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Episode 89 – Alphas

For this episode, we welcome back Bouncer Pup. You may remember him from way back in Episode 05, when he had recently won the title of Mr. West Coast Rubber 2013. This time he brought another fun puppy with him. Kodiak is Bouncer’s Alpha. We had a lot of fun talking with them and finding out about some of the dynamics between puppies when they start playing together.

(And we get to listen to Kodiak’s sexy voice. Wruff!)

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • What is an alpha? What does that mean to them?
  • Kodiak’s kink world
  • How did they figure out they were pups?
  • How does one find an alpha pup or handler?

Today’s Hash Tags

  • #DaddyHarryPeter
  • #LovePuckersAllSphincters
  • #SevenEsssesss

About Our Guests

Pup Kodiak is a 31-year old kinkster into rubber, leather, bondage, and anything tight, restrictive, and shiny. He’s been into kink since the tender age of 14 but wasn’t turned into a pup and collared by Rubberpooka till 2010. Kodiak  has been a resident of the Bay Area for 8 years. He is now Alpha to Pup Bouncer from Sacramento  as well as to a pack consisting of Pups Biff, Hans, and Newly from San Jose, California. Kodiak, like most pups, enjoys going outside (travelling), good food (cooking and eating), frolicking with other pups (pinning them down and tying them up) and playing fetch, though the latter usually ends up with a ball duct-taped shut inside his mouth by his sadistic handler Pooka.

Bouncer is a 27-year old kinky canine gimp primarily into rubber and bondage from the central valley of California. In the two short years he’s had to explore his kinks, he has joined a Bay Area rubber club (Rubber Men of San Francisco), won the title of Mr. West Coast Rubber 2013, and made numerous life-long connections and friends within the fetish community as a whole. Bouncer recently competed for the Mr. International Rubber title, and it was there, in Chicago, that he met his current Alpha, Kodiak. He continues to explore his kinks with his (very kinky) Alpha, and continues to meet new people and explore as many facets of the fetish community as he can while traveling around the country.

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Stryker Pant by Cellblock 13.

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Episode 88 – It’s Only Gay if Your Balls Touch

If you’ve ever wanted to know about the straight kink scene, now is your chance! Dave is a polyamorous straight kinkster who is Drew’s best friend, and he joins us to talk about his history and kink interests. We also explore a bunch of the differences between the gay and straight kink scenes. (And frat boys and bronies.) We had a lot of fun talking with Dave and were surprised a few times.

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Bio & Background
  • What is Dave into
  • What are some of the differences between the gay and straight kink communities

About Our Guest

In his own words:

My name is William David Kaylor, but most people call me Dave. I’m not anyone particularly special but I have led an interesting life. I’m kinky, polyamorous, dom/top, and -sorry- straight (I know right?). My best friend (best man soon, hetero life-mate, bro if you will) Drew is a member of the NoSafeWord crew. Getting to know the gay kink community through Drew at the same time learning straight kink through my own experiences has been interesting. I’ve lived all over the country, from Baltimore to Cleveland to Susanville, CA, and most recently from Conway, AR. You can find me on Fetlife as Domandhappy.

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Stainless Steel Ass Hammer.

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Episode 87 – Let’s Do Brunch (TauntonGuy Part 2)

In our last episode, we talked with Stephen about exploring his lycra, rubber, and watersports kinks with his husband Jason (aka Jay), and Jay earning the title of Mr. International Rubber. We pick up the story with Jay’s all-too-brief experience as MIR.

We also discover in this episode that Stephen really likes brunch.

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Jay’s experience as MIR
  • Jay’s passing
  • Being the widower of a title holder
  • The aftermath
  • Moving to Seattle

About Our Guest

Stephen Perry, husband of MIR16 Jason Lynch. Stephen is a long-time lover of lycra and has come to love rubber in the past several years. He enjoys the sexiness and confidence that comes with wearing rubber. He’s also pretty adept at strapping naughty guys down. Stephen has been a core member of the New England Rubber Men, a judge of Mr. International Rubber, and a judge and organizer of Mr. New England Rubber. You can follow his antics and a few too many TMI moments by following him on Twitter as @TotesVaninky.

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Hunter Harness Side Holsters – two accessories that go with the Hunter Harnesses we featured in the last episode. There are two different side holsters, the Slim Phone/Money Holder and the Large Accessory Pouch.

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Episode 86 – TauntonGuy Part 1

Stephen is a lycra and rubber kinkster who recently moved to Seattle from the Boston area. We knew his husband, Jason (aka Jay), who was Mr. International Rubber last year. We had a great time talking with him about his history, how he met Jason, and the rubber community. He was a riot, and we had a blast doing this show.

During the show, Stephen refers to the fantasy sequence that Jason did during the MIR contest.  You can watch it on YouTube.

Be sure to watch for the second part of our chat with Stephen.

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Where he came from, how he got into kink
  • What are his kinks?
  • His partner, Jason
  • Being the husband of a title holder

About Our Guest

Stephen Perry, husband of MIR16 Jason Lynch. Stephen is a long-time lover of lycra and has come to love rubber in the past several years. He enjoys the sexiness and confidence that comes with wearing rubber. He’s also pretty adept at strapping naughty guys down. Stephen has been a core member of the New England Rubber Men, a judge of Mr. International Rubber, and a judge and organizer of Mr. New England Rubber. You can follow his antics and a few too many TMI moments by following him on Twitter as @TotesVaninky.

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature two items: the Neoprene Hunter Harness and Rubber Hunter Harness.

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Episode 85 – Slyy

For this episode we talk with the man that is pulling the strings behind the curtain for our show, or rather, pushing all the buttons. Slyy is our engineer, and each week he comes out to help us out by running the sound equipment, readying the show for posting and writing up these posts. As you may notice, he isn’t doing it this time, much better than I am!

Sometimes we are asked about the people that are on the show with us and we thought we would share with you all a bit about our friend Slyy. We find out where he came from, how he came to Seattle and all about his kink journey. And you see some more of the special relationship of the team here that usually is only ever in the pre-show.

This was a fun show and we can’t wait to share it with you!

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  •  When did he come out of the closet and come out as kinky
  • It’s Slyy’s Birthday
  • His discovery of CBT as a kink
  • Glory hols were the grinder of the 90’s
  • And much more!

 

 

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Episode 84 – Mayor of Folsom Street

Daddy Alan Selby was a fixture in the leather community in San Francisco for many years. During the worst days of the AIDS crisis, he supported and became a comfort to many in the gay community. He was a mentor to many men.

Daddy Alan was the founder of the iconic Mr. S, the original San Francisco Leather Daddy, an incorrigible flirt and tireless fundraiser, and the unofficial “Mayor of Folsom Street.”

Dr. Jordy Tackett-Jones is the curator and author of “The Mayor of Folsom Street: The Life and Times of Alan Selby, aka Mr. S.” He recounts the history and many stories of Daddy Alan. Daddy Tony also talks about his life with Daddy Alan, who was Tony’s daddy.

There will be an exhibit about the Mayor of Folsom Street at the Center for Sex and Culture in San Francisco. It opens June 6, 2014, through the end of the Up Your Alley Fair (Dore Alley) at the end of July. More information can be found at the website for the Center, The Gay Highwaymen, and on Facebook. The book will be released next year.

Show Notes

In the News

The passing of a local puppy. Godspeed Fraididog.

Discussion Topics

  • Who was Daddy Alan?
    • Founder of Mr. S in San Francisco
    • Volunteering during the early years of the epidemic
    • SF Leather Daddy contest
  • Exhibit and book
  • Daddy Tony’s personal history with Daddy Alan

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Racing Vest Quilted Color Panels.

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Episode 83 – Mikey Likes It Part 2

When we left our intrepid hero, he moved to San Francisco and was becoming involved in the leather and bondage communities as well as becoming involved with Daddy Tony. In this episode, we take a trip through memory lane with sports in high school. As usual, Mikey has a hot story or three to tell us.

This is the second part of our interview with Bndgkid. Be sure to check out the first part if you haven’t already.

Musical interlude provided by Bensound.

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Swimming and sports
  • Serious Bondage Institute experiences in SF
    • First time – Dustin
    • Bondage chair
    • Casting experience
  • Coming back home to Seattle
    • Adjusting to suburban life involving kink
    • Meeting Sparky
    • NoSafeWord
    • Finding happiness with a leather family

About Our Guest

Bndgkid is a 30-year old kinky nerd, who can never seem to get enough bondage, which is one of the reasons he and Daddy Tony are such a great team! When it comes to bondage, even when there is a ridiculous amount of restraints, chains, and straps keeping Mikey from moving even an inch, he loves about 10 more added on top of that (at least)! Cum control is another one of Mikey’s favorite things. A gag will help keep him as quiet as possible, which is not very. CBT, tickle torture, ball stretching, and did we mention that his nipples are wired directly to his cock? Mikey moved from Seattle to San Francisco in 2008, where he met Daddy Tony and was very active in the SF Leather Community, including a leather title of SF Leather Daddy’s boy XXVII, as well as hanging out with the awesome folks over at Serious Male Bondage. After moving to Seattle with Daddy Tony in 2011, they met Sparky and the rest of the pack, and the rest is history!

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Electric Vacuum Pump.

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Episode 82 – Mikey Likes It Part 1

Mikey, also known as Bndgkid, is a part of the NoSafeWord crew. And that boy is a kinky fucker! He also got started very early in life.  In this episode, he regales us with the stories of his youth. When and how he started experimenting with bondage, meeting fun guys to play with, moving to San Francisco, and all of the fun things during those years.

He’s a great storyteller. We had so much fun that we couldn’t fit it all in. One episode, that is. You don’t want to miss this one. Stay tuned for part 2 in a few days.

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • How did you get started?
    • Always been a thing for me ever since I can remember.
    • Bingo movie – grandma masturbation drive
    • Getting in trouble in middle-school because of Yossie
    • Tying up in garage/bathroom
    • Gay.com and meeting JockBound
    • First bondage experience and how lucky I was.
  • Getting into Kink – first forays:
    • Bad experience
    • Trying vanilla relationships
    • Fetish Ball / SF trips / Mr. S – actually met Daddy
    • Seafair / Duvall trip in the box
    • Oregon party making screwdrivers – LeatherDanny’s 30th birthday
  • Moving to SF
    • Gear stolen
    • Meeting Daddy!  Birthday and getting new sack.
    • Running for SF Leather Daddy’s Boy 27 and Folsom

About Our Guest

Bndgkid is a 30-year old kinky nerd, who can never seem to get enough bondage, which is one of the reasons he and Daddy Tony are such a great team! When it comes to bondage, even when there is a ridiculous amount of restraints, chains, and straps keeping Mikey from moving even an inch, he loves about 10 more added on top of that (at least)! Cum control is another one of Mikey’s favorite things. A gag will help keep him as quiet as possible, which is not very. CBT, tickle torture, ball stretching, and did we mention that his nipples are wired directly to his cock? Mikey moved from Seattle to San Francisco in 2008, where he met Daddy Tony and was very active in the SF Leather Community, including a leather title of SF Leather Daddy’s boy XXVII, as well as hanging out with the awesome folks over at Serious Male Bondage. After moving to Seattle with Daddy Tony in 2011, they met Sparky and the rest of the pack, and the rest is history!

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Mr. S Complete Pump Kit Featuring 9″ Oval Cylinder.

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Episode 81 – GearBlast (Repost)

There are a lot of guys out there who are really into gear. Leather, rubber, uniforms, sports gear, gas masks, lycra, hazmat gear, and all kinds of other things (including, apparently, bath robes). Rocket is one of the biggest gear heads we know, and he is one of the organizers of GearBlast, He tells us all about the event, which happens during IML. We also talk about the differences between the leather and gear cultures.

This year’s GearBlast will be Friday night, May 23, 2014, during IML weekend in Chicago from 10 PM to 2 AM. You can check out all of the information at the GearBlast web site.

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • What is GearBlast?
  • When is it?
  • Where did it come from?
  • Who all goes?
  • What do you hope it will become?
  • Gear culture vs. Leather culture

About Our Guest

Rocket (aka scubaccs/rubcovr) is a kinkster living in Chicago and has been in the “scene” since 2003. He has enjoyed gear for as long as he can remember. He likes pretty much all kinds of gear, like rubber, leather, sports gear, lycra, dive gear, and hazmat gear. He also likes to use his gear for its intended purpose, and goes on scuba dives, rides sports bikes, plays hockey, skis, and other things. In 2005 he realized that there seemed to be no parties or ways for guys in gear to actually meet in real life as a group, so he decided to figure out how to arrange such a party. In order for this to happen, he decided to piggyback on an already-established event. Thus came GearBlast at MAL in 2006 at the Green Lantern. Now it’s one of the official events of IML.

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Butt Hole Rippled Fuckplug by Oxballs.

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Episode 81 – GearBlast

There are a lot of guys out there who are really into gear. Leather, rubber, uniforms, sports gear, gas masks, lycra, hazmat gear, and all kinds of other things (including, apparently, bath robes). Rocket is one of the biggest gear heads we know, and he is one of the organizers of GearBlast. He tells us all about the event, which happens during IML. We also talk about the differences between the leather and gear cultures.

This year’s GearBlast will be Friday night, May 23, 2014, during IML weekend in Chicago from 10 PM to 2 AM. You can check out all of the information at the GearBlast web site.

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • What is GearBlast?
  • When is it?
  • Where did it come from?
  • Who all goes?
  • What do you hope it will become?
  • Gear culture vs Leather culture

About Our Guest

Rocket (aka. scubaccs/rubcovr) is a kinkster living in Chicago has been in the “scene” since 2003. He has enjoyed gear for as long as he can remember. He likes pretty much all kinds of gear, like rubber, leather, sports gear, lycra, dive gear, and hazmat gear.  He also likes to use his gear for its intended purpose, and goes on scuba dives, rides sport bikes, plays hockey, skis, and other things. In 2005 he realized that there seemed to be no parties or ways for guys in gear to actually meet in real life as a group, so he decided to figure out how to arrange such a party. In order for this to happen, he decided to piggyback on an already established event. Thus came GearBlast at MAL in 2006 at the Green Lantern. Now it’s one of the official events of IML.

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Butt Hole Rippled Fuckplug by Oxballs.

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Episode 80 – Southeast Black & Blue

In August, there’s an excellent weekend of educational workshops and classes on BDSM. It’s down in Atlanta. In this episode, we welcome back our good friend Pup Nitro and his Sir, Alan. They are the producers of Southeast Black and Blue, so we dive into all of the details. You’ll definitely want to sign up and experience all of the hospitality that Alan, Nitro, and Atlanta have to offer. (I’ve heard that Nitro has a lot of “hospitality” to offer.)

This is Alan’s first time with the crew of NoSafeWord, so we also talk with him about his year as International LeatherSIR with Nitro as International Leatherboy, and we dig a bit into the heady topic of leather titles and the contest subculture.

Southeast Black and Blue

Check out the Southeast Black and Blue web site at http://www.sebbevents.com.

Show Notes

In the News

I don’t know which counselors this guy’s been talking to, but the homosexuals aren’t the ones he should be worried about.

RuPaul got into trouble with some transgendered people, and one of them wonders if we’re not overthinking our use of language.

The head of the AIDS Healthcare Foundation fans the flames of controversy by calling Truvada a party drug, causing a huge outcry in the community and sparking a petition asking for his resignation.

Discussion Topics

  • What is SEBB
  • Who is involved
  • Who can attend
  • What is schedule
  • What kind of classes and demos will be offered
  • Where does it happen
  • How to get more info
  • Sir Alan and Pup Nitro during their year as ILS and ILb
  • Relevance and importance of the title system

About Our Guests

SIR Alan Penrod
International LeatherSIR 2011

Alan began his journey into the Leather and BDSM lifestyle nearly 2 decades ago while living in South Florida. He began exploring the heavier side of BDSM in 1996 while in his first recognized DOM/sub relationship. Alan moved to Atlanta in 2004 and has been an active member of Atlanta’s Leather, BDSM, and Fetish communities. Alan is a full member and past President of Panther L/L club and the co-founder of the Hotlanta Rubber and Gear Club. He is the co-owner and producer of Southeast Black and Blue Weekend and the co-producer of Atlanta Leather Pride. Alan holds the titles of International LeatherSIR 2011, Southeast LeatherSIR 2011, and Mr. Atlanta Eagle 2009. Alan shares his life with his two collared boys: pup nitro and boy david. He facilitates classes and demos on a wide variety of BDSM topics including corporal punishment, whips, stun guns, hot wax mummification, CBT, clothes pins & clamps, and cigar play.

Bryson “Pup Nitro” Hankinson
International Leatherboy 2011

In 2006, he moved to Atlanta where he met Sir Alan Penrod and began to discover his “Leather Heart”.  Nearly a year later he earned his collar and was given his pup name, “NITRO” (Needs Intense Torture to Reach Orgasm).  Nitro is currently the President of Panther L/L, and is a Co-Founder of the Hotlanta Rubber and Gear Club. He is the co-owner of Southeast Black and Blue, LLC, and co-producer of Atlanta Leather Pride. He has held the titles of Mr. Hotlanta Rubber 2008, Southeast Leatherboy 2011, and International Leatherboy 2011. Nitro teaches BDSM and Leather Lifestyle classes on a variety of topics and enjoys any play involving tight bondage, mummification, rubber/latex, electricity, cbt, and watersports. He also serves as a mentor to other boys, helping them find their voice within our beautifully diverse leather community.

Nitro has been with us twice before, in Episode 62 and Episode 10.

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Heavy Duty Hood with Triple Straps.

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(Go look at the hot guy showin’ off the guns at the Mr. S web site!)

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Episode 79 – Odie

For this episode, Odie joins us. He is a local pervert who we love quite a bit. He brings an intense energy to everything he is a part of, including his play. We talk about his experiences in the Seattle gay leather and BDSM scene. From titles, contests, community, and egos to play style and leather families, Odie shares a lot from the heart.

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • NW Iron Dom
  • About Odie
  • Community Service
  • Families and Clans

About Our Guest

Odie is a member of the Dragon Clan. He’s Northwest Iron Dom 2014 and Northwest Leather Sir 2007. You can find Odie on Tumblr and Fetlife using the name RoughNBootz.

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Wrist to Ball Restraint.

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Episode 78 – OinkForMe

For this episode we have on Chris, also known as OinkForMe or Furry Jock, a local male escort. We talk with him about how he got started in this business and why he chose this path for himself. We also talk about the different kinds of services he provides on a regular basis.

The kink world we live in has a wide variety of backgrounds to make up this culture that is sex positive and affirming for all. It was a real pleasure to hear his approach for himself to make his chosen career and for the clients that he works with.

You have to check this one out!

 

Show Notes

In the News

 

About Our Guest

The best way to tell you about him is to share the words he uses to describe himself: “Handsome, furry, built, and well educated with a background in sociology. I am very discrete, easy going and down to earth kinda guy. I am very passionate and love to kiss. Kinky or vanilla I enjoy men of all ages and sizes for sweaty good times. I have a wide array of gear and clothing for any scene you might be interested in. I am an excellent fisting top for those that are interested with small collapsable hands perfect for beginners or seasoned fisters. I also give a great prostate massage. I guarantee by the end of our time together you will be satisfied. My private gallery password is oinkforme. STD-free and HIV- (monthly tested). Privacy and discretion guaranteed. Exploring your sexuality is as exciting as it is scary so if you have any questions please feel free to message me.” Find him on Rentboy.com by going to the link HERE, or on Daddy’s Reviews HERE .

Sponsors

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Neoprene Breath Control Hood.

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Episode 77 – DIY Part 2

Here we have part 2 of our Do It Yourself episode with DrewLion. We take the time to talk about some of the things you need to consider when you are working on your own projects. For this episode we specifically talk about wood working and leather working projects.

It was a fascinating discussion and we hope you enjoy it!

 

Show Notes

Discussion Topics

  • Wood Working
    • Tools Needed
    • Supplies
    • Paddles
    • Furniture
  • Leather Working
    • Tools needed
    • Supplies
    • General Notes
    • Restraints
    • Paddle
    • Clothing
  • Mixed Projects
    • Whips/floggers
    • Include pervertables

About Our Guest

Drewlion recently moved to the Seattle area. He is an avid kinkster, puppy, furry, and whore. He is also the newest contributor to the NoSafeWord show, where he will soon be bringing some content to help our fellow kinksters become better do-it-yourselfers (or do-him-yourselfers). He’ll write up some blog posts about how to create your own kink toys and equipment. We are very excited to be bringing some new content as a part of this new segment.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Puppy Tail by SquarePeg Toys.

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