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Ungagged Episode 07 – The One Hit Wonder

The goods. Junk. Beans and franks. Your pride and joy. Did you know that you can do mean things to them? And for many of us, it feels so good. The Ungagged puppies talk about CBT – Cock and Ball Torture. If you’ve been curious about roughing up your junk, this is the episode for you.

Show Notes

  • 100,000 Orgasm Pyramid

Topics

  • What is CBT?
  • How the puppies discovered they are into CBT.
  • Communicate
  • How to go about getting into it the first time.
  • Don’t forget that the cock is just as much a part of CBT as the balls are. You may enjoy your cock roughed up even if you don’t like anything on your nuts. So don’t say “No CBT” when negotiating.
  • Types
    • Tugging/pulling
    • Squeezing
    • Impact play – Cock or balls
    • Piercing – Play piercing; cock or balls
    • Circulation play – Balls mostly, but can be done on cock, too. This is serious play. Be sure you and the top know what you’re doing.
    • Clothespins
    • Surface or skin play
    • Stuffing things into your dick
    • Electrical stimulation
  • Aftercare

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature T-SHIRTS! Here are some favorites:

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Episode 168 – Another Fucking Rubbout Show

Hey boys! Guess what??? Rubbout 25 is coming up! (Bet you didn’t know that, huh?) About a month-and-a-half from now. Reid is one of the main organizers (producer, I think is his title) so he comes to tell us about this year’s event. You should come join us! We’re planning to record an episode of the NoSafeWord Show at Rubbout.

Here’s the web site with all of the details.

Show Notes

Douchepickle of the Week

  • Idiots in the bar who can’t keep their hands to themselves

In the News

Topics

  • What is Rubbout?
  • Quick rundown of the weekend
  • Come play with us!
  • Community building
  • What is rubber about? The elevator pitch.
  • Dealing with the gays in their natural environment when we’re there with rubber and fetish gear.
  • IML memories
  • Watersports party
  • Rubber for gay men vs. rubber for straight men. Is it different?

About Our Guest

Reid has been involved in rubber and kink for 17 years. He moved to Vancouver from Calgary in 2009 while he still held the Mr. Rubber Calgary title, and instantly became involved in the rubber and leather community in Vancouver, continuing the work he started in Calgary. He has been organizing Rubbout since the 20th anniversary in 2010 when Mitch Kenyon passed the torch to Doug, Rob, and Reid. He became Mr. West Coast Rubber in 2010 and ran for Mister International Rubber in the same year. In his 5th year organizing Rubbout, Reid has found a growing and integrated local community of gay perverts — in rubber, leather, puppy, and other forms — that are supportive of a growing interest in gear and events and groups that bring these communities together. Never shy to share his knowledge and gear, he has found a varied group of young men craving experience in bondage, kink and fetish.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Head Harness Muzzle by Fetters USA.

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Episode 167 – Dan Savage Part 2

In our last episode, Dan Savage joined us for a hilarious discussion. We had so much fun talking with him that we talked and talked and talked. So we split it up into two episodes. (We really try not to tax your endurance too much. We realize that we’re good in small doses.)

Headphones and potty breaks. That’s what we devolve into. So enjoy the rest of our conversation with Dan!

Show Notes

Topics

  • Leather and kink.
  • Puppy play and kinks that we just don’t get.
  • Religion, BDSM, and kink.

About Our Guest

Dan Savage is a sex advice columnist, activist, author, and podcaster from Seattle. Listen to his podcast The Savage Lovecast and read his writing on The Stranger at The Savage Love and SLOG.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Stinger Whip.

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Episode 166 – Dan Savage Part 1

Our resident sex advice podcaster and columnist and fellow kinkster Dan Savage returns to share his insight and funny thoughts on a variety of topics. He even answers some of the letters our listeners sent to the crew, all from the top of his head. He has a hard time concentrating when handed the controls of a dick stroking machine running on a sexy naked boy tied up on the bondage table while we recorded, too. Lots of laughs and advice in this one!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

About Our Guest

Dan Savage is a sex advice columnist, activist, author, and podcaster from Seattle. Listen to his podcast The Savage Lovecast and read his writing on The Stranger at The Savage Love and SLOG.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Fetters Bondage Suit.

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Episode 165 – Mistress Fyre

Mistress Pixie Fyre joins us from down the road in Portland. She is the head of a house of herself and slaves, subs, and pups. She is also planning to open a new café in Portland that will include dungeon and play spaces as well as D/s protocol interwoven into the business, along with educational opportunities for people to learn more. She talks about all of this and more.

You can check out all of the various fundraisers for Mistress Fyre on her web site.

Show Notes

Douchepickle of the Week

  • Sarah Palin

In the News

Topics

  • Plans for Portland’s Kinky Café
    • A nice blend of café, D/s, education, and community building
  • Fundraising for the café
  • What’s high protocol? How will that fit into the café?
  • How will the café fit into the broader community?
  • Mistress Fyre’s house
  • Levels of protocol in various parts of life
  • Heterosexual, pansexual, bisexual, homosexual communities

About Our Guest

Beautiful, smart, commanding and wonderfully sadistic. Mistress Pixie Fyre is the Founder of the House of Fyre and a well-respected Domme in the Portland, Oregon community. She is bringing a new level of elegance to the BDSM world one pair of heels at a time!

How you can find Mistress Fyre:

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Leather Sailor Front Apron.

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(That second pic doesn’t really display the leather apron, but don’t you agree that’s a nice ass?)

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Episode 164 – A Transman Walks into a Leather Bar…

Our transgendered brothers are fierce! Have you ever seen one of them wield a whip or a strop? Don’t mess with ’em! But they’re also just as kind-hearted and fun to be around. And they add so much to the tapestry of kinky gay life.

Mitch and Jonas join us to talk about being a transman in the kink community. They have some great things to share with us.

Show Notes

Douchepickle of the Week

  • Kim D***s and Jim Jordan

In the News

Topics

  • Mitch’s background
  • Jonas’s background
  • How being kinky affects gender identity
  • Acceptance (or lack of acceptance) of trans men
  • Accidentally using wrong pronouns
  • Personal safety
  • Awkward questions

About Our Guests

Jonas is a leather boy who has been in the community for over 15 years.  He came up through the women’s community in Berlin, Germany, before he moved to San Francisco to be with his now husband and Sir, Mitchel.  After moving to Seattle almost 8 years ago, he connected to the men’s community there, joined SML, and later also Sbol, where he is now president. He is also proud boy to Miss Becca, WA Bootblack 2014. He is out as trans, and feels he is eternally trying to figure out how to pick up all those hot Daddies out there .

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Wolf Muzzle. It comes in both white and gray.

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Episode 163 – To Sir with Love

Yesterday, we lost a dear friend and member of our family when Sir Alan Penrod passed away suddenly. He was a friendly sexy leatherman who gave much of himself to the leather community, both in Atlanta and abroad. Our hearts go out to his family, Nitro and David.

Godspeed, Sir Alan.

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Episode 162 – I Could Give a Fuck Part 1

My little black swans! You will all get this.

We welcome back Allena to the podcast. She opens up with us about a topic that is very personal. And she shows us how we can deal with serious life-changing events with our kink friends.

Show Notes

Douchepickle of the Week

  • Y’all Qaeda

In the News

Topics

  • Breast cancer
  • Treatment
  • Libido
  • Support network

About Our Guest

Allena Gabosch served as Executive Director of the Center for Sex Positive Culture since its founding in 1999 until her semi-retirement in January 2015. She is currently the Development Director for CSPC. She has been active in the sex positive movement practically from its beginning, and says she’s “busy creating sex positive culture on a daily basis!” Allena has been producing educational and social events for the sex positive community since 1990. She co-owned and ran Beyond the Edge Cafe in the mid-1990s, providing a modest space for parties and workshops, until they closed their doors in 1999. It was then that Jim Duvall approached her with the idea of the Center and asked her to be its Executive Director.

She is a frequent speaker on many sex positive subjects at colleges and conferences around the United States and Canada, with an emphasis on BDSM and polyamory. In addition, she was the Festival Producer for the Seattle Erotic Art Festival. She is a past board member of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. In the Spring of 2008, Allena was appointed to the Seattle Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Commission. Allena is a bisexual, poly switch and considers herself extremely blessed as she has a rich and full poly life, with many amazing and loving people in her “polycule”. In her less than mundane non-kinky life, she is active in Landmark Education, loves theater, good food, walking around Seattle and hopes to run for Seattle City Council in a few years.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature Hemp Rope from Twisted Monk.

Mr. S also has two of Monk’s starter packs of rope. Starter Pack 1 and Starter Pack 2.

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Ungagged Episode 06 – One Notch Tighter

Bondage. Bondage, bondage, bondage. Whoops. Dick’s getting hard now. Yeah, so that’s why I enjoy doing it. Very horny. On this episode of Ungagged, the puppies talk about bondage. From the sub-getting-tied-up-perspective, naturally. So strap yourselves in, it’s going to be a cozy fun ride.

Show Notes

Topics

  • Why do we like bondage? (Hint: It involves boners.)
  • How do you get into it? What equipment do you need?
  • Geared? Clothed? Naked?
  • Stepping up your game
  • Self-bondage
  • Safety tips
  • Favorite bondage gear
  • Fun places to find fun gear and furniture

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Essential Wrist & Ankle Restraints.

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Episode 161 – Into Older? It Depends.

The gay community struggles with the issue of age. There are a lot of guys who have strict age limits on the men they will socialize with and the guys they’ll have sex or play with. Others of us will often make snap judgments based on the age listed in a man’s profile online. Some of these limitations are insultingly superficial; some are necessary to avoid a creepy factor or prison time. Most of these limitations affect everyone’s self-esteem, whether we realize it or not.

On this episode, Daddy Tony and Sparky explore some of these issues both with the gay community in general and with kinksters and BDSM practitioners specifically.

Show Notes

Douchepickle of the Week

  • Martin Shkreli

In the News

Topic

  • How are things different in the kink and play scenes as you age?
  • When limiting yourself to only guys of certain age, you’re missing out on potential mindblowing connections.
  • Sometimes age limits are necessary — for instance, to avoid minors.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. The crew of the NoSafeWord Show would like to give a big thank you to the folks at Mr. S Leather for all of the support that they have given us over the past two years. Please look at their latest newsletter, get yourself some awesome gear, and be sure to let them know that you appreciate their sponsorship of the NoSafeWord Show.

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Ep 5 – Just One More Inch

Ha! You thought this episode was going to be about dick size, didn’t you? From the title, there. Nope! This one’s all about … butt play! Brutus and Mikey talk with Ansel about the basics of ass play. Oh, and prehensile penises.

Show Notes

Games

  • Would You Rather?
  • Word Association

Topics

  • Levels of anal play
  • Preparation
    • Diet
    • Cleanout
    • Lube
    • Gloves
    • Toys
    • Pee first (This is about butt play not watersports, boys.)
  • The big event
    • Misconceptions
    • Relax
    • Feelings
    • Size
  • Aftercare
    • Balms
    • Diet
  • Problems
    • Fissure
    • Hemorrhoids

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Egg Plug in SuperSoft Bronze by Square Peg.

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Episode 158 – Another Match Game

Well, folks. You’ve heard the NoSafeWord version of Match Game before. That’s right! We’re doing another round of wacky questions about current topics. Don’t want to miss this.

Oh, and Pup Debit doesn’t understand the question.

Show Notes

In the News

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Leather Sleeveless Hoodie.

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Ungagged Episode 04 – The Devil Is in the Details

Most of us start exploring BDSM, domination, and submission on the sub side of the equation. One of the things we find very early is that there seem to be a lot of rules about how one should or shouldn’t behave. What kinds of things are expected from us when we haven’t learned those rules or expectations? Bndgkid and Brutus talk about the most prevalent rules and expectations to help you navigate.

Show Notes

Games

  • Steakhouse or gay bar?
  • Gay Bondage Porn Star or Country Music Singer?

Topics

  • Rules for how a boy or sub should act
  • Rules for other subs can be (and probably are) different than your rules.
  • Ask before touching or interacting
  • Hanky code
  • Levels of protocol in differing situations

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Unit X-Stretch and CockSling 2.0, both by Oxballs.

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Ungagged Episode 03 – I Didn’t Sign Up for This

Are submissive guys (and gals) supposed to just accept whatever they’re told to do by a dominant? There are some kinky folks who think so, both doms and subs. That is not a very healthy way to approach something that is supposed to be fun for everyone involved. During this episode of Ungagged, the puppies talk about how to recognize when someone is either a bad dominant or is just not your type of dominant, as well as how to figure things out when in a play scene and things go wrong.

Show Notes

Topics

  • Puppynight!!!
  • How can we tell when a guy is a “bad” dominant?
  • Maybe “bad” doesn’t mean they’re actually bad. Maybe we’re just not a good fit.
  • How can you deal with a situation with a bad dominant or something that you’re not comfortable with?
  • Communication is key
  • Safety net
  • Long-distance relationships

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Head Trip Kit by Fetters USA.

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