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Ungagged Episode 08 – One-Sided Fight Club

2016 is the Year of the Butt Stuff. ‘Nuff said.

Except when it’s about flogging. And it’s all about flogging for this entire episode of the Ungagged Podcast. If you’ve ever wondered about getting flogged — or even flogging someone else — the puppies talk about the various aspects of flogging for those who haven’t done it before.

Show Notes

Game

  • Steakhouse or Gay Bar?

Topics

  • Butt play episode feedback.
  • Why do guys like to get beaten?
  • Different sensations with flogging
  • How do get to the place where you’re mean enough to beat someone?
  • Music and flogging
  • Endorphins, endorphins, endorphins
  • Trust and communication
  • Endorphin crash
  • Aftercare and what to do if the skin is broken
  • Areas of the body to avoid when flogging
  • Different kinds of materials in floggers

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Mid Size Standard Flogger.

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Episode 170 – I Could Give a Fuck Part 2

My little black swans! The last time we had Allena on the show, we had so much fun that we didn’t finish our conversation. Well, here ya go. And just like usual, it’s a crazy nuthouse around here. Don’t miss this one!

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Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Decriminalization of sex work
  • Kinky with physical disabilities
  • Shyness, introversion
  • Insecurities
  • Flirting

About Our Guest

Allena Gabosch served as Executive Director of the Center for Sex Positive Culture since its founding in 1999 until her semi-retirement in January 2015. She is currently the Development Director for CSPC. She has been active in the sex positive movement practically from its beginning, and says she’s “busy creating sex positive culture on a daily basis!” Allena has been producing educational and social events for the sex positive community since 1990. She co-owned and ran Beyond the Edge Cafe in the mid-1990s, providing a modest space for parties and workshops, until they closed their doors in 1999. It was then that Jim Duvall approached her with the idea of the Center and asked her to be its Executive Director.

She is a frequent speaker on many sex positive subjects at colleges and conferences around the United States and Canada, with an emphasis on BDSM and polyamory. In addition, she was the Festival Producer for the Seattle Erotic Art Festival. She is a past board member of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. In the Spring of 2008, Allena was appointed to the Seattle Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Commission. Allena is a bisexual, poly switch and considers herself extremely blessed as she has a rich and full poly life, with many amazing and loving people in her “polycule”. In her less than mundane non-kinky life, she is active in Landmark Education, loves theater, good food, walking around Seattle and hopes to run for Seattle City Council in a few years.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Chap Short.

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Episode 169 – OMG Shoes

Well, I would tell you about the guest on this episode, but he wrote a tome, which appears below. Unfortunately, our publisher tells us that there is no more space to write anything else. Enjoy!

Show Notes

Douchepickle of the Week

  • Academy Awards

In the News

Topics

  • Listener letters
  • Uh. Mah. Gawd. Shues.
  • How Rix gets off on shoes.
  • Shoes vs. boots
  • Judgment by shoes
  • Daddy’s lack of shoes
  • Shoe fetish vs. foot fetish

About Our Guest

Sir Rix is considered a Dom, Sir, Handler and Daddy in the BSDM, Leather, Pup and Kink Communities. Starting his journey of the kink realm back in 1998 from the city of Seattle, Washington.

Introduced to the idea of Kink and Fetish through a friend by a simple question of “What is your Fetish” and really not knowing what to say. Claiming, “I do not have a Fetish”. Yet, his friend was persistent on the topic, saying “Everyone has Something”. So per the friends direction, he spent the next few days just thinking and paying attention to what he noticed first on a person of interest.

The results of this simple experiment lead him to find that a person’s face and shoes are what caught his attention. And then all the connections just started to come together. What he noticed and focused on as a kid. How he always noticed what shoes the other kids wore and more.

Now back in 1998, fetish was not as well accepted. At least not in his circle of friends or community. Shoes or Sneakers were even more odd as many never heard of this as a fetish. Yet, Sir Rix was not quiet or ashamed of this new found interest.

2002 brought some big changes as Sir Rix moved to California. While he moved around Washington State in his youth, he never moved out of the state. Traveling around from Sacramento, Lake Tahoe, Los Angeles, Las Vegas and finally ending up in San Francisco.

Each new city brought new experiences. However, San Francisco is where he finally started to expand from his fetish of sneakers to other kinks. Being a typical gay male in San Francisco, he attended almost all the Street Fairs. Just like all other the other boys, he joined his friends for an outing to Dore Alley and then Folsom Street Fair. While others had fun dressing up for the event to just “Dress Up”, Sir Rix really found everything intriguing and took an interest in all the new wonderful toys and experiences.

Over time, more information was slowly gathered and experienced. Checking out websites, events and more. However, while in San Francisco, never really was engaged in the Leather Scene other than the fairs. It was not till 2007 when he returned to his home town of Seattle that he started to get more and more involved.

Sir Rix is an active member of Seattle Men in Leather and Seattle Pups and Handlers.

Living a Polyamorous lifestyle, he currently has two subs, one of whom lives with him. Yet, he will not limit his family. Always room for those who connect and fit in with the group. Currently in the process of purchasing his first home that he hopes to house his family and set up a large play space.

When it comes to experience, Sir Rix would consider himself a novice. While he may know about many things and can be rather creative. There has been little chance for him to truly work on his skills. Living in a small micro studio does not get much space for play. However, many would not consider him a novice. Yet, as he would say, we never stop learning. His next focus is to learn more bondage and rope work. However, with a wide variety of interests he tends to keep it fresh and interesting.

Sir Rix can be Contacted at:

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Nose Vice with 40″ Stainless Chain.

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Ungagged Episode 07 – The One Hit Wonder

The goods. Junk. Beans and franks. Your pride and joy. Did you know that you can do mean things to them? And for many of us, it feels so good. The Ungagged puppies talk about CBT – Cock and Ball Torture. If you’ve been curious about roughing up your junk, this is the episode for you.

Show Notes

  • 100,000 Orgasm Pyramid

Topics

  • What is CBT?
  • How the puppies discovered they are into CBT.
  • Communicate
  • How to go about getting into it the first time.
  • Don’t forget that the cock is just as much a part of CBT as the balls are. You may enjoy your cock roughed up even if you don’t like anything on your nuts. So don’t say “No CBT” when negotiating.
  • Types
    • Tugging/pulling
    • Squeezing
    • Impact play – Cock or balls
    • Piercing – Play piercing; cock or balls
    • Circulation play – Balls mostly, but can be done on cock, too. This is serious play. Be sure you and the top know what you’re doing.
    • Clothespins
    • Surface or skin play
    • Stuffing things into your dick
    • Electrical stimulation
  • Aftercare

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature T-SHIRTS! Here are some favorites:

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Episode 168 – Another Fucking Rubbout Show

Hey boys! Guess what??? Rubbout 25 is coming up! (Bet you didn’t know that, huh?) About a month-and-a-half from now. Reid is one of the main organizers (producer, I think is his title) so he comes to tell us about this year’s event. You should come join us! We’re planning to record an episode of the NoSafeWord Show at Rubbout.

Here’s the web site with all of the details.

Show Notes

Douchepickle of the Week

  • Idiots in the bar who can’t keep their hands to themselves

In the News

Topics

  • What is Rubbout?
  • Quick rundown of the weekend
  • Come play with us!
  • Community building
  • What is rubber about? The elevator pitch.
  • Dealing with the gays in their natural environment when we’re there with rubber and fetish gear.
  • IML memories
  • Watersports party
  • Rubber for gay men vs. rubber for straight men. Is it different?

About Our Guest

Reid has been involved in rubber and kink for 17 years. He moved to Vancouver from Calgary in 2009 while he still held the Mr. Rubber Calgary title, and instantly became involved in the rubber and leather community in Vancouver, continuing the work he started in Calgary. He has been organizing Rubbout since the 20th anniversary in 2010 when Mitch Kenyon passed the torch to Doug, Rob, and Reid. He became Mr. West Coast Rubber in 2010 and ran for Mister International Rubber in the same year. In his 5th year organizing Rubbout, Reid has found a growing and integrated local community of gay perverts — in rubber, leather, puppy, and other forms — that are supportive of a growing interest in gear and events and groups that bring these communities together. Never shy to share his knowledge and gear, he has found a varied group of young men craving experience in bondage, kink and fetish.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Head Harness Muzzle by Fetters USA.

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Episode 167 – Dan Savage Part 2

In our last episode, Dan Savage joined us for a hilarious discussion. We had so much fun talking with him that we talked and talked and talked. So we split it up into two episodes. (We really try not to tax your endurance too much. We realize that we’re good in small doses.)

Headphones and potty breaks. That’s what we devolve into. So enjoy the rest of our conversation with Dan!

Show Notes

Topics

  • Leather and kink.
  • Puppy play and kinks that we just don’t get.
  • Religion, BDSM, and kink.

About Our Guest

Dan Savage is a sex advice columnist, activist, author, and podcaster from Seattle. Listen to his podcast The Savage Lovecast and read his writing on The Stranger at The Savage Love and SLOG.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Stinger Whip.

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Episode 166 – Dan Savage Part 1

Our resident sex advice podcaster and columnist and fellow kinkster Dan Savage returns to share his insight and funny thoughts on a variety of topics. He even answers some of the letters our listeners sent to the crew, all from the top of his head. He has a hard time concentrating when handed the controls of a dick stroking machine running on a sexy naked boy tied up on the bondage table while we recorded, too. Lots of laughs and advice in this one!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

About Our Guest

Dan Savage is a sex advice columnist, activist, author, and podcaster from Seattle. Listen to his podcast The Savage Lovecast and read his writing on The Stranger at The Savage Love and SLOG.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Fetters Bondage Suit.

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Episode 165 – Mistress Fyre

Mistress Pixie Fyre joins us from down the road in Portland. She is the head of a house of herself and slaves, subs, and pups. She is also planning to open a new café in Portland that will include dungeon and play spaces as well as D/s protocol interwoven into the business, along with educational opportunities for people to learn more. She talks about all of this and more.

You can check out all of the various fundraisers for Mistress Fyre on her web site.

Show Notes

Douchepickle of the Week

  • Sarah Palin

In the News

Topics

  • Plans for Portland’s Kinky Café
    • A nice blend of café, D/s, education, and community building
  • Fundraising for the café
  • What’s high protocol? How will that fit into the café?
  • How will the café fit into the broader community?
  • Mistress Fyre’s house
  • Levels of protocol in various parts of life
  • Heterosexual, pansexual, bisexual, homosexual communities

About Our Guest

Beautiful, smart, commanding and wonderfully sadistic. Mistress Pixie Fyre is the Founder of the House of Fyre and a well-respected Domme in the Portland, Oregon community. She is bringing a new level of elegance to the BDSM world one pair of heels at a time!

How you can find Mistress Fyre:

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Leather Sailor Front Apron.

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(That second pic doesn’t really display the leather apron, but don’t you agree that’s a nice ass?)

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Episode 164 – A Transman Walks into a Leather Bar…

Our transgendered brothers are fierce! Have you ever seen one of them wield a whip or a strop? Don’t mess with ’em! But they’re also just as kind-hearted and fun to be around. And they add so much to the tapestry of kinky gay life.

Mitch and Jonas join us to talk about being a transman in the kink community. They have some great things to share with us.

Show Notes

Douchepickle of the Week

  • Kim D***s and Jim Jordan

In the News

Topics

  • Mitch’s background
  • Jonas’s background
  • How being kinky affects gender identity
  • Acceptance (or lack of acceptance) of trans men
  • Accidentally using wrong pronouns
  • Personal safety
  • Awkward questions

About Our Guests

Jonas is a leather boy who has been in the community for over 15 years.  He came up through the women’s community in Berlin, Germany, before he moved to San Francisco to be with his now husband and Sir, Mitchel.  After moving to Seattle almost 8 years ago, he connected to the men’s community there, joined SML, and later also Sbol, where he is now president. He is also proud boy to Miss Becca, WA Bootblack 2014. He is out as trans, and feels he is eternally trying to figure out how to pick up all those hot Daddies out there .

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Wolf Muzzle. It comes in both white and gray.

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Episode 163 – To Sir with Love

Yesterday, we lost a dear friend and member of our family when Sir Alan Penrod passed away suddenly. He was a friendly sexy leatherman who gave much of himself to the leather community, both in Atlanta and abroad. Our hearts go out to his family, Nitro and David.

Godspeed, Sir Alan.

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Episode 162 – I Could Give a Fuck Part 1

My little black swans! You will all get this.

We welcome back Allena to the podcast. She opens up with us about a topic that is very personal. And she shows us how we can deal with serious life-changing events with our kink friends.

Show Notes

Douchepickle of the Week

  • Y’all Qaeda

In the News

Topics

  • Breast cancer
  • Treatment
  • Libido
  • Support network

About Our Guest

Allena Gabosch served as Executive Director of the Center for Sex Positive Culture since its founding in 1999 until her semi-retirement in January 2015. She is currently the Development Director for CSPC. She has been active in the sex positive movement practically from its beginning, and says she’s “busy creating sex positive culture on a daily basis!” Allena has been producing educational and social events for the sex positive community since 1990. She co-owned and ran Beyond the Edge Cafe in the mid-1990s, providing a modest space for parties and workshops, until they closed their doors in 1999. It was then that Jim Duvall approached her with the idea of the Center and asked her to be its Executive Director.

She is a frequent speaker on many sex positive subjects at colleges and conferences around the United States and Canada, with an emphasis on BDSM and polyamory. In addition, she was the Festival Producer for the Seattle Erotic Art Festival. She is a past board member of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. In the Spring of 2008, Allena was appointed to the Seattle Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Commission. Allena is a bisexual, poly switch and considers herself extremely blessed as she has a rich and full poly life, with many amazing and loving people in her “polycule”. In her less than mundane non-kinky life, she is active in Landmark Education, loves theater, good food, walking around Seattle and hopes to run for Seattle City Council in a few years.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature Hemp Rope from Twisted Monk.

Mr. S also has two of Monk’s starter packs of rope. Starter Pack 1 and Starter Pack 2.

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Ungagged Episode 06 – One Notch Tighter

Bondage. Bondage, bondage, bondage. Whoops. Dick’s getting hard now. Yeah, so that’s why I enjoy doing it. Very horny. On this episode of Ungagged, the puppies talk about bondage. From the sub-getting-tied-up-perspective, naturally. So strap yourselves in, it’s going to be a cozy fun ride.

Show Notes

Topics

  • Why do we like bondage? (Hint: It involves boners.)
  • How do you get into it? What equipment do you need?
  • Geared? Clothed? Naked?
  • Stepping up your game
  • Self-bondage
  • Safety tips
  • Favorite bondage gear
  • Fun places to find fun gear and furniture

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Essential Wrist & Ankle Restraints.

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Episode 161 – Into Older? It Depends.

The gay community struggles with the issue of age. There are a lot of guys who have strict age limits on the men they will socialize with and the guys they’ll have sex or play with. Others of us will often make snap judgments based on the age listed in a man’s profile online. Some of these limitations are insultingly superficial; some are necessary to avoid a creepy factor or prison time. Most of these limitations affect everyone’s self-esteem, whether we realize it or not.

On this episode, Daddy Tony and Sparky explore some of these issues both with the gay community in general and with kinksters and BDSM practitioners specifically.

Show Notes

Douchepickle of the Week

  • Martin Shkreli

In the News

Topic

  • How are things different in the kink and play scenes as you age?
  • When limiting yourself to only guys of certain age, you’re missing out on potential mindblowing connections.
  • Sometimes age limits are necessary — for instance, to avoid minors.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. The crew of the NoSafeWord Show would like to give a big thank you to the folks at Mr. S Leather for all of the support that they have given us over the past two years. Please look at their latest newsletter, get yourself some awesome gear, and be sure to let them know that you appreciate their sponsorship of the NoSafeWord Show.

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Ep 5 – Just One More Inch

Ha! You thought this episode was going to be about dick size, didn’t you? From the title, there. Nope! This one’s all about … butt play! Brutus and Mikey talk with Ansel about the basics of ass play. Oh, and prehensile penises.

Show Notes

Games

  • Would You Rather?
  • Word Association

Topics

  • Levels of anal play
  • Preparation
    • Diet
    • Cleanout
    • Lube
    • Gloves
    • Toys
    • Pee first (This is about butt play not watersports, boys.)
  • The big event
    • Misconceptions
    • Relax
    • Feelings
    • Size
  • Aftercare
    • Balms
    • Diet
  • Problems
    • Fissure
    • Hemorrhoids

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Egg Plug in SuperSoft Bronze by Square Peg.

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