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Episode 186 – Bootblack Dream Team

We talk to Erick and Meghan today about their leather journeys. We answer what bootblacking is all about. Talk about the energy exchange of bootblacking. Its our first show back from the recording break people… please bear with us…

Show Notes

Topics

  • We’re back!!
  • Sparky got laid in Orlando and doesn’t want to talk about it
  • Michigan’s sexual education event Sinergymi
  • Our guests personal bootblack journeys
  • Alaska Center for Alternative Lifestyles
  • Bootblacks status in the leather contest circuit
  • Things degrade quickly

About Our Guests

Erick Joseph, International Mr. Bootblack 2016

Erick Joseph is proud to have served the community as the first ever Alaska State Bootblack and now currently as International Mr. Bootblack 2016! His passion for bootblacking stems from his discovery of all things leather at the Alaska Center for Alternative Lifestyles located in downtown Anchorage, Alaska. For Erick, bootblacking is a fulfilling form of service to his community, as well as a way of helping others preserve the positive energy of their leathers. Most importantly, he enjoys the sexiness and connection that a good boot scene can encompass.

Erick’s goal throughout his title year as Alaska State Bootblack had been to cultivate the bootblack community in his home state by planting seeds of education while blacking at events from dungeon parties to steam punk conventions. In addition, he has bootblacked at every Imperial Court of All Alaska event he was invited to! As IMBB his goal is to bring a positive and FUN face to International Mr. Bootblack while having hot scenes in and out of the stands!

Erick enjoys traveling, meeting others, and creating bonds with community members for future endeavors. He describes himself as a dedicated, hardworking, loyal, and FUN Bootblack with a special interest in service and blacking from the lap.

He invites EVERYONE to come have a FUN year with him and Tigger as they spread the word of IMBB and IML across the world

Meghan Bootblack, International Ms. Bootblack 2016

Meghan is proud to represent her community as International Ms Bootblack 2016.

Since 2012 she’s been active in her local Kink and Leather communities, blacking regularly at The Barracks, ReMix and fundraisers throughout her region. At home, Meghan runs a Boot Lab for new and existing bootblacks in the area. She also serves as Treasurer for Mr. Friendly: Team Louisville, and is a full member of Titans of the Midwest.

Meghan seeks to create an experience in her chair that not only honors and worships your Leather, but also your journey. Bootblacking gives her the space to define her ideas of sexual expression and spirituality in ways that resonate deeply.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Electro Cock Cage 2.0.

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Ungagged Episode 14 – The Third Hole

Ever heard the term Sounding and not know what it was? Now is the time to find out! The puppies are going to talk about Pee Hole Stuffing. What are the risks and how do you do it safely, and how to do you have a fun time with it. So crab a pipe cleaner, stuff yourself and listen up!

(the NoSafeWord legal department wants to remind everyone, don’t stuff a pipe cleaner up your dick hole. Not a good idea. The person writing this shit has lost his mind)

Show Notes

Topics

  • Follow up on the pup headspace discussion that was discussed on the show we did called Episode 175: Pup Identity
  • Pee Hole Stuffing!
    • Mikey has only done it a few time, Brutus however…
    • What is sounding?
    • Why is it fun?
    • Potential risks
    • What kind of sounds should you work with?
    • Penis Sphincters!
    • Catheter play?
    • Do Not Lose the Count!
    • Remember, there are risk involved, just like everything. Be careful, and have fun with it!

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Manetic Ball Stretcher .

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Episode 185 – YesSafeWord

It’s opposite day!  Today the NoSafeWord crew discusses all things safeword related, from how we came up with the name of the show, what our favorites are, when to use them, and why they are important!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Safe Word doesn’t mean ‘go to town’
  • Not inherently good or bad – they just ‘are’
  • Daddy: Goal is to not need the safeword
  • Sparky: Uses communication as the main method
  • Why named the show ‘NoSafeWord’?
    • Get to the point where you don’t need to have one.
    • Enough education, enough knowledge, enough communication
    • Sometimes you can’t say the safeword…
  • Sometimes even in relationships – may need for new stuff…
  • Mikey is a tight ass.  Great butt.  Huuge.  I have the best butt, everyone says so.
  • May help for new people – feel more safe, secure.
  • Don’t want to disappoint top – may not even use it as unsure of what will happen
  • Communication early is important – and keeping communication going during is Sparky’s approach.
  • Some tops get very intense, safewords are very important in those types of scenes.
    • If Sparky was going to get whipped, he would definitely want a safeword.
      • Daddy won’t give him one if he does it.
  • Meeting a stranger?  Good time to have a safeword agreed upon.  Dialog and communication in new relationships is very important and will only make for a better experience for everyone involved :)
  • Every not a great idea?
    • Sparky: Safeword was requested, he specifically denied.  This is why: Sparky had to specifically draw everything out of him, wanted to try new things in scene and get immediate results from the sub.
    • Used as a ‘shield’ sometimes – I won’t every do anything without a safeword – make sure you aren’t crazy.
  • Keep in mind, a safe word is not magic – if a top wants to do harm, he can.
  • LPT: tie down the feet to make it harder for the sub to cum
  • Favorite safewords:
    • Rootabega – neighbor was getting things stuck up his butt, and had to guess the item
    • Green/Yellow/Red – standard, though green light doesn’t need to be said, could mean go harder though
  • Some tops – red light is the goal
  • Sparky: one safeword he used was ‘Take me to the fucking airport right now’
  • Electro isn’t for every top…
  • Idea behind safeword is something that is uncommon – don’t use common words
    • ‘Blood’
    • ‘Supercalifragilisticexpilallidocious’
    • ‘No’, ‘Stop’, Aaaaa’, etc.  No is not is safeword.
  • Safewords have a place – but do not replace communication, don’t think this is a shortcut for talking with a top on what you are into, what you can/can’t do, and what you are interested in and why.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Fetters Strap Face Cage.

Mr. S Leather — Fetters Strap Face Cage

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Ungagged Episode 13 – Flipbook Families

Show Notes

Topics

  • General Kink Trivia Game
    • Damien versus Drew
  • Managing Poly Relationships
    • Why would you want to go poly
    • Creating new experiences
    • What are the challenges of a poly relationship
      • Communication
      • Roles & Labels
      • Moods
    • Monogomy and jealousy
    • Adding new people to the Polycule
    • Removing people from the Polycule

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Howler Muzzle Light Gray.

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Episode 184 – Listening to the Listeners

Daddy Tony and Sparky open up the mailbag this week to talk about your listener letters!  After busting a load to the dick pics sent in by our awesome listeners, Sparky and Daddy get around to answering your questions about everything from rubber gear, loud sex, and some awesome throwbacks to some earlier episodes!

Show Notes

In the News

Topic – Listener Letters!

  • Is there non-latex rubber gear?
  • CAN you be as loud as the hell you want when you’re making love?!
  • What does undetectable actually mean and does that mean unsafe sex is OK?
  • OMG, we’ve been discovered!!  It’s happening for us!!
  • Dealing with body changes and rocking your own energy! (and you owe us a dick pic, Trekboy008!)

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the The Handler Collar and Gag!.

Mr. S Leather — The Handler Collar & Gag

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Episode 183 – Piss Play

The indomitable Pup Nitro joins us in the shower this week for an episode answering your questions on piss play. Get wet with us on this episode and prepare to guzzle down some knowledge!

Show Notes

Topics

About our Guest

Bryson “Pup Nitro” Hankinson
International Leatherboy 2011

In 2006, he moved to Atlanta where he met Sir Alan Penrod and began to discover his “Leather Heart”.  Nearly a year later he earned his collar and was given his pup name, “NITRO” (Needs Intense Torture to Reach Orgasm).  Nitro is currently the President of Panther L/L, and is a Co-Founder of the Hotlanta Rubber and Gear Club. He is the co-owner of Southeast Black and Blue, LLC, and co-producer of Atlanta Leather Pride. He has held the titles of Mr. Hotlanta Rubber 2008, Southeast Leatherboy 2011, and International Leatherboy 2011. Nitro teaches BDSM and Leather Lifestyle classes on a variety of topics and enjoys any play involving tight bondage, mummification, rubber/latex, electricity, cbt, and watersports. He also serves as a mentor to other boys, helping them find their voice within our beautifully diverse leather community.

Nitro has been with us a whole lot before, in Episode 138, Episode 130Episode 98, Episode 80Episode 62, and Episode 10.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Daddy’s Belt!

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Episode 182 – Pride Match Game

One of the ways in which we carry our message, which is all about making sure the fun is in our kink, is to stop for a moment and do something out-of-the-box. Well today, we forego the normal kink topics and do a show featuring a game of matching (cause I guess we shouldn’t call it the other thing or get into trouble). We had a BBQ of friends and asked a few to jump on the show with us to play our game.

I think that you are going to find it was a damn good time!

Happy Pride Month, everyone. We love you!

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Rigid Collar & Cuffs.

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Ungagged Episode 12 – Old Guard vs. New – Our Journeys

The puppies today have decided to talk about their personal perspectives about the different between Old Guard and New Guard. Now I know, another Old Guard versus New Guard, that has been done! But not like this, because they really focus on their own journey and how they have to come to find their place in the spectrum of guard (trademark).

You are going to find this to be a really great episode with some fun personal stories!

Show Notes

Topics

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Scream Hood.

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Episode 180 – Like a Fine Wine…

Our good friend Kinkidiver is back and here to talk about how sometimes experience, knowledge, and history can be some of the sexiest features you’ll ever find in a guy, especially when it comes to BDSM!  Sparky, Daddy Tony, and Jeff tackle the topics of agism, what older gentlemen have to offer, and why being a hot young twink isn’t always everything!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Older guys do tend to have more experience and knowledge!
  • Many are experienced in mentoring – but some want to play too!
  • Body image and how to handle getting older
  • Experience-hunters
  • Dealing with energy levels and getting older

About our Guest

Kinkidiver has been happily tying guys up (and getting tied up himself) for many years. One of the NoSafeWord crew has known him for 18 years. He loves bondage, rubber, leather, and sports gear and is an all-around perv. Just our type!  You can find him as kinkidiver on Recon.  Kinkidiver was also on Episode 62.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Vector Ultra-Padded Straightjacket.

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We’re really excited about our new Vector Ultra-Padded Straitjacket. After months of testing and design updates we’re ecstatic with the end result.

This piece comes with full body padding in the front and back. The padding also extends to the arms and hands. With this extra cushioning your joints are well covered so you can stay in this comfortably for a long time.

This new design has a more fitted body so you’re going to look amazing in it too. We’ve also made the cockstraps much more comfortable. From the back it fits like your favorite jock would! Velcro closure at the back allows you to hold the straitjacket in place as you cinch it on your boy.

We’ve included numerous D-rings along the sides so you’ve got a lot of great tie down points. Just like our Deluxe Straitjacket this comes with an arms down option that allows you to use it like a sleepsack. Six belts lets you get your boy in just the right position for this feature. These same belts allows you to lock his arms back along with the pinion strap.

Bondage meets sexy in this hot new piece. Made right in the heart of SF by our devious production team. Come see it at IML this weekend and see why this may be one of the best straitjackets out there!

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Episode 178 – Kinky Boots

Daddy Tony and Sparky talk with Pup Jimmy all about erotic bootblacking!  Ever wondered what goes on inside a bootblacker’s brain?  We ask Pup Jimmy all about his approach to all things boots, from licking to caring for them.  Ever wondered how much to tip a bootblack?  What you can expect when you go for your first bootblacking?  Find out why getting your boots done can be better than a day at the spa!

Show Notes

Douchepickle of the Week

  • Target Bathroom Lady – it’s the Honey-Boo-Boo version of the Sound of Music.  Baroness von Cunt marches all of the von Cunt children over to the local Target to sing a song about perverts peeing in bathrooms.

In the News

Topics

  • How Pup Jimmy Got His Start in Erotic Bootblacking
  • Walking Through a Typical Bootblacking Experience
  • FAQ on BB  – From Tipping to Etiquette
  • Differences Between Erotic and Non-Erotic Bootblacking
  • How to Get Started in Bootblacking
  • Secrets of Bootblacking – Things They Don’t Want You To Know!

About Our Guest

Pup Jimmy is an Atlanta boot black and puppy. He boot blacks for fun and tips, but gives friends special treatment. It’s not always about the boots for him but uses it as a way to connect with and take care of the community. He’s easy to find around Atlanta, book blacking once a week at a local leather shop and at the Eagle on occasion. If you see him around, give him some scrtiches and he’ll give your boots some love

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Carbon-Fiber Pain Stick!

Mr. S Leather — Carbon Fiber Pain Stick — $22.95

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Ungagged Episode 11 – Doms and Daddy’s and Bears Oh My

The puppies are back! Stand back, kids, cause things are about ready to get crazy!

Show Notes

Topics

  • Today’s game: Would you Rather? – Time to find out what horrible choices the puppies would make!
  • Daddy Hunting – How do you find a daddy?
  • Protocol and setting boundaries
  • Mikey is a Wuss! (that’s on the internet now)
  • First Time Meet ups
  • The awfulness known as “Writing a Profile”
  • The kinds of photos that you can post!

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Chomp Gag.

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Episode 177 – Bday Puppies

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Newly Weds – 2016 edition! I’m not even sure what a buddy bar is…
    • Brutus wants it noted that these were very difficult questions to answer!
    • Puppies continue to fail to understand the questions.
  • If you’d like to flash your junk, Maricolpa County is the place to be!
    • Sparky used to be on the yearbook editing Staff, for sure a cool guy.
  • Fisting – A hands-on demonstration!
  • Grindr – Don’t use pervy as a word on the profile. Code words for something you’re not expecting.
    • Michelle Obama invented Scruff. Thanks Obama!
    • Daddy’s English accent continues to amaze.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Padded Hand Sling.

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Episode 176 – In the News

Summary and notes of show

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Hypnosis files back on Fox this fall.
  • Besides being the Zodiac Killer, Ted Cruz has a tiny penis.
  • NAMBLA Pre-School might be a bad branding idea. Woe to the man who transgenders public restrooms. Because apparently transgender is now a verb!
  • Listen letter: Serophobia and how it can impact an individuals love life. First take away – Polycuels can be complicated. Stigmas around the topic are alive and well in community, despite social niceties. Sero status is an important discussion when it comes to sex and negotiations. Do you have a right to someone’s medical history or Sero status? Is it reasonable to have the expectations of knowing when going into this situation? Discussion is paramount. Keeping on top of sexual health.
  • Is the stigma around HIV status diminishing? More information and better news. Medical advancements have changed how younger generations approach the illness.
  • Roleplay fantasies! Has Daddy done it? Spanky a boy in a baseball dugout. Coach and player, yes! Pup and handler… that’s weird.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the

 

 

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Ungagged Episode 10 – Male Bag

Time to hit the male (hehe, get it!?!) bag for letters from our listeners. We love when we hear from our listeners, sharing their experiences and asking questions that we can talk about. So keep them coming!

Also, OMG 10 Episodes! This is the last time we can say “Dis Many” and shove our paws in people’s face when they ask how many episodes we have done!.

Show Notes

Topics

  • When the Daddy is away the Puppy will Play!
  • Listener Letter – Finding A Kink scene
  • The puppies share their first explorations into the kink community
  • Setting boundaries with your non-kinky partner to be able to explore kink
  • Listener Letter – Hair
  • What kinds of hair works, why would you remove it, and how to remove it
  • Listener Letter – Headspace
  • What is a headspace?
  • Different kinds of headspaces
  • And the puppy’s experiences with headspace
  • “Marks from a good flogging”

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Neoprene Puppy Hood.

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