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Episode 192 – Right Brain, Left Ball

Creativity and stuff!  Sparky and Daddy Tony chat up our guests Brutus and K0mpy all about being creative, from getting started to finding continuing inspiration, learn about how these two creative pups come up with awesome home-solutions to common kinkster problems, and how they break down challenges!

Show Notes

News

Topic: Creativity

  • Different types of creativity – play is absolutely included!
  • Improvisation, adaptabality, and finding solutions
  • You are creative, learn to embrace it!
  • Copying isn’t always a bad thing

About our Guests
Brutus: @thatdrewlion
K0mpy: @k0mpy

About Kompy: Starting in the Minneapolis kink and party scenes, K0mpy Dog found his way into puppy through the furry community. He frequently returns to the mid-west to support events and spread the good word of pup.

In Seattle, K0mpy brings his experience as a promoter, programmer, and art major to the SEAPAH board of directors. In his free time, he is an amateur latex clothing designer and photographer.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Patrol Gloves!

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Ungagged Episode 16 – Far Away Play

The Puppies are back again with another episode to help all you kinksters out there! This time they are tackling the subject of long distance relationships. Let’s face it, it is a real challenge sometimes to find the person that is going to match all your kinks. There are a great many of us out there that rely on having a relationship is our play buddies, friends, and collared partners over longer and longer distances.

Having an online relationship is can be a challenge for anyone, but rewarding at the same time. The puppies talk about some ways to deal with having a long distance relationship as well as some ways to ensure it is healthy for both of you.

 

Show Notes

Topics

  • It’s back, kids, that’s right it is time for THE BEST OF CRAIGLIST
  • Long Distance Relationships
    • Distance is a relative term
    • Actual Relationships online
    • Expectations and Fantasy V. Reality
    • Experiences as a gay
    • Experiences as a boy
    • Experiences as a Sir
    • Over vs. under communication
    • Types of orders
    • Communication without exaggeration
    • Pro/Cons

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Fuckgear Racer Vest .

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Episode 191 – Semper Fido

Today we talk to the illustrious and amazing Pup Scuff Northwest Puppy 2017 and International Puppy of the year 2016. We explore his approach to pup-play and inspiring kink journey overcoming deep life challenges. We discuss how to approach the puppy community for newbies.

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Poop Horoscopes
  • Overcoming life challenges
  • Balancing life and kink
  • Finding your place in the community

About Our Guests

Skuff Pup is an Arkansas native who moved to Seattle 7 years ago after an 11 year career as an active Marine. He started his kink journey within the ab/Dl community over 15 years ago. This led him to the furry fandom which ultimately found its way to the pup and leather communities.

Skuff has been active within the leather and pup community in Seattle for many years, and became a part of the board for SEA-PAH two years ago, and is currently the Puppy relations for SEA-PAH.

Skuff is the 2016 international Puppy of the year and the 2017 Northwest Puppy title holder.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the FuckGear Chaps

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Episode 190 – Cum Unity

This show is on Fyre – MoonFyre that is!  Kinky coffee shop and dungeon owner Mistress PixieFyre is here with Sparky and Daddy Tony to talk all about being in this kah-razy cum-unity that we love!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Tribe of sexual beings
    • Balance between work/support and the play that we do
    • We work hard and we play hard
  • What is community?
    • Who are they and who are they not?
  • Continuity of tradition
    • While allowing for new traditions
  • When real life happens
    • Survival Mode!
  • How to get into a community from the outside
  • Are online communities real?

About Our Guests

  • Mistress Pixie Fyre is the Owner and Founder of the well known House of Fyre based in Portland, Oregon. After over a decade of work as a Victim’s Advocate, her skills as an educator and speaker have become as well known as her House. When not hosting Fetish Events or teaching workshops, she proudly and openly shares her experiences and skills with her local community commonly focused on Protocol and “newbie” training for those new to the BDSM lifestyle.Mistress Pixie provides an abundance of resources to those around her and believes in making her community stronger through education and advocacy. Her passion for BDSM, pet play and Power Exchange relationships are as dynamic as her interactive classes and she prides herself in her Community work. While often called “Hell in High Heels,” she embodies laughter and joy not often found in FemDommes.She hosts a monthly workshop each month, which can be found at houseoffyre.com/store and has been a welcomed presenter for the Portland Leather Alliance, KinkFest, the BDSM Writer’s Convention, the PDX League of Gentleman, International Puppy Contest and many more.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Mr. S Leather — Electro Butt Club by MyStim. – $199.95

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Episode 189 – So Campy

Show Notes

The entire NoSafeWord crew went up to the awesome SEAPAH event called Camp K9. This now 3rd annual event has grown huge and its a lot of fun, and we break it all down for you. You got to hear these crazy stories from this year!

In the News

 

 

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode is sponsored by Mr. S Leather in San Francisco:

For this episode, we feature:

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Ungagged Episode 15 – Headspace Healing

Our mad scientist puppies have been up to a lot of projects, and thinking about so much more, using the very latest technologies, like 3d printing and VR. They are always researching the latest things that they can come up with create even better bondage scenes!

Show Notes

Topics

  • Talking about future tech and kink!
    • NovaPro Glasses
    • Estim/ErosTek
    • VR
    • Dating Apps
    • Crowd Funding
  • Bad Scenes
    • Every situation is unique
    • Headspace problems
    • Abuse problems
    • Anticipation of failure versus success
    • Comfort versus communication
    • Frustration and emotion in scene
      • Top down frustration
      • sub up frustration

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Leather Bar Vest .

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Episode 188 – It’s whatever the fuck you want! Part 2

Ever wonder why some people just automatically grab your butt when they first meet you?  What’s cool and not cool when it comes to assuming what people are into?  Sparky and Daddy talk all about perceptions of kink, and how to check your ass-umptons at the door!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Assumptions of kink!  Just cause I like A doesn’t mean I like B and C
  • Just because I am into being treated rough, doesn’t mean I want to be treated rough by you.
  • Similarly just because I am into something, doesn’t mean I am into it right now (flogging, piss play)
  • People who aere into chastity are much more gung-ho about chastity than those who are not into chastity (Bandwagon Fallacy)
  • Experience doesn’t trump facts.  It’s possible for a top to have been doing it wrong for a long time.
  • Because bad things happen to good people, doesn’t mean that you can’t have fun if you take precautions and educate yourself. Don’t be afraid of the boogie man
  • Don’t assume that because a person got off a certain way means they are going to every time. What you did to get them off may not be what they got off on.
  • Personal incredulity – Your own personal dislike or disgust to another’s kink isn’t really relevant on how the kink is a good choice for them or not. The only measure should be if  it is safe and doesn’t harm others.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Deluxe Mr. S Ball Gag.

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Episode 187 – It’s Whatever The Fuck You Want

In The Audience!

Russ and Will
Brutus
Bndgkid
Damien

Show Notes

Listener Letter! Newbie in Chicago!

In the News

Topic – Platitudes and Kink

  • Prime directive – non-interference policy.
  • Separating online fantasy from reality.
  • Revisiting collar etiquette.
  • Emotions!  Structure in a very unstructured world.
  • Ebbs and flows – the community is not “dying”
  • HBO presents fucking Donald Trump with a barb-wire strap-on.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode is sponsored by Mr. S Leather in San Francisco:

For this episode, we feature:

Adjustable Steel Spreader Bar

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Episode 186 – Bootblack Dream Team

We talk to Erick and Meghan today about their leather journeys. We answer what bootblacking is all about. Talk about the energy exchange of bootblacking. Its our first show back from the recording break people… please bear with us…

Show Notes

Topics

  • We’re back!!
  • Sparky got laid in Orlando and doesn’t want to talk about it
  • Michigan’s sexual education event Sinergymi
  • Our guests personal bootblack journeys
  • Alaska Center for Alternative Lifestyles
  • Bootblacks status in the leather contest circuit
  • Things degrade quickly

About Our Guests

Erick Joseph, International Mr. Bootblack 2016

Erick Joseph is proud to have served the community as the first ever Alaska State Bootblack and now currently as International Mr. Bootblack 2016! His passion for bootblacking stems from his discovery of all things leather at the Alaska Center for Alternative Lifestyles located in downtown Anchorage, Alaska. For Erick, bootblacking is a fulfilling form of service to his community, as well as a way of helping others preserve the positive energy of their leathers. Most importantly, he enjoys the sexiness and connection that a good boot scene can encompass.

Erick’s goal throughout his title year as Alaska State Bootblack had been to cultivate the bootblack community in his home state by planting seeds of education while blacking at events from dungeon parties to steam punk conventions. In addition, he has bootblacked at every Imperial Court of All Alaska event he was invited to! As IMBB his goal is to bring a positive and FUN face to International Mr. Bootblack while having hot scenes in and out of the stands!

Erick enjoys traveling, meeting others, and creating bonds with community members for future endeavors. He describes himself as a dedicated, hardworking, loyal, and FUN Bootblack with a special interest in service and blacking from the lap.

He invites EVERYONE to come have a FUN year with him and Tigger as they spread the word of IMBB and IML across the world

Meghan Bootblack, International Ms. Bootblack 2016

Meghan is proud to represent her community as International Ms Bootblack 2016.

Since 2012 she’s been active in her local Kink and Leather communities, blacking regularly at The Barracks, ReMix and fundraisers throughout her region. At home, Meghan runs a Boot Lab for new and existing bootblacks in the area. She also serves as Treasurer for Mr. Friendly: Team Louisville, and is a full member of Titans of the Midwest.

Meghan seeks to create an experience in her chair that not only honors and worships your Leather, but also your journey. Bootblacking gives her the space to define her ideas of sexual expression and spirituality in ways that resonate deeply.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Electro Cock Cage 2.0.

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Ungagged Episode 14 – The Third Hole

Ever heard the term Sounding and not know what it was? Now is the time to find out! The puppies are going to talk about Pee Hole Stuffing. What are the risks and how do you do it safely, and how to do you have a fun time with it. So crab a pipe cleaner, stuff yourself and listen up!

(the NoSafeWord legal department wants to remind everyone, don’t stuff a pipe cleaner up your dick hole. Not a good idea. The person writing this shit has lost his mind)

Show Notes

Topics

  • Follow up on the pup headspace discussion that was discussed on the show we did called Episode 175: Pup Identity
  • Pee Hole Stuffing!
    • Mikey has only done it a few time, Brutus however…
    • What is sounding?
    • Why is it fun?
    • Potential risks
    • What kind of sounds should you work with?
    • Penis Sphincters!
    • Catheter play?
    • Do Not Lose the Count!
    • Remember, there are risk involved, just like everything. Be careful, and have fun with it!

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Manetic Ball Stretcher .

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Episode 185 – YesSafeWord

It’s opposite day!  Today the NoSafeWord crew discusses all things safeword related, from how we came up with the name of the show, what our favorites are, when to use them, and why they are important!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Safe Word doesn’t mean ‘go to town’
  • Not inherently good or bad – they just ‘are’
  • Daddy: Goal is to not need the safeword
  • Sparky: Uses communication as the main method
  • Why named the show ‘NoSafeWord’?
    • Get to the point where you don’t need to have one.
    • Enough education, enough knowledge, enough communication
    • Sometimes you can’t say the safeword…
  • Sometimes even in relationships – may need for new stuff…
  • Mikey is a tight ass.  Great butt.  Huuge.  I have the best butt, everyone says so.
  • May help for new people – feel more safe, secure.
  • Don’t want to disappoint top – may not even use it as unsure of what will happen
  • Communication early is important – and keeping communication going during is Sparky’s approach.
  • Some tops get very intense, safewords are very important in those types of scenes.
    • If Sparky was going to get whipped, he would definitely want a safeword.
      • Daddy won’t give him one if he does it.
  • Meeting a stranger?  Good time to have a safeword agreed upon.  Dialog and communication in new relationships is very important and will only make for a better experience for everyone involved :)
  • Every not a great idea?
    • Sparky: Safeword was requested, he specifically denied.  This is why: Sparky had to specifically draw everything out of him, wanted to try new things in scene and get immediate results from the sub.
    • Used as a ‘shield’ sometimes – I won’t every do anything without a safeword – make sure you aren’t crazy.
  • Keep in mind, a safe word is not magic – if a top wants to do harm, he can.
  • LPT: tie down the feet to make it harder for the sub to cum
  • Favorite safewords:
    • Rootabega – neighbor was getting things stuck up his butt, and had to guess the item
    • Green/Yellow/Red – standard, though green light doesn’t need to be said, could mean go harder though
  • Some tops – red light is the goal
  • Sparky: one safeword he used was ‘Take me to the fucking airport right now’
  • Electro isn’t for every top…
  • Idea behind safeword is something that is uncommon – don’t use common words
    • ‘Blood’
    • ‘Supercalifragilisticexpilallidocious’
    • ‘No’, ‘Stop’, Aaaaa’, etc.  No is not is safeword.
  • Safewords have a place – but do not replace communication, don’t think this is a shortcut for talking with a top on what you are into, what you can/can’t do, and what you are interested in and why.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Fetters Strap Face Cage.

Mr. S Leather — Fetters Strap Face Cage

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Ungagged Episode 13 – Flipbook Families

Show Notes

Topics

  • General Kink Trivia Game
    • Damien versus Drew
  • Managing Poly Relationships
    • Why would you want to go poly
    • Creating new experiences
    • What are the challenges of a poly relationship
      • Communication
      • Roles & Labels
      • Moods
    • Monogomy and jealousy
    • Adding new people to the Polycule
    • Removing people from the Polycule

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Howler Muzzle Light Gray.

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Episode 184 – Listening to the Listeners

Daddy Tony and Sparky open up the mailbag this week to talk about your listener letters!  After busting a load to the dick pics sent in by our awesome listeners, Sparky and Daddy get around to answering your questions about everything from rubber gear, loud sex, and some awesome throwbacks to some earlier episodes!

Show Notes

In the News

Topic – Listener Letters!

  • Is there non-latex rubber gear?
  • CAN you be as loud as the hell you want when you’re making love?!
  • What does undetectable actually mean and does that mean unsafe sex is OK?
  • OMG, we’ve been discovered!!  It’s happening for us!!
  • Dealing with body changes and rocking your own energy! (and you owe us a dick pic, Trekboy008!)

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the The Handler Collar and Gag!.

Mr. S Leather — The Handler Collar & Gag

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Episode 183 – Piss Play

The indomitable Pup Nitro joins us in the shower this week for an episode answering your questions on piss play. Get wet with us on this episode and prepare to guzzle down some knowledge!

Show Notes

Topics

About our Guest

Bryson “Pup Nitro” Hankinson
International Leatherboy 2011

In 2006, he moved to Atlanta where he met Sir Alan Penrod and began to discover his “Leather Heart”.  Nearly a year later he earned his collar and was given his pup name, “NITRO” (Needs Intense Torture to Reach Orgasm).  Nitro is currently the President of Panther L/L, and is a Co-Founder of the Hotlanta Rubber and Gear Club. He is the co-owner of Southeast Black and Blue, LLC, and co-producer of Atlanta Leather Pride. He has held the titles of Mr. Hotlanta Rubber 2008, Southeast Leatherboy 2011, and International Leatherboy 2011. Nitro teaches BDSM and Leather Lifestyle classes on a variety of topics and enjoys any play involving tight bondage, mummification, rubber/latex, electricity, cbt, and watersports. He also serves as a mentor to other boys, helping them find their voice within our beautifully diverse leather community.

Nitro has been with us a whole lot before, in Episode 138, Episode 130Episode 98, Episode 80Episode 62, and Episode 10.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Daddy’s Belt!

Mr. S Leather — Daddy’s Belt — $62.95

 

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