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Episode 188 – It’s whatever the fuck you want! Part 2

Ever wonder why some people just automatically grab your butt when they first meet you?  What’s cool and not cool when it comes to assuming what people are into?  Sparky and Daddy talk all about perceptions of kink, and how to check your ass-umptons at the door!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Assumptions of kink!  Just cause I like A doesn’t mean I like B and C
  • Just because I am into being treated rough, doesn’t mean I want to be treated rough by you.
  • Similarly just because I am into something, doesn’t mean I am into it right now (flogging, piss play)
  • People who aere into chastity are much more gung-ho about chastity than those who are not into chastity (Bandwagon Fallacy)
  • Experience doesn’t trump facts.  It’s possible for a top to have been doing it wrong for a long time.
  • Because bad things happen to good people, doesn’t mean that you can’t have fun if you take precautions and educate yourself. Don’t be afraid of the boogie man
  • Don’t assume that because a person got off a certain way means they are going to every time. What you did to get them off may not be what they got off on.
  • Personal incredulity – Your own personal dislike or disgust to another’s kink isn’t really relevant on how the kink is a good choice for them or not. The only measure should be if  it is safe and doesn’t harm others.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Deluxe Mr. S Ball Gag.

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Episode 133 – The Super Show

(No, it doesn’t have that many S’s. You need to butch it up a bit more.)

Superheroes! That’s what we’re talking about on this episode. Pablo Greene joins us. He’s the author of How to Kill a Superhero. Lots of fun discussion with him about why he has a superhero fetish. Also, we talk about where and how to get your hands on a good superhero costume.

After that, we review Drew’s nominations for the hottest superheroes in various categories. We’ll set up a survey so that you can vote on who you think is the hottest, most fun in the sack, and best relationship material of the mutant variety. Check here for the survey in the next day or two.

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Pablo Greene
  • His books
  • Why is there a super hero fetish?
  • How does one acquire superhero gear? (Here’s a hint: Go find the guide at howtokillasuperhero.net.)
  • Take our Survey! https://www.surveymonkey.com/s/CPRMMBJ
  • Who’s the hottest superhero, in the following categories:
    • Most likely to be good boyfriend material
    • Best power UNF
    • Hottest hero
    • Best power
    • Overall best gear

About Our Guest

Never heard of superhero fetish? Then it’s time you met author Pablo Greene, who is leading the genre with his four-book series How to Kill a Superhero. The books tell the story of Roland, who must learn to harness the powers of The Golden Man, whose secrets are found in an occult book by the same name. The series has been a hit with fans of gay men’s erotica, as well as readers of fantasy and sci-fi. How to Kill a Superhero has been featured at International Mr. Leather, Southeast Black and Blue, the Leather Archives & Museum, Dart’s Domain, No Safeword Show and Ropecast. The first two books are available now, and book three, titled Transformation Fetish, releases in 2015. You can meet Pablo this year at IML and Urban Bear Fair in New York City as well as New York Comic Con. Pablo is based out of New York City. For more info, visit howtokillasuperhero.net.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Fist Mitts with D-rings from the Fetters USA line.

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Shorts 01 – How to Kill a Superhero

We at NoSafeWord will be doing short episodes from time to time with special guests and topics. For our first episode we wanted to talk with Pablo Greene, the author of the new book, How to Kill a Superhero: A Gay Bondage Manual.

We spend some time talking about the book, what it took to write it, and what will be coming up next. We learn about the inspiration for his main character, Roland, and a bit about Pablo’s own kinks around superheros and bondage himself.

The book is out now and available for order, so be sure to check it out!

You can also visit the official website for the book, which is at: http://howtokillasuperhero.net/

You can also read the first chapter of the book by checking out the write up about the book on Metalbond’s website.

 

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