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Episode 203 – Harshing My Buzz

Description of Show

Sex, drugs, and beating balls. On this episode we have a discussion with Ungagged hosts Drew and Mikey about drugs, sex and kink. We go down a list of the most popular drugs and talk about our experiences of each. Some of them are awesome and totally safe to use in a controlled situation, others you had best steer clear!

Show Notes

  • Introducing Now What? our new recurring segment for the show. We decided in this new political era to take proactive action to protect our rights.
  • Sparky runs down a list of Senators to target, support, and watch to get ready for the next midterm election in 2018.
  • Our topic is drug use in kink play and sex. We are exploring this topic to be open beyond the stigma and share our own experiences from the past.
  • Pot has so many code words! As it is legalized, it is becoming a lot more common as a part of sex the way that alcohol has been. “I have introduced plenty of people to pot for the first time!” “Tell me more about it, Bill Cosby?”
  • Heroin or opium has strong effects and is very addictive. It’s dangerous to use in risky sexual situations and the effects are so strong that we would never suggest or consider it for sexual play (or for any other use).
  • “I love me some cocaine, if there was some cocaine here right now I would snort it!” We take a trip back to the 80’s and talk about why coke isn’t terrible in general. However it’s not completely compatible with sex or kink play for everyone. It can kill your boner.
  • Methamphetamine have similar effects to cocaine, but much more addictive. It can have devastating effects with long-term use. We don’t recommend trying it and won’t play with others using it.
  • Party drugs like MDMA and Ecstasy makes everything in the world feel sexy, except maybe sex itself. Some say it makes for the best sex they ever had. There’s an alphabet soup of different cocktails and combos of drugs that some think have the best feeling, but generally you’ll have to pay for the pleasure on the other end. “She took her shirt off… and I remember playing with her boobs and having the best time!” 
  • K. This special drug was developed to knock out horses. You can fall into a K hole and just be happy existing. It probably will make you boring, which isn’t very sexy. Similar drugs are PCP and Salvia. They get you disoriented and you will make bad choices.
  • Hallucinogens make every boring situation seem exciting thanks to the phantom dicks popping out of every surface. Some really love sex with them, although it’s not compatible with most kink play. “That can be the worst 20 minutes of your life trying to eat a bag of mushrooms.” 
  • Know your environment and don’t over-do it. Do your research and talk to a friend. Keep this number and call for help if it is not an emergency: U.S. Poison Control Hotline 1-800-222-1222. Visit Drugslab on YouTube to see some scientifically presented visuals of the effects of different drugs.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Bluetooth Remote Control Butt Plug.

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Episode 202 – Pop Goes the Kinkster

Description of Show

A few months ago the local news weekly, The Stranger, sent a reporter over to our show to do a story about us and other kinky online educational resources from the Seattle area, and thus was the first time we met Matt. He is a sweet guy that did a great write up about our show, so we have invited him back to have a talk with us about how kink culture and pop culture sometimes interact (as sometimes doesn’t). Always fun to hear from matt!

Show Notes

  • A listener letter asking about bar etiquette. The guys talk about extending yourself to others at the bar…verbally that is! More information about bar etiquette can be found in a past episode of the pup’s podcast – Ungagged 4: The Devil is in the Details.
  • Our guest Matt Baume talks about his relationship to the kink community as a journalist who is an advocate of kink from outside the kink community.
  • How does kink and pop culture link up? We talk about different examples in gaming (Ironbull), in movies (Secretary), and in music (Madonna…duh!)

About Our Guest

Matt Baume makes his third visit to the NoSafeWord podcast! Matt is a Seattle-based writer, storyteller, and video maker whose work focuses on LGBT issues, nerds, and anything that is strange and wonderful.

Matt hosts the podcast The Sewers of Paris, where gay men share stories about the entertainment that changed their lives. He is the author of the book Defining Marriage and hosts a podcast of the same name where he and his partner joke and chat about queer issues.

He is currently working on a project called Playing With Pride, featuring personal stories about what happens when queer culture and game culture collide. You can get in touch @mattbaume on Twitter, and check out his YouTube channel for weekly videos about LGBT issues.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Champion Singlet

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Ungagged Episode 19 – A Different Kind of Sparky

About This Episode

We’re talking this week about electro play! We’re also shaking off the dust of the holidays and catching up on the news.

  • Catching up in the new year
  • What’s in the news:
  • We talk all about electro play in depth!
    • Methods of electro play
    • There are a number of different systems out there available and we discuss a few
    • Dangers and pitfalls to avoid
    • Gel and other accessories
    • Help for beginners
    • Know electricity basics!
    • Electro is individualistic – it takes time to get the right stim for each person, so do it much more than once
    • 3-2-1…Contact! Connectivity is extremely important
    • Send us your comments and letters!

 

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This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Electrified World’s Most Comfortable Butt Plug 

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Episode 201 – I See Bootblack Part 2

Description of Show

For this episode we continue the discussion with Patrick about is side job doing phone sex work, and move on to some discussion about the intersection of age and kink culture. This is going to be a highly fun episode that you are not going to want to miss!

About Our Guest

boy Patrick is a queer, switch femme, otter. A native of Dallas, he has a huge passion for leather and fetish wear care. Patrick is all about education and empowerment when it comes to kink, both in and out of the dungeon. Through education and experience we are able to expand our abilities to give and receive pleasure.

Patrick is one of the bootblacks at the Dallas Eagle. He is also the current International Community Bootblack. He thrives off of presence and sharing energy with anyone who will engage with him, on or off the stand. Patrick believes that through this presence we can build bridges between communities, develop a better understand of our history and present, and most importantly connect with one another on a deeper level.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Fetters Sit Sling 

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Episode 201 – I See Bootblack Part 1

Description of Show

Our guest, boy Patrick, talks to us about bootblacking and how it relates both to his personal sexuality and to the broader community. boy Patrick also discusses his other career as a phone sex operator and Daddy Tony roleplays as a “typical” client. Stay tuned for the second part for the next episode where we talk about age and kink.

Show Notes

In the News

About Our Guest

boy Patrick is a queer, switch femme, otter. A native of Dallas, he has a huge passion for leather and fetish wear care. Patrick is all about education and empowerment when it comes to kink, both in and out of the dungeon. Through education and experience we are able to expand our abilities to give and receive pleasure.

Patrick is one of the bootblacks at the Dallas Eagle. He is also the current International Community Bootblack. He thrives off of presence and sharing energy with anyone who will engage with him, on or off the stand. Patrick believes that through this presence we can build bridges between communities, develop a better understand of our history and present, and most importantly connect with one another on a deeper level.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Fetters Sit Sling 

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Episode 200 – We Are 200

Holy shit, somehow we made it to 200 of these damn things! We hope you are as excited as we are that we hit this milestone (though in truth you probably aren’t, but it is still cool)!

For this episode we start off with presenting a little award to a friend of the show. We did this because she has been going through a lot, and through it all she still supports the community, her family, and our show. So right at the beginning we present this award to Mistress Pixie Fyre (on previously in Episode 165 Mistress Fyre and Episode 190 Cum Unity). And here is a pic of the award we presented to her:

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Then it was time to get the show proper, and we did something completely different this time. You are just going to have to have a listen to believe it!

Here is to another 200 episodes!

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Puppy Hood Custom Colors.

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Episode 199 – Yes Means Anal

 

With so much in the news lately about consent, we thought we would tackle this often misunderstood and very touchy subject!

Show Notes

News Links

Topics

  • What is consent
  • How do you get it
  • When are you not getting
  • How much do kinksters thing about consent
  • Playing with the blurred lines

About Our Guests

It is just Sparky & DFT this time.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Puppy Hood Custom Colors.

 

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Episode 198 – Tykables

Long time friend of the show suggested that we talk with a friend of his, Tod from Tykables. If you are not familiar with Tykables, you should go to their website: https://tykables.com/

They have a wide range of items for ABDL’s out there, such as diapers, onsies, jeans, and much more. Tod is a great guy that we really enjoyed getting to know, and if you are a friend of any ABDL you are going to find great gifts here. Our favorite are the black and yellow diapers, they are pretty damn hot! !

Show Notes

News Links

Topics

  • Listener Letter #1 – Past attendee to a podcast has a question about chastity
  • Listener Letter #2 – Past guest gives some info about infection rates and the relation to PREP
  • ABDLs and their growth in the community
  • Crossover with other fetishes and kinks

About Our Guests

We at Tykables agree that we must all grow old, but we maintain that growing up is optional. We bring to market items from our and your childhood in adult sizes. Starting with where it all began, diapers.

We are an adult baby owned company that strives to bring the best adult baby diapers and adult baby products to the market.  We are always thinking of new products that will better suit the adult baby and diaper lover ABDL market.  Our products are top quality and sold at affordable prices. We ship our products in discreet packaging via the most economical, yet fastest way possible.

We incorporated on February 14, 2014.  September 2014 our first product, the Waddler went on sale at Folsom Street Fair. We were the first and still only ABDL company to attend Folsom Street Fair.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Blackout Gas Mask.

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Episode 197 – Got it Covered

Description of Show

Don’t be silly, wrap your willy! Today’s show is all about condoms! We talk about how condoms are received by the community, how they impact play and what we can do to improve our safe sex practices.

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Growing up in a condom
  • Who’s bare? Why?

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

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This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Heavy Duty Sleeveless Tee – $129.95.

 

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Episode 196 – Savage Rebroadcast

Hey all, this is actually a rebroadcast of the first episode we had with Dan Savage. You see recently both Daddy Tony & Sparky work on the Savage Lovecast to help answer some kink related questions! You can find that episode at: http://www.savagelovecast.com/episodes/527

We thought we would repost the episode when he was one with us way back when and hope you don’t notice the difference in the audio quality (I still hate those old mics, grrrrr).

And we will be back soon with some great episode!


 

When we asked Dan Savage  to join us on the show, we were floored when he said yes! He joined us for our regular Friday night recording to do a 2 hour show. We talked to him about how he first got started with his column as well as his new book! (Find Dan’s Book, American Savage, on Amazon)

His book talks about Faith, Sex, Love and Politics, so we came up questions about each one of those topics to pose to Dan. And in Part 2 we will have some questions from listeners who wanted to ask Dan some advice questions. We also get a chance to talk to him about the It Gets Better Project.

We also mention on the show Tynan Fox’s current effort to open an inclusive coffee shop using a kickstarter, you can find out more about it at: http://www.tynanfox.com/2013/08/-latte.html.

Show Notes

 In the News

About Our Guest

Dan Savage is a sex advice columnist, activist, author, and podcaster from Seattle. Listen to his podcast The Savage Lovecast and read his writing on The Stranger at The Savage Love and SLOG.

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Ungagged Episode 18 – Just the Tip

The Puppies are joined by the very fun and adorable Martini from Chicago, and they launch into a big discussion about Foreskin Restoration. Martini has talked with Drew over time about the subject. And one of the fun ways we explore it is because Mikey hasn’t really thought much about restoring of foreskins on guys, so we are exploring the subject from the eyes of a newbie!

This is a fun way to jump into this grown fascination so many guys are picking up!

Show Notes

Topics

  • We play a game of Fortunately/Unfortunately, you won’t believe this one
  • Foreskin Restoration
    • Why do men do this?
    • What was Martini’s experience with it and why he started it
    • Why is it so prevalent to be cut, especially in the USA
    • The scent of a dick! YUM!
  • How restoration works
    • Is it even possible?
    • Is it painful to do?
    • Success stories?
    • Devices that are available
  • The movements to stop circumcision

Show Links

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Cone of Shame.

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Episode 195 – Oh Hell No

Nothing more to say today other than this episode is all about the aftermath.

Hold on to your butts!

 

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Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Shoulder to Wrist Restraints.

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Episode 194 – Bad Rep

Today we explore reputation in the kink community, sorting the gossip from the fact, building good standing yourself and ways that it impacts our thoughts and feelings. We discuss how do you treat people’s information, stories and facts shared with you.

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Trump… this time for your feet
  • What’s the difference between reputation and style conflicts
  • How to suss out someone’s reputation
  • What to share and how to share it
  • Fact checking
  • Things and people change

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Japanese Clover Nipple Clamps

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Episode 193 – Sister Roma

Description of Show

Porn, prevention, and propositions – OH MY!  Today Sparky and Daddy Tony talk with their special guest Sister Roma from the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence all about being a sister, the works that they have done in the past and currently, and Prop. 60 in California, and the reasons why it would be disastrous for both the porn industry and safety across the board!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Sisters are doin’ it for themselves!  Oh, and the community.
  • #MyNameIs – Facebook and identities
  • Prop 60 – The hidden possibilities behind the language
  • Porn and prevention – how they go hand in hand

About Our Guest

January 2017 will mark Roma’s 30th year as one of the most active and widely recognized Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, dedicating more than half her life to community service, activism and fundraising. Roma can be found hosting events from coast to coast and around the globe. Check her out online on YouTube and all social media platforms @SisterRoma.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Long Worm – Square Peg – $139.95.

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