolving and shouldn’t be used as a wedge to push new people out of the community.

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Ungagged Episode 25 – Mellow Yellow

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The pups spend this show discussing things piss play related! And this little piggy went we-we-we all the way home!

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This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature Versatile Phone Holder.

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Episode 226 – Mentors, the Fresh Maker

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The guys spend the show discussing mentorship: being one and how to find one.

 Show Notes

  • What Now? 
  • In the News
  • Mentorship can be an explicit or an implicit relationship
    • There is always the explicit Sir/boy type of relationship
    • On the other hand, some mentors do not even realize they are mentors
  • Has mentorship, over time, gone down because of the Internet?
  • Mentorship does not have to be just “showing someone the ropes.” Mentors can also impart more advanced knowledge to those who are not beginners.
  • Being a mentor is not about acting like a superior person. Authenticity is extremely important, not putting on airs.
  • Seeking a mentor:
    • Carefully consider who your mentors will be.
    • As said before, it does not have to be an explicitly-stated thing. Just being around that person is sufficient. In other words, no awkward, formal request to a potential mentor is necessary.
  • What do you look for in a mentor? Send us a message at info@nosafeword.com and let us talk about it.

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Episode 225 – We are back!

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We are back! To avoid pulling something (ahem) we are going to hear from our listeners and provide feedback.

 Show Notes

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Ungagged Episode 24 – The More the Merrier

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The pups spend this show discussing group sex, group dynamics, and how to make your group experiences the best they can.

Show Notes

  • In the News
  • Group Sex
    • The pups start out small and talk about threesomes.
      • Are two-as-a-team strictly pleasuring the other the best way to have a threesome?
      • A common reason against any group sex: too much going on and too much concentration needed.
    • Play parties
      • The mood of each party can be very different…so keep your expectations reasonable.
      • With lots of other scenes going on around you, it can be a problem if you are easily distracted by sound.
      • There is always going to be a better chance of drama when more people are involved, so be ready and be calm.
      • If it is a party of 8 or more people, then be sure the party has a separate, more social space.
      • Reasonable expectations, but have some expectations and have a plan of how to make that happen.
      • How do you deal with the guy who won’t take no for an answer? Be direct. Try to be polite, but say it in no uncertain terms..

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Episode 218 – You, Dear Listener

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The guys will delve into the listener correspondence pile and give thoughtful, reasonable responses. :)

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
    • It has been one year since the attack on the Pulse club in Orlando.
  • In the News and Letters!

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