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Episode 180 – Like a Fine Wine…

Our good friend Kinkidiver is back and here to talk about how sometimes experience, knowledge, and history can be some of the sexiest features you’ll ever find in a guy, especially when it comes to BDSM!  Sparky, Daddy Tony, and Jeff tackle the topics of agism, what older gentlemen have to offer, and why being a hot young twink isn’t always everything!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Older guys do tend to have more experience and knowledge!
  • Many are experienced in mentoring – but some want to play too!
  • Body image and how to handle getting older
  • Experience-hunters
  • Dealing with energy levels and getting older

About our Guest

Kinkidiver has been happily tying guys up (and getting tied up himself) for many years. One of the NoSafeWord crew has known him for 18 years. He loves bondage, rubber, leather, and sports gear and is an all-around perv. Just our type!  You can find him as kinkidiver on Recon.  Kinkidiver was also on Episode 62.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Vector Ultra-Padded Straightjacket.

Mr. S Leather — Vector Ultra-Padded Straitjacket

We’re really excited about our new Vector Ultra-Padded Straitjacket. After months of testing and design updates we’re ecstatic with the end result.

This piece comes with full body padding in the front and back. The padding also extends to the arms and hands. With this extra cushioning your joints are well covered so you can stay in this comfortably for a long time.

This new design has a more fitted body so you’re going to look amazing in it too. We’ve also made the cockstraps much more comfortable. From the back it fits like your favorite jock would! Velcro closure at the back allows you to hold the straitjacket in place as you cinch it on your boy.

We’ve included numerous D-rings along the sides so you’ve got a lot of great tie down points. Just like our Deluxe Straitjacket this comes with an arms down option that allows you to use it like a sleepsack. Six belts lets you get your boy in just the right position for this feature. These same belts allows you to lock his arms back along with the pinion strap.

Bondage meets sexy in this hot new piece. Made right in the heart of SF by our devious production team. Come see it at IML this weekend and see why this may be one of the best straitjackets out there!

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Episode 178 – Kinky Boots

Daddy Tony and Sparky talk with Pup Jimmy all about erotic bootblacking!  Ever wondered what goes on inside a bootblacker’s brain?  We ask Pup Jimmy all about his approach to all things boots, from licking to caring for them.  Ever wondered how much to tip a bootblack?  What you can expect when you go for your first bootblacking?  Find out why getting your boots done can be better than a day at the spa!

Show Notes

Douchepickle of the Week

  • Target Bathroom Lady – it’s the Honey-Boo-Boo version of the Sound of Music.  Baroness von Cunt marches all of the von Cunt children over to the local Target to sing a song about perverts peeing in bathrooms.

In the News

Topics

  • How Pup Jimmy Got His Start in Erotic Bootblacking
  • Walking Through a Typical Bootblacking Experience
  • FAQ on BB  – From Tipping to Etiquette
  • Differences Between Erotic and Non-Erotic Bootblacking
  • How to Get Started in Bootblacking
  • Secrets of Bootblacking – Things They Don’t Want You To Know!

About Our Guest

Pup Jimmy is an Atlanta boot black and puppy. He boot blacks for fun and tips, but gives friends special treatment. It’s not always about the boots for him but uses it as a way to connect with and take care of the community. He’s easy to find around Atlanta, book blacking once a week at a local leather shop and at the Eagle on occasion. If you see him around, give him some scrtiches and he’ll give your boots some love

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Carbon-Fiber Pain Stick!

Mr. S Leather — Carbon Fiber Pain Stick — $22.95

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Ungagged Episode 11 – Doms and Daddy’s and Bears Oh My

The puppies are back! Stand back, kids, cause things are about ready to get crazy!

Show Notes

Topics

  • Today’s game: Would you Rather? – Time to find out what horrible choices the puppies would make!
  • Daddy Hunting – How do you find a daddy?
  • Protocol and setting boundaries
  • Mikey is a Wuss! (that’s on the internet now)
  • First Time Meet ups
  • The awfulness known as “Writing a Profile”
  • The kinds of photos that you can post!

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Chomp Gag.

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Episode 177 – Bday Puppies

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Newly Weds – 2016 edition! I’m not even sure what a buddy bar is…
    • Brutus wants it noted that these were very difficult questions to answer!
    • Puppies continue to fail to understand the questions.
  • If you’d like to flash your junk, Maricolpa County is the place to be!
    • Sparky used to be on the yearbook editing Staff, for sure a cool guy.
  • Fisting – A hands-on demonstration!
  • Grindr – Don’t use pervy as a word on the profile. Code words for something you’re not expecting.
    • Michelle Obama invented Scruff. Thanks Obama!
    • Daddy’s English accent continues to amaze.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Padded Hand Sling.

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Episode 176 – In the News

Summary and notes of show

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Hypnosis files back on Fox this fall.
  • Besides being the Zodiac Killer, Ted Cruz has a tiny penis.
  • NAMBLA Pre-School might be a bad branding idea. Woe to the man who transgenders public restrooms. Because apparently transgender is now a verb!
  • Listen letter: Serophobia and how it can impact an individuals love life. First take away – Polycuels can be complicated. Stigmas around the topic are alive and well in community, despite social niceties. Sero status is an important discussion when it comes to sex and negotiations. Do you have a right to someone’s medical history or Sero status? Is it reasonable to have the expectations of knowing when going into this situation? Discussion is paramount. Keeping on top of sexual health.
  • Is the stigma around HIV status diminishing? More information and better news. Medical advancements have changed how younger generations approach the illness.
  • Roleplay fantasies! Has Daddy done it? Spanky a boy in a baseball dugout. Coach and player, yes! Pup and handler… that’s weird.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the

 

 

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Ungagged Episode 10 – Male Bag

Time to hit the male (hehe, get it!?!) bag for letters from our listeners. We love when we hear from our listeners, sharing their experiences and asking questions that we can talk about. So keep them coming!

Also, OMG 10 Episodes! This is the last time we can say “Dis Many” and shove our paws in people’s face when they ask how many episodes we have done!.

Show Notes

Topics

  • When the Daddy is away the Puppy will Play!
  • Listener Letter – Finding A Kink scene
  • The puppies share their first explorations into the kink community
  • Setting boundaries with your non-kinky partner to be able to explore kink
  • Listener Letter – Hair
  • What kinds of hair works, why would you remove it, and how to remove it
  • Listener Letter – Headspace
  • What is a headspace?
  • Different kinds of headspaces
  • And the puppy’s experiences with headspace
  • “Marks from a good flogging”

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Neoprene Puppy Hood.

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Episode 174 – Guy Pierced

Have you ever thought about poking holes in your body? We talk with a guy who has 26 piercings (and he used to have more). So everything you wanted to know about having parts of your body pierced with shiny jewelry, you can learn about on this episode of the NoSafeWord Show.

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Piercings!
  • Robbie walks us through all of the piercings in his body
  • Why do it?
  • Sensations change after getting pierced
  • How to go about getting pierced for the first time
  • Play piercings
  • Piercings in the penis

About Our Guests

Robbie is very proud to be Mr. Atlanta Eagle 2015 alongside his title family Khaz and Jackson. As a full member of Panther L/L, and the current Sergeant-At-Arms for the club he is very active with the local Atlanta Leather Community. In October 2015 Robbie went on to represent his community at American Brotherhood Weekend where he placed first runner-up for the title of American Leatherman.

Robbie not only works as a barback at the Atlanta Eagle, but is also a professional hair stylist by trade, and can make anyone look fabulous…. Well almost anyone.

Anyone that knows Robbie knows that he likes to stand out and is always himself. Flagging Leopard and Purple have always been favorites of his, and he is always looking for the next addition to his art collection.

If a movie or show involves zombies then he is going to be sitting front row, and you definitely want him on your crew when the zombie apocalypse hits.

Robbie is very proud to be Mr. Atlanta Eagle 2015 alongside his title family Khaz and Jackson. As a full member of Panther L/L, and the current Sergeant-At-Arms for the club he is very active with the local Atlanta Leather Community. In October 2015 Robbie went on to represent his community at American Brotherhood Weekend where he placed first runner-up for the title of American Leatherman.

Robbie not only works as a barback at the Atlanta Eagle, but is also a professional hair stylist by trade, and can make anyone look fabulous…. Well almost anyone.

Anyone that knows Robbie knows that he likes to stand out and is always himself. Flagging Leopard and Purple have always been favorites of his.

You can find Robbie on:

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Violet Wand Kit.

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Episode 173 – Watts in a Name

There are several other people around who have podcasts and video channels. And sometimes they get newspaper articles written about them. Or one podcast will talk about the others.

Like NoSafeWord. Talking about Watts the Safeword. Or Defining Marriage. Or The Sewers of Paris.

You got it! We’re talking with Pup Bolt and Pup Amp about their video channel. (Video podcast? Vidcast? Is there a name for a recurring video thingy on YouTube?)

And we also talk with Matt Baume, who wrote a lovely article about NoSafeWord, Watts the Safeword, and the Center for Sex Positive Culture in The Stranger. You should go read the article.

And remember, kids: Sound it out.

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Listener letter: Reaction to Episode 171.
  • What’s the Watt?
  • History
  • Bolt and Amp are not dating!
  • Different types of relationships and
  • Dealing with notoriety in public
  • The pornographies and how that feeds the show
  • The intersection of the kink/porn/podcast life with muggle life
  • Ukeleles and condoms
  • How would your younger self think of you today?

About Our Guests

Matt Baume

Matt writes for The Stranger. He is a published author. Go out and read his book, Defining Marriage. (Click that link to find all of the different formats for the book — paperback, ebook, and audio book!) In addition, Matt does a Defining Marriage podcast. On top of all of that, he does another podcast called Sewers of Paris.

You can find Matt on his web site (www.mattbaume.com) or on Twitter: @MattBaume.

Pup Bolt

Pup Amp

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Tail Fuck.

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* See this video on YouTube if that reference is too obscure.

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Episode 172 – Live at Rubbout

Sorry for the delay to all our listeners but there were a few big changes to our systems that we needed to work through. Now that they are all there, we are back to our regularly scheduled programming. In fact, we will have a bonus episode this week on Thursday to make up for not having one for you last week!

Show Notes

Douchepickle of the Week

 

We recorded a show live at Rubbout in Vancouver! You are going to hear a lot of things happening in the background because… there was a lot going on! There was a gear swap going on right in front of us, there was vac cubes going, there were people mingling, there was drinking, there was puppies in a shower! CRAZY PANTS!

And in the middle of it all we got o meet the current Mr International Rubber, Jeffrey Gummibärchen! He is a great and funny guy that we had a great time learning about is interests in rubber, his relationships and his title year!

Topics

  • Getting started in rubber
  • Jeffrey’s start in gear
  • Balancing relationships
  • What he has been doing with his title year
  • What he has coming up
  • Advice to rubber newbies!

About Our Guest

 

Bio pending

 

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Latex Sleepsack!

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Ungagged Episode 09 – Explain the Gay Away

Sadly, we don’t live in a world where everyone is a kinkster. We can’t go about our everyday lives walking down the street in full rubber wearing a visible stainless steel chastity belt. (Excuse me while I adjust myself.)

Anyway, we must deal with non-kinksters, and sometimes we interact with them when we’re wearing gear or in a submissive or dominant head space. How do we do that? What are some interesting experiences we have had dealing with muggles?

Show Notes

OMG Funny

  • Missed Connections

Topics

  • “Muggles” are vanilla folk
  • Many vanilla people are very curious when they see guys wearing gear
  • Stories dealing with muggles
  • How to deal with annoying muggles
  • Strength in numbers
  • How much info to share with muggles
  • Don’t take shit from people

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Silicone Sounds.

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Episode 171 – Talking Shit and Stuff

Today is Take Out the Trash Day.* We keep a list of kinky topics that we don’t think will fill a full episode or that we don’t think we can find a guest. So join us for a grab bag of different kinks.

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Scat
  • Hair
  • Racism
  • Rape Fantasies
  • Castration
  • Long Distance/Cybersex

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Fleshjack GO! Travel Buddy.

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* That’s a West Wing reference, for all of you youngsters.

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Ungagged Episode 08 – One-Sided Fight Club

2016 is the Year of the Butt Stuff. ‘Nuff said.

Except when it’s about flogging. And it’s all about flogging for this entire episode of the Ungagged Podcast. If you’ve ever wondered about getting flogged — or even flogging someone else — the puppies talk about the various aspects of flogging for those who haven’t done it before.

Show Notes

Game

  • Steakhouse or Gay Bar?

Topics

  • Butt play episode feedback.
  • Why do guys like to get beaten?
  • Different sensations with flogging
  • How do get to the place where you’re mean enough to beat someone?
  • Music and flogging
  • Endorphins, endorphins, endorphins
  • Trust and communication
  • Endorphin crash
  • Aftercare and what to do if the skin is broken
  • Areas of the body to avoid when flogging
  • Different kinds of materials in floggers

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Mid Size Standard Flogger.

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Episode 170 – I Could Give a Fuck Part 2

My little black swans! The last time we had Allena on the show, we had so much fun that we didn’t finish our conversation. Well, here ya go. And just like usual, it’s a crazy nuthouse around here. Don’t miss this one!

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Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Decriminalization of sex work
  • Kinky with physical disabilities
  • Shyness, introversion
  • Insecurities
  • Flirting

About Our Guest

Allena Gabosch served as Executive Director of the Center for Sex Positive Culture since its founding in 1999 until her semi-retirement in January 2015. She is currently the Development Director for CSPC. She has been active in the sex positive movement practically from its beginning, and says she’s “busy creating sex positive culture on a daily basis!” Allena has been producing educational and social events for the sex positive community since 1990. She co-owned and ran Beyond the Edge Cafe in the mid-1990s, providing a modest space for parties and workshops, until they closed their doors in 1999. It was then that Jim Duvall approached her with the idea of the Center and asked her to be its Executive Director.

She is a frequent speaker on many sex positive subjects at colleges and conferences around the United States and Canada, with an emphasis on BDSM and polyamory. In addition, she was the Festival Producer for the Seattle Erotic Art Festival. She is a past board member of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. In the Spring of 2008, Allena was appointed to the Seattle Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Commission. Allena is a bisexual, poly switch and considers herself extremely blessed as she has a rich and full poly life, with many amazing and loving people in her “polycule”. In her less than mundane non-kinky life, she is active in Landmark Education, loves theater, good food, walking around Seattle and hopes to run for Seattle City Council in a few years.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Chap Short.

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Episode 169 – OMG Shoes

Well, I would tell you about the guest on this episode, but he wrote a tome, which appears below. Unfortunately, our publisher tells us that there is no more space to write anything else. Enjoy!

Show Notes

Douchepickle of the Week

  • Academy Awards

In the News

Topics

  • Listener letters
  • Uh. Mah. Gawd. Shues.
  • How Rix gets off on shoes.
  • Shoes vs. boots
  • Judgment by shoes
  • Daddy’s lack of shoes
  • Shoe fetish vs. foot fetish

About Our Guest

Sir Rix is considered a Dom, Sir, Handler and Daddy in the BSDM, Leather, Pup and Kink Communities. Starting his journey of the kink realm back in 1998 from the city of Seattle, Washington.

Introduced to the idea of Kink and Fetish through a friend by a simple question of “What is your Fetish” and really not knowing what to say. Claiming, “I do not have a Fetish”. Yet, his friend was persistent on the topic, saying “Everyone has Something”. So per the friends direction, he spent the next few days just thinking and paying attention to what he noticed first on a person of interest.

The results of this simple experiment lead him to find that a person’s face and shoes are what caught his attention. And then all the connections just started to come together. What he noticed and focused on as a kid. How he always noticed what shoes the other kids wore and more.

Now back in 1998, fetish was not as well accepted. At least not in his circle of friends or community. Shoes or Sneakers were even more odd as many never heard of this as a fetish. Yet, Sir Rix was not quiet or ashamed of this new found interest.

2002 brought some big changes as Sir Rix moved to California. While he moved around Washington State in his youth, he never moved out of the state. Traveling around from Sacramento, Lake Tahoe, Los Angeles, Las Vegas and finally ending up in San Francisco.

Each new city brought new experiences. However, San Francisco is where he finally started to expand from his fetish of sneakers to other kinks. Being a typical gay male in San Francisco, he attended almost all the Street Fairs. Just like all other the other boys, he joined his friends for an outing to Dore Alley and then Folsom Street Fair. While others had fun dressing up for the event to just “Dress Up”, Sir Rix really found everything intriguing and took an interest in all the new wonderful toys and experiences.

Over time, more information was slowly gathered and experienced. Checking out websites, events and more. However, while in San Francisco, never really was engaged in the Leather Scene other than the fairs. It was not till 2007 when he returned to his home town of Seattle that he started to get more and more involved.

Sir Rix is an active member of Seattle Men in Leather and Seattle Pups and Handlers.

Living a Polyamorous lifestyle, he currently has two subs, one of whom lives with him. Yet, he will not limit his family. Always room for those who connect and fit in with the group. Currently in the process of purchasing his first home that he hopes to house his family and set up a large play space.

When it comes to experience, Sir Rix would consider himself a novice. While he may know about many things and can be rather creative. There has been little chance for him to truly work on his skills. Living in a small micro studio does not get much space for play. However, many would not consider him a novice. Yet, as he would say, we never stop learning. His next focus is to learn more bondage and rope work. However, with a wide variety of interests he tends to keep it fresh and interesting.

Sir Rix can be Contacted at:

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Nose Vice with 40″ Stainless Chain.

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