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Episode 255 – Proud of Pride

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We’re sharing our experiences with the Pride Parade over many years in the community. Also, how it feels different in the era of Trump. Much has changed from our attitude to our pride flag. This year we’re involved as well and we talk about what we’re doing new this year.

 Show Notes

  • What Now?!
    • Violence against LGBT people exists and is a growing concern even in formerly safe refuges. Be careful and watch your back when you’re suckin’ dick.
  • In the News
    • Apparently, on Southwest you can masturbate during an entire flight. Sign me up!
    • A viagra subscription could ruin your marriage if you’re dumb enough to not use it on her too. Does that make CVS liable?
    • The FDA approves Truvada (PrEP) for at-risk adolescents (15-17).
    • A man used an alligator to hold another man captive for $800 ransom.
    • Two Canadians were covered in liquid plane poo which covered them and their car.

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Episode 253 – On The Rocks

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Today’s show features our beloved pups from Ungagged Pup Brutus and Pup Boner, a.k.a. Drew and Mikey, as our guests today.

 Show Notes

  • In the News
  • A Listener Letter
    • The listener asks a very important question: when does domination go too far, especially for the sub, and when it is time for the sub to end the relationship?
    • It goes without saying, but if your life is in danger or you may harm yourself, call 911 and get yourself removed from that situation. Go to http://www.thehotline.org if you or a loved one are in danger.
    • Subs, you have a choice, and it is okay to step away from your relationship with your Dom.
    • If you are a Dom, you must be able to listen actively and effectively. You should not be a Dom otherwise.
    • To this particular listener, most of all, we hope you can talk to someone else about all this – from a simple friend to even a professional.
    • Being by yourself is also a perfectly awesome option, so there is always a choice.

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This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Time Lock Digital Padlock for $36.95.

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Episode 248 – Knot Enough

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We’re talking today about how to design and build a play scene as well as avoid some pitfalls that could end your scene before it reaches its climax!

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
    • Hold on to your butts! The chaos and insanity is impossible to keep up with.
  • In the News
    • Imagine the horror of an innocent Ren-faire nerd who might happen into the unseemly den of a Re-sex faire! These controversies are veiled attacks at kink and fetishism.
    • Adam Rippon makes a connection with Elsa-drag hero.
  • Our Topic – Designing a Play Scene
    • Locks should be in service of the headspace of the sub… newbies could be taken out of their comfort zone, but others it could be important
    • Sensory deprivation. Consider the order you want to eliminate various senses. Many will start with a hood and add a blindfold and then a gag
    • Aftercare and the way to back out of a scene should always be on your mind. Safety shears are important when using rope or other bindings
    • You don’t need a dungeon or play room for kinky play. Be creative and tie them up to anything sturdy
    • If you can’t or don’t know how to tie up your partner, look for a buddy that can help!
    • Have your sub tie themselves up in some manner to be ready for your arrival. BE CAREFUL about self bondage!

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This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Jack Socket Electro Stroker.

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Ungagged Episode 30 – Hot Under the Collar

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Today the boys talk all about collars, their meaning and symbolism, the good and the bad!

Show Notes

  • Paws for the News
  • All About Collars
    • Why do pups gravitate to collars?
    • Collars often represent a deep relationship dynamic
    • Wearing a collar full time is a constant connection back to your Handler/Sir
    • With great collar comes great responsibility!
    • Or, just collar yourself and you can go out and experience being a part of the community and learn what you like without a commitment.

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This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Jack Socket Electro Stroker.

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Episode 242 – Chasing Bugs Part 2

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On today’s show the guys continue their discussion on bug chasers.

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
    • The shutdown. It’s 2018. Take action – get informed, get registered, and VOTE.
  • In the News
  • More About Bug Chasing
    • As with the last episode, refer again to this article.
    • Whenever a kink risks the health of the individual, then we do have to think about their mental health.
    • Getting to that person’s motivation for participating in self-destructive behavior is very important. Is this kink helping them or hurting them (permanently?)
    • Bug chasing is not a kink, to the extent that it is not recognized by other people into kink.
    • The guys do think we should tread carefully about shutting down communication with someone into bug chasing. We should be non-judgmental and open to sharing information with them.
    • It is hard to be completely non-judgmental. Maybe it is better to say to them that you do not have a full understanding of their kink but are willing to listen to them.

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This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the CHP Motorcycle Officer Gloves for $49.95.

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Episode 240 – Dress Code: Optional

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The decline of the gay leather bar… it’s almost a trope now. But, what is really going on in leather bars nowadays? And why are so many in decline or already closed? We share some of our experiences with our local bars and other bars we’ve been to in the past.

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
    • Our stable genius seems to be frightened by Fire and Fury by Michael Wolff
  • In the News
    • Good old Washington state allows a new “X gender” option along with male and female.
    • Be careful on gay apps such as Grindr. Case in point.
    • Those drugs in my butt? Not mine.
    • Even straight blogs are starting to share useful BDSM tips.
    • Non-stop prostate orgasms occur for man after a prostate infection.
    • A (slightly impaired) listener imparts his appreciation to the guys for being a positive force for kink.
  • About Leather Bars
    • They have definitely changed over the years.
    • Ah, the backrooms, the mazes, and those other sexy areas…are definitely more rare nowadays.
    • Social apps for gay men may have led to the downturn of the backroom
    • Bars today also tend to appeal to different demographics for better business, so men-only gay bars are few and far between.
    • Have gay bars being more inclusive hurt our experiences there?
    • Hey listeners…what do you think? We have gained a lot with more acceptance, but have we lost something? E-mail us or get on our Telegram group and let us talk about it.

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Today’s featured product is the Cruising Cap!

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Episode 239 – History of Latex Fetishism

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Today we’re talking with a young enthusiastic rubber fetishist who created a popular YouTube video about the history of the fetish. We also talk about how it’s changed over the generations and penetrated modern pop culture.

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
    • Happy New Year? Time for a fresh start and new energy!
  • In the News
    • The HIV/AIDS Council has imploded and it’s uncertain when or if it will be restored. This handicaps the federal government’s ability to continue to reduce new infections and fight the epidemic in the face of a population that is growing more complacent.
    • Kink Yoga is a new way to combine sex with the benefits of Yoga to the body and mind.
  • Our Guest Today – Whiteout
    • Whiteout is a rubber fetishist who recently made a popular YouTube video, The History of Latex Fetishism
    • The raincoat made by Charles Mackintosh was the first widespread rubber clothing that kicked off further development and iterations of new kinds of clothing through the next century. With the internet, it’s become more accessible today than ever.
    • We were introduced to Whiteout by our friend Kinkidiver, previously on Episode 94 – The Last Half Mile and 180 – Like a Fine Wine…, who has been active in the rubber community for many years.
    • The rubber community doesn’t have a resource to maintain the history of the community like the Leather Archives and Museum. The Canadian Lesbian + Gay Archives maintains some resources.
    • Rubber is becoming more mainstream in popular and straight culture. Price is dropping and accessibility is improving, but knowledge about care and quality needs to be more widespread.

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Today’s featured product is the Deluxe Slapper!

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Episode 238 – Whatever, Mistress!

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Today’s show features Portland’s very own Ginger Vixen Mistress Pixie Fyre (on previously in Episode 200 We are 200Episode 165 Mistress Fyre and Episode 190 Cum Unity).

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
  • In the News
  • Our Guest Today – Mistress Pixie Fyre
    • Mistress Pixie talks about the role of protocol in her personal life, both sexual and non-sexual.
    • The best kind of service between a Dom and the sub is a two-way street
      • For example, the Dom can show a special kind of acknowledgement to a sub’s service as part of the protocol.
    • How is protocol established and effectively remembered?
      • Communication
      • Writing down those protocols agreed upon
      • Do it every time, every day
      • Checking back in with each other if a protocol is still beneficial to both parties
    • Protocol can occasionally lapse.
      • Understanding toward the other person is so important
      • If their life is super-busy or stressful, talk to them about it
      • Putting aside some protocols as a break may be necessary
    • The link between the Dom and the sub through protocol can be a great comfort in times of crisis. Mistress Pixie relates her battle with cancer this year and talks about how meaningful that is in times of crisis.
    • Service is not always fun for both sides of the power equation. Mistress Pixie talks about those kind of services, but an emphasis should be placed on services that are beneficial to the household or to the sub themselves.
    • Hey subs, you can give suggestions to your Dom (politely requested of course!) Offer your ideas to Them on ways to serve that will be fun for both of you.

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This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature Octo and Oval Magnetic Ball Weights. The Octo Ball Weight ranges from $62.95 to $82.95, the 44 mm Oval Ball Weight ranges from $55.95 to $69.95, and the 52 mm Oval Ball Weight ranges from $59.95 to $72.95.

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Episode 237 – Puppers On Poppers

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This week we discuss what’s in the news and answer a couple letters from our listeners. In the spirit of #MeToo, we condemn the assholes the assault others for their own pleasure and power.

 Show Notes

  • In the News
  • Our guest today is Sparky’s pup, That Drew Lion, a.k.a. Brutus, the co-host of Ungagged.
  • The main topic: Poppers and Max Impact
    • Poppers:
      • Poppers is really videotape player head cleaner.
      • The most common chemical considered poppers is isobutyl nitrate, but there are many other chemicals in the nitrates that are also called poppers. Amyl nitrate is banned in the US.
      • Why do people do poppers?
        • It is inhaled
        • Euphoric, horny feeling
        • It relaxes the muscles very effectively and quickly, promoting a head rush
      • Also relaxes muscles involved in sex, including the rectum, vagina, throat, and even the urethra.
      •  The bad side to poppers
        • Headaches
        • Out of control feeling
      • Because of the different chemical makeup, the brands of poppers effects vary.
      • Those with respiratory problems should use caution since it causes respiratory irritation.
      • Not many states ban poppers completely. The sale of poppers is banned in Canada.
  • Max Impact
    • It is a product that is not considered poppers, and it has a much stronger effect.
    • It is the chemical ethyl chloride.
    • Usually in a spray bottle
    • It is much more in the realm of anesthesia.
    • There have been many deaths caused by Max Impact
    • Those new to poppers should stay away.
  • Either product can be addictive, and those who are addicted to it are not very fun in bed.
  • Your erection could also be difficult to get or maintain without poppers.
  • Poppers also should never be used while on Viagra, since both lower blood pressure and could lead to dizziness, fainting, and even death.
  • Overall, like any drug, use with caution. As Brutus said, poppers should only be used to accent a scene, but if it becomes a center of the scene, then it could be problematic.

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This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Cellblock 13 Spandex Hood. The Open Mouth Spandex Hood is $21.95, while the Padded Open Chin Hood is $23.95.

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Episode 235 – Harassment Addiction

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This week we discuss what’s in the news and answer a couple letters from our listeners. In the spirit of #MeToo, we condemn the assholes the assault others for their own pleasure and power.

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
    • Don’t fuck 14 year olds! Don’t touch people without consent!
  • In the News
  • A listener asks if it’s acceptable in the community to be a Sir if one hasn’t served already as an “apprentice” to another Sir.
  • Listener ToyTorture sends us a note and mentions “kink fatigue,” but does not send a dick pic.

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This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Jobmaster 12″ boots.

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Episode 233 – Yum my Yuk

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Today on the podcast…yums…and yuks…and the men who love them.

 Show Notes

  • What Now? 
  • In the News
  • Don’t Yuk My Yum – Kink shaming
    • Is there ever a time that it is okay to shame someone’s kink?
      • Anything involving non-consensual acts or involving those who cannot consent.
      • Anything causing permanent physical disability.
    • So is there a way to politely or altruistically yuk someone’s yum?
    • There are borderline cases where every individual has the right to make up their own mind about it. Examples being “playing Nazi” or racial play.
    • Still, a yuk definitely can become a yum – since a yuk really has more to it than you think.

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This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature Neoprene Cyber Pants and Tee! The tee is $119.95 and the pants are $189.95.

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Episode 232 – United Nations of Kinkdom

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For this episode, we have a discussion with a group live from the UK on Skype during Manchester Leather Weekend!

Show Notes

  • How are the kink scenes different between the US and the UK?
  • Are there differences in the ways drug use is looked at and the drugs that are used?
  • Is Europe more “cosmopolitan” in general over the United States?
  • What about the use of PreP in the UK?
  • While the leather community and the rubber/latex community tend to be in the same group in the US, how does that differ in the UK?
  • Is the Sister community in the UK as much a crossover to kink as it is in the US?
  • What about the (non-racist) skinhead community in the UK and why is it more prevalent there than in the US?
  • Line dancing and lesbians in the UK??!!
  • Are women a big presence in the kink scene in the UK?
  • Does (country) size matter? DT Tony and Sparky talk about how the compactness of Europe makes a difference.

Guest

DT Tony lives in Chester, U.K., near Manchester and Liverpool. He is into BDSM, CP, face fucking, BC, gloves, oral, anal, CBT, TT, milking, dildos, electro, gags, leather, rubber, and so much more.

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This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Stainless Steel Ass Hook, just $139.95:

 

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Episode 230 – Dental Damn

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Let’s talk about news, news, and more news…including travel news from Daddy Tony.

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This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Fleshlight Turbo Thrust, just $69.95:

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Episode 229 – Clique Schisms, Part 2

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In the heat of the end of summer, we are here to update you on the craziness of the last week.

 Show Notes

  • In the News
    • Man lands modeling career thanks to his genetically rare different colored eyes seen on his mugshot posted on Twitter.
    • Kathy Griffin is no longer sorry about the famous photo of a fake severed head of Donald Trump.
    • The “crying nazi” speaks out about his mistreatment by the public.
    • Male sex workers get sometimes bizarre requests from their Johns.
  • We continue our discussion of a Telegram chat by a listener from Episode 229 – Clique Schisms, Part 1
    • We discussed this letter from the perspective of defending the boys’ point of view. Now we wanted to discuss the other side of the argument.
    • Using the term “sleazy” marks a view of older men hitting on younger men that shows a bias against older men
    • Age range preferences posted on profiles publicly is discriminatory and denegrating
    • Sparky and Tony discuss some of their experiences with older men and now as older men with younger boys.
    • Sometimes men, regardless of age, can be sleazy. Older men are sometimes painted with a broad brush.
    • Infighting among our community is counterproductive to our shared common goals.
    • We should do what we can to eliminate “Us vs. Them”

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This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Blue Camo Kilt!

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