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Episode 106 – Tit Faced

We always have a fabulous (and hilarious) time when Mama Tits joins us. In this episode, we discuss play party etiquette (and how NOT to do it), encouraging kink with a nonkinky boyfriend, and all of the recent issues with big social media.

And Mama does not let anything get past her. She will call you on your shit.

Bonus: Before we started the show, we introduced Mama to the grapefruit.

Vote for Mama!

Mimosas with Mama, Mama Tits’ weekly show has been nominated for Best Theater Group in the 2014 Best of Western Washington. Go here to vote for Mama Tits! Hurry! Voting ends October 24, 2014.

You can also vote for Mama for Woman of the Year.

Show Notes

Discussion Topics

  • Sparky’s Rant. Boys, use good play party etiquette, otherwise, someone may call you a:
    • Dickhead
    • Fuck wad
    • Queen
    • Troll doll that’s lost all of its hair and has no purpose in life
    • Cupie doll
    • Douchebag
    • Douche pickle
    • Fucktard
  • Listener Letters and comments
    • A new listener started exploring kink and is now with his Sir
    • How to encourage your nonkinky boyfriend to explore some kinks with you
  • Social Media
    • How the issue began
    • How a well-meaning but simplistic policy can have the opposite of the intended effect
    • The evils of all social media companies
    • Alternatives
    • The dangers of accidentally exposing your kinky self to nonkinky folks

About Our Guest

Mama Tits is a worldwide celebrity drag queen. She has taken on right-winger religious loudmouths. (At our annual celebration, no less.) She is Seattle’s Skyscraper Hostess. She has a weekly show during brunch, Mimosas with Mama. Each Sunday, you can watch “Mama Mia!” Starting Thanksgiving weekend, there will be a new show called “Boob Job for Christmas.”  You can check out all of the details about the show, including show times and location, www.mimosaswithmama.com.

Mama was previously on NoSafeWord Episode 53, Episode 93, and Shorts 06.

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Breath Control Deluxe Tight Hood, made of leather!

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Episode 105 – Tank

Only three words this time:  WHAT. THE. FUCK?

Now that’s out of the way. For this episode, we have the insane hotness known as Tank. I mean, look at the pic! And that smile is boner-inducing.

The current American Leatherboy tells us about the work he is doing with youth in New Jersey, the upcoming American Brotherhood Weekend, gets us all hot and bothered with discussions of impact play and chastity, and deals with the craziness of the crew in the studio. Don’t miss this one!

Tank

Show Notes

Quotable Quote

“It’s my apnea machine for my dick.”

Discussion Topics

About Our Guest

Tank Teachworth, “Mama’s All-American Pup,” resides in Asbury Park, New Jersey. He is an “ambassador at large” full member of the Atlanta based leather club Panther Leather/Levi, and is also an associate member of the Jersey boys of Leather. Tank works full time as community outreach health educator and HIV counselor with the Visiting Nurse’s Association Health Group of New Jersey, in a segment called Project R.E.A.L. (Real Empowerment on All Levels.) At Project R.E.A.L., a youth LGBTQ drop-in center, they focus on relationships, HIV prevention, counseling, rapid testing, social outlets, gender identity, and many more important LGBTQ topics.

In April 2013, Tank became Mr. Atlanta Eagle. “My time as Mr. Atlanta Eagle has been an incredibly powerful experience. I’ve had the pleasure of supporting a variety of charitable organizations, such as Lost and Found Atlanta (a youth LGBTQ homeless shelter,) Alphabet Soup Atlanta (a Transgender support group for friends, allies, partners and men and women in transition,) P.A.L.S. Atlanta (Pets Are Loving Support) and Leather Heart Foundation. Being Mr. Atlanta Eagle has allowed me the opportunity to support the Atlanta Eagle not just an iconic leather bar, but a home to many who felt they had no place to belong. It has truly been one of the greatest pleasures of my life serving as Mr. Atlanta Eagle.” To transition all that from a local bar title into the national stage has been “a tremendous blessing, and I could not be more fortunate, as I am surrounded by the best men and women, and hearts and minds in the community through the American Leather Family.”

Tank also enjoys making the good pups go bad! His kinks and fetishes include puppy play, impact play, breath control, uniforms, sports gear, humiliation, electro, CBT, ass play, interrogation play, power exchange, and many more.

As the American Leatherboy 2013, Pup Tank has chosen to champion a cause in men’s sexual health, specifically through PrEP, Pre-Exposure Prophylactic, a medical treatment used in conjunction with condoms to further prevent the spread of HIV/AIDS. He feels as though we must embrace every opportunity to affect change in our community, and if only one life is spared, then the effort is absolutely worth it.

Pup Tank would like to express his deepest gratitudes to Atlanta Panther Leather / Levi for supporting him from the first time he put on leather in public until now, as well as Sir Alan Penrod, Pup Nitro Hankinson, Daddy Sal Susino and Daddy Dion Daly-Susino, and the Atlanta Eagle, for being the playground every pup deserves.

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Front Zip Carpenter Vest.

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Episode 104 – Mr. Friendly

Few topics create as much emotion among gay men than discussing HIV. We have been living with this disease for over 30 years. There are a lot of attitudes surrounding the virus itself, men who have HIV, men who don’t have HIV, how we talk about sex, and how we approach ourselves and others with the precautions we take to slow the spread of the virus.

Joining us tonight is Dave, the gay man who started the Mr. Friendly campaign to help us realize when we’re stigmatizing and stereotyping other people on either side of the seroconversion equation.

Check out Mr. Friendly’s web site.

And here’s Mr. Friendly!

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Show Notes

Discussion Topics

  • Shout out to Ruff. Thanks Ruff!
  • Letter from Gymratter
  • In the news: Don’t touch Coco like that!
  • Mr. Friendly
    • What is it?
    • What does the symbol look like?
    • Why was it created?
    • All of the various stigmas and assumptions related to gay men and HIV
    • Why “Know Your Status” encourages stigma
    • Discussion about HIV within the leather community vs. the larger gay community
    • HIV status and desires in online profiles
    • The endurance of HIV stigma for 30 years in the gay community
    • An HIV test is not a shield
    • In the news: How does “undetectability” affect guys’ desire to have sex without condoms?
    • How to get Mr. Friendly stuff? Go to the web site to find pins, dog tags, t-shirts, and lots of other cool stuff.
    • How to create a Team Friendly
  • Letter from Starky Boy
  • In the news: Too many orgasms? Really?

Quotable Quote

Female Butt Baggies

About Our Guest

Dave was honored with the title of Mr. Michigan Leather 2009, served on the CLAW board for 5 years and has judged IML, MIR, and GLLA. He has completed many food fetish presentations, countless HIV-related classes and enjoys flogging “newbies” at leather events while feeding Little Debbie snacks (hence the name Mama’s Nutty Buddy). Passionate about reducing the stigma of HIV, Dave currently works as an HIV Counselor/Tester and is the creator of the anti-stigma campaign “Mr Friendly.”

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Hump Gear Butt Plug by Perfect Fit.

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Episode 103 – Cray Cray

There’s a lot that goes on each evening when we record a show. Stuff that y’all never hear. Our trusty engineer has gotten into the habit of recording our preparation for the show and sometimes what happens after the end of the show, too, so there’s a lot of great nuggets that get caught on tape.

Two weeks ago, we had Tyesha on the show. And there are a ton of nuggets caught on tape. We decided to edit them together (and take out some inappropriate parts) and let y’all in on some of the craziness of the production of an episode of the NoSafeWord show.

Psssst!

Slyy here. Shhhhh! Don’t tell anyone. That’s why I’m whispering. But I just want to state two things for the record. First, it’s never my fault. Second, the divas who think they run the show can be really condescending sometimes. Okay, that’s all.

Quotable Quotes

“Look! It’s a poodle.”

“Will this turn me on? Yup! Well, that’s embarrassing.”

About Our Guest

Tyesha is a lover of grapefruit, chicken wings, and bad sex. She is a hilarious Pig in Pearls. Nothing more needs saying. Check out Episode 101 for Tyesha’s full bio.

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature The Spyder Gag. It’s a Mr. S Exclusive! If you didn’t pick one up two weeks ago, you have another chance!

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Episode 102 – Gear Eye for the Queer Guy

It’s no secret that many of the NoSafeWord crew are into gear. We get a lot of questions about gear. So for this episode, we talk all about gear.

Show Notes

Quotable Quotes

“I don’t like hotel pillows.”

Discussion Topics

  • Sports uniforms
  • Traveling with gear
  • Dealing with TSA
  • Budgeting
  • Letting gear go – gifting, selling, or donating

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Leather Lined Bag Hood.

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Episode 101 – That’s So Tyesha

Tyesha returns in this episode. We had a blast with her the last time, and the ride was pretty wild this time around, too. You do not want to miss this one.

Tyesha would like to take a moment for this public service announcement: Wash your hands and brush your teeth. That is all. Thank you.

Show Notes

Quotable Quotes

  • “That was smooth, just like Crisco.”
  • “Have you ever seen a banana get ripe?”
  • “When the cat gets humpy humpy.”
  • “I wouldn’t want to wag my dick in front of a 9-year old girl.”
  • “Did you just OJ Simpson that?”
  • “Happy Queer Tightasses Day in the Middle of Downtown”
  • “It’s weird when you get interrupted by your boss.”
  • “Hey, hellerrrr. Still at the bus station, and he passed me up.”
  • “It was like Jesus giving me a high five through my vagina.”
  • “Rusty lumpy oatmeal sex.”

In the News

Discussion Topics

About Our Guest

Tyesha is first and foremost, a Leatherwoman. She is also a Queer Femme Tomboy, forever student, writer, a lover of history, teacher, musician and “paper schlepper” with an outgoing nature leads her to volunteer her gifts and talents wherever needed.

Tyesha has lived in the DFW and surrounding areas for the past decade and officially calls Dallas her home though she currently lives in Wilton Manors, FL. An ex military brat, she knew about her sadomasochistic nature even while a young girl living in Italy and is grateful for the opportunities to discuss and demonstrate her thoughts on it. She also enjoys talking and teaching on generational and minority issues.

Tyesha has served as NLA-International Policy and Procedures Chair, Registration Coordinator for Gender Odyssey, President of the Dallas girls of Leather and Leatherati.com as their Calendar Editor, Staff Writing Correspondent and Contributing Editor. She still serves NLA-International as Secretary and Policy and Procedures Chair and now serves as Editor for Leatherati.com. She has served on many other boards and committees including Beyond Vanilla and Women in Leather International and Dallas Fresh Leather.

Tyesha believes that evolution does not happen without knowledge of the past, neither does it truly evolve fully without the help and creativity of the future. She knows that wisdom and foresight have no age limit. When people understand this, history will be repeated less, solutions will be achieved faster and the Elders will have the ability to go on vacation. She is grateful for the mentors and close friends and family that continue to help the growth of her Identity and journey.

You can find Tyesha on Facebook as tye.leather and Twitter @TyeOshun. She was also on Episode 28 and Episode 29.

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature The Spyder Gag. It’s a Mr. S Exclusive!

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Episode 100 – Ode to the Penis

Just, fucking, suck it!

I want to be fucked, not tickled.

It’s kinda veiny and shafty, and at the end of it is a puppy.

I would imagine it’s like fuckin’ a lasagna.

Stupid as rocks, but great in bed.

Is there anything ever too big? Yeah. What did you do with it? Sucked it.

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

Penis, Cock, Prick, Dick, Weiner, Dong, Dork, Chub, Salami, Chubbie, Sausage, Piece, Stiffy, Junk, Shaft, Pecker, Knob, Joystick, Schlong, Wee, Wood, Ding-A-Ling, Boner, Dangler, Tool, Whang, The D, Bone, Schwartz, Third Leg, Pole, Rod, Hog, Hard-On, Snowflake, Willy, Monster, Slab of Meat, Pud, Unit, Member, Doinker, Johnson, Wang, Chode, Throbber, Trouser Snake, Tube Steak, 100% All-Beef Thermometer, Magic Wand, Love Muscle, Jack Hammer, Tally Whacker, One-Eyed Monster, Peter, Little Chubby, Anaconda, Giant Redwood, Rosco, Tootsie Roll, Tripod.

About Our Guests

A bunch of sick, twisted, depraved sex maniacs. We love them all dearly.

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Piped Leather Suspenders with Color Stitching.

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Episode 99 – Sir Yes Sir

Being a gay kinky pup in the military can be a bit of a balancing act.  Thankfully, it is much less of an issue today than it has been in years past.  In this episode, we talk with three of our fellow kinksters who are or have served in the military: Pup Jimmy, who is currently on active duty as a reservist; Skuff Pup who was recently in the Marine Corps; and Daddy Tony, who served wayback in the Navy.  We talked about some of the differences in how gay men were treated in the military over the years and how Jimmy balances his work, gay, and kink lives while on active duty.  There’s some good stuff here you don’t want to miss!

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Serving in the military
  • Differences in the treatment of gay men in different military generations
  • Kinky while on active duty
  • Fooling around in the service

About Our Guests

Pup Jimmy

Jimmy Basset is a young Soldier in the Army reserves, out to and accepted by his closest battle buddies.  His battle buddies often accuse him of being “you kinky fuck” but they have no idea of the specifics or just how right they are. He was recently adopted by pup Tank and welcomed into that family by Tank’s other beta, Ace. Still new to the wide world of kink and the Atlanta kink scene, he’s having the time of his life making new friends in the community and learning what really gets him going. Often seen at the Atlanta Eagle on gear nights, there is no telling what he’ll be wearing or who will be scritching him.

You can find Jimmy Basset on Facebook at BlueBeaglePup on Recon as madein88 or around Atlanta in person.

Skuff Pup

Skuff Pup is an Alpha, bottom boy, big brother, and sometimes handler, living in the greater Seattle area. A long time member of the kink community, he moved to the Pacific Northwest from Florida in 2009, though he is an Arkansas native. Skuff’s primary kink is ABDL and age play as well as a part of the furry community. He is the resident Queerbilly (just a country pup at heart), an Australian Shepherd to be exact, and can be seen herding up the strays in his boots and Wranglers. Skuff is a Staff Sergeant in the United States Marine Corps, active duty from 1996-2007, and is now retired from active duty, but with the right boy, the SNCO has been known to make an appearance. Skuff loves scritches, leather, rubber, bondage, gas mask play (instant boner for those!), snuggling, and chasing RC cars and is an avid outdoors/camping pup. He also contributes to the NoSafeWord show by running the tumblr page. He was sidelined from play for over a year because of a spinal injury/surgery, but is well on the mend and back in action! So shoot him a message, he won’t bite. Well, maybe just a little..
You can find Skuff on Twitter as @Skuffpup, on Facebook as Skuff.pup and of course, shoot him an email at Skuff@nosafeword.com

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Neoprene Gas Mask Hood.

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Episode 97 – Public Pot Sex

Hi folks. Our engineer is feeling unappreciated. He recently asked if anyone actually reads these blog posts when we post a new episode. I tried to tell him that everything was okay, that yes, in fact, our loyal listeners do appreciate all of the effort he puts into writing up the show notes. I even patted his head to make him feel better. But I’m not sure it helped much. So if you could do me a favor and send him a tweet (@slyydawg) and let him know that you read this, that would be awesome. Send it to us, too. That’s @NoSafeWord_Show and @slyydawg.

But try not to be too sweet. We all know he’s a delicate flower (cough) but at some point, we just need to show him some tough love.  Thanks.

— Sparky

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Intersection of Pot & Sex
  • Memories of Dore Alley / Public Sex

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Racer Bar Vest.

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Episode 96 – Campy Puppies

The puppies are invading! Quick, grab ’em by the collar!

For this episode, we have a bunch of puppies (and one kitty) telling us about a bunch of upcoming events. There is a contest coming up in about two weeks for 2015 Northwest Puppy and Handler. We touch on some of the recent passings in the puppy and leather communities in the past couple of months. Finally, we talk about SEA-PAH’s campout coming up in three weeks.

2015 Northwest Puppy and Handler info

Camp K-9 web info

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Northwest Puppy and Handler Contest
  • Recent losses to the community
  • Puppy Camping Trip

About Our Guests

Our guests have all been with us on the NoSafeWord Show previously. Pup Figaro is International Puppy 2015, and he was on our last episode. Nate, the Vice-President, and Pup Gadget are members of the Board of Directors of Seattle Pups and Handlers and have been on the show many times. Matthew is the President of SEA-PAH. Pup Debit is the Treasurer of SEA-PAH, and Nightcat is a kitty on the SEA-PAH Board of Directors. I don’t really know how he doesn’t get ripped to shreds with all of those puppies around. Check out previous episodes to hear more about these guys.

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Silicone Quad-Polar Prostate Stimulator by ElectraStim called “Sirius.”

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Episode 95 – International Puppy

Last weekend we heard of the wonderful news that a great pup and dear friend of the show, Pup Figaro, was named International Puppy 2015 at the International Puppy Contest. What a wonderful representative of our community and of the pup universe!

We immediately contacted him to see if he would be willing to come talk about the experience, and we appreciate him taking the time to do so. It was a night of many distractions for us all, what with Figaro having an adorable pup boy in the background for us to eye, and we were joined by a couple of new pups to the area ourselves, as well as many of our friends from SEA-PAH, it was a puppy night!

It was a great night of hijinks that you just have to check out!

 

Show Notes

In the News

About Our Guest

Pup Figaro is Alpha Pup in the Wruff Pack and has been owned by his Daddy since 2008. Figaro is a Border Collie and as such can be found herding the local pups and Handlers to events. After moving from San Francisco, he found that he very much missed the close-knit SF pup community. He got involved with SEA-PAH, founded VAN-PAH (Vancouver Pups and Handlers), and won the title of Northwest Puppy 2014. Named for his involvement in Opera and Classical singing, Figaro enjoys meeting new pups and finding ways to strengthen the pup community. Figaro loves snickerdoodles, scritches, moshing, and sitting with his tongue out. In July of this year, he went on to win the title of International Puppy 2015.

You can find Figaro on Twitter as @PupFigaro, on Facebook at Pup.Figaro, and on Recon as FigaroPup.

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Wide Electro Ring made of Stainless Steel by ElectraStim. Lots of different sizes to choose from!

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Episode 94 – The Last Half Mile

Kinkidiver is a close friend to several of the NoSafeWord crew. We invited him to talk with us about his history in the Seattle leather community and to talk about his experiences with his partner and boy. We had a blast on this show!

Musical interlude provided by Bensound.

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • How it was for Kinkidiver to get here tonight
  • How Sparky knows him, when they first met
  • Kinky in a rural area
  • Just starting a 3-way relationship
  • How to Meet Guys 101

About Our Guest

Kinkidiver has been happily tying guys up (and getting tied up himself) for many years. One of the NoSafeWord crew has known him for 18 years. He loves bondage, rubber, leather, and sports gear and is an all-around perv. Just our type!

You can find him as kinkidiver on Recon.

Kinkidiver was also on Episode 62.

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Set of 4 Bondage Points.

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Episode 93 – Mama Tits Part 1

The wonderful Mama Tits joins us again for this episode. She was one of the hostesses for this year’s Seattle Pride Parade, and she is making quite a splash with a video clip of her encounter with some uninvited guests just prior to the start of the parade. We are delighted to have her with us again to talk about that whole experience and some of the aftermath.

This is just Part One! Watch for the second part of our discussion with her.

Mama Tits was also in Episode 53, when we celebrated Daddy Tony’s 50th birthday, and in Shorts 06, when we did a crazy remake of a staple of 1970’s television.

PHOTO: Dark Dee Lights

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

About Our Guest

Seattle’s Skyscraper Hostess, the One and Only Mama Tits is the creation of Brian Daniel Peters. You may recognize her as the former Host of LeFaux from 2010-2011 or as one of the hosts of the Seattle Pride Parade for the past 4 years alongside Sylvia O’Stayformore at the 4th and Bell stage and this year at the Westlake Center Main Stage. Mama Tits was one of the hosts of the 2010 Pride-fest Main stage at Seattle Center, she was the Original Hostess of the hottest weekday club night on Capitol Hill, ElektroPoP! from 2011-2012, and the Original hostess of the Capitol Hill Talent Show. Mama is also the Producer and Star of “Mimosas with Mama”, Seattle’s #1 and Longest running weekly Drag Brunch, and works various private events around the Seattle area and across the country.

You can find Mama Tits on her web site – www.themamatits.com.

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Fetters Front Buckle Gag.

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Episode 91 – What Does the Pup Say?

So there’s this hottie. He lives in Seattle now with his pup. He kisses really well, and it’s really hot to make out with him. We invited him and his pup to do the show with us tonight! It turns out he’s good with his mouth … on a mic, too.

Kognition and his pup kiba were here. Kognition told us all about himself, kiba, and their relationship. kiba spent the whole time restrained in a rubber sleepsack, tied to the bondage table, while two other puppies sucked his cock, nibbled on his balls, and used the Venus on him. He was a little preoccupied. And distracting for the crew.

Enjoy the show! We had a lot of fun recording this one. Now, if you’ll excuse me, there’s a hot man I need to make out with.

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • History of Kognition
    • Coming out: gay
    • Coming out: kinky
  • How Kognition and kiba met
  • kiba’s life as a dog
  • The nature of their Sir & Pup relationship

Hash Tag

#AssholeSoTightICantPoop

About Our Guest

One day three years ago, Kognition was driving around Laguna Beach and heard a new howling coming from the hills.  When he located the source of the noise, he saw a shiny black latex dog wagging his tail! Ever since, they have gone on many adventures together, from the arid deserts of California, to the chilly winters of the east coast. Now they are on their largest adventure yet – relocating themselves to the lush forests of the Pacific Northwest.

You can find them on Recon under their screen names kognition and dogkiba.

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Silicone Guard Gag by Oxballs.

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