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Ungagged Episode 19 – A Different Kind of Sparky

About This Episode

We’re talking this week about electro play! We’re also shaking off the dust of the holidays and catching up on the news.

  • Catching up in the new year
  • What’s in the news:
  • We talk all about electro play in depth!
    • Methods of electro play
    • There are a number of different systems out there available and we discuss a few
    • Dangers and pitfalls to avoid
    • Gel and other accessories
    • Help for beginners
    • Know electricity basics!
    • Electro is individualistic – it takes time to get the right stim for each person, so do it much more than once
    • 3-2-1…Contact! Connectivity is extremely important
    • Send us your comments and letters!

 

Sponsor

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Electrified World’s Most Comfortable Butt Plug 

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Episode 194 – Bad Rep

Today we explore reputation in the kink community, sorting the gossip from the fact, building good standing yourself and ways that it impacts our thoughts and feelings. We discuss how do you treat people’s information, stories and facts shared with you.

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Trump… this time for your feet
  • What’s the difference between reputation and style conflicts
  • How to suss out someone’s reputation
  • What to share and how to share it
  • Fact checking
  • Things and people change

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Japanese Clover Nipple Clamps

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Episode 191 – Semper Fido

Today we talk to the illustrious and amazing Pup Scuff Northwest Puppy 2017 and International Puppy of the year 2016. We explore his approach to pup-play and inspiring kink journey overcoming deep life challenges. We discuss how to approach the puppy community for newbies.

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Poop Horoscopes
  • Overcoming life challenges
  • Balancing life and kink
  • Finding your place in the community

About Our Guests

Skuff Pup is an Arkansas native who moved to Seattle 7 years ago after an 11 year career as an active Marine. He started his kink journey within the ab/Dl community over 15 years ago. This led him to the furry fandom which ultimately found its way to the pup and leather communities.

Skuff has been active within the leather and pup community in Seattle for many years, and became a part of the board for SEA-PAH two years ago, and is currently the Puppy relations for SEA-PAH.

Skuff is the 2016 international Puppy of the year and the 2017 Northwest Puppy title holder.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the FuckGear Chaps

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Ungagged Episode 15 – Headspace Healing

Our mad scientist puppies have been up to a lot of projects, and thinking about so much more, using the very latest technologies, like 3d printing and VR. They are always researching the latest things that they can come up with create even better bondage scenes!

Show Notes

Topics

  • Talking about future tech and kink!
    • NovaPro Glasses
    • Estim/ErosTek
    • VR
    • Dating Apps
    • Crowd Funding
  • Bad Scenes
    • Every situation is unique
    • Headspace problems
    • Abuse problems
    • Anticipation of failure versus success
    • Comfort versus communication
    • Frustration and emotion in scene
      • Top down frustration
      • sub up frustration

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Leather Bar Vest .

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Episode 187 – It’s Whatever The Fuck You Want

In The Audience!

Russ and Will
Brutus
Bndgkid
Damien

Show Notes

Listener Letter! Newbie in Chicago!

In the News

Topic – Platitudes and Kink

  • Prime directive – non-interference policy.
  • Separating online fantasy from reality.
  • Revisiting collar etiquette.
  • Emotions!  Structure in a very unstructured world.
  • Ebbs and flows – the community is not “dying”
  • HBO presents fucking Donald Trump with a barb-wire strap-on.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode is sponsored by Mr. S Leather in San Francisco:

For this episode, we feature:

Adjustable Steel Spreader Bar

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Episode 177 – Bday Puppies

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Newly Weds – 2016 edition! I’m not even sure what a buddy bar is…
    • Brutus wants it noted that these were very difficult questions to answer!
    • Puppies continue to fail to understand the questions.
  • If you’d like to flash your junk, Maricolpa County is the place to be!
    • Sparky used to be on the yearbook editing Staff, for sure a cool guy.
  • Fisting – A hands-on demonstration!
  • Grindr – Don’t use pervy as a word on the profile. Code words for something you’re not expecting.
    • Michelle Obama invented Scruff. Thanks Obama!
    • Daddy’s English accent continues to amaze.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Padded Hand Sling.

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Episode 04 – Rub One Out at Rubbout!

In this latest podcast, Daddy Tony and Sparky talk with Reid, also known as RubberCanuck, the main organizer of Rubbout, an annual rubber kink event in Vancouver.

Rubbout is a Vancouver, BC grass-roots organization that has organized a party weekend since 1991. We are staffed entirely by unpaid volunteers who do it purely for the love of rubber. The event will be held on April 12th to the 14th, with a lot of fun activities, including a rubber bar night, gear swap & silent auction, a puppy play party, a rubber play party, and a rubber brunch.

We talk with Reid about the event, all that is going on at the event, where it started and how it has grown. Enjoy!

 

Show Notes

Discussion Topics

  •  Jinx Monsoon in Hedwig and the Angry Inch
  • Rubout
  • Puppy contest
  • Evolution of where he got into rubber
  • Psychological nature of kink
  • Emergence of the west coast events
  • Puppy contests

About Our Guest

Reid (aka Rubber Canuck) is an avid rubberman and the lead producer of the Rubbout Fetish Weekend held annually in Vancouver, BC, now in its 22nd year. He is the former Mr. West Coast Rubber 2010 and Mr. Rubber Calgary 2008. Reid enjoys doing workshops and demonstrations of rubber and bondage gear in the Pacific Northwest, and has done so in Vancouver, Seattle, and Portland over the past few years for various groups and events. He has been writing the Rubber Canuck blog since 2006 and has been an active member of Vancouver Men in Leather since 2008. He lives with his partner Paul and is also active with the gay running, swimming and cycling groups in Vancouver. Follow him on Twitter, or his blog.

 

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Episode 03 – I’m Not Laughing

In this episode, we take a moment to respond to an email we received from one of the co-founders of the Bareback Brotherhood, talking about the parody interview we did with “gollum”. Apparently he didn’t care for our brand of humor and took the time to tell us we got it all wrong.

Then proceeds to never mention how or why we are wrong.

Throwing out all kinds of weird accusations and hyperbole, from “Condom Nazis” to claiming we are adding to his “death threats”, he focuses only on the reaction and never the substance.

So, we respond the only way we know how… record it!

 

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Episode 02 – SEA-PAH (bow rorr rorr)

For Episode 2, we decided to talk to some local puppies that have organized the Seattle Pups & Handlers Association (SEA-PAH), a local group that is working towards creating a place for those into human puppy play.

From their own flyer, they say of themselves:

The Seattle Pups and Handlers Association is a group that is devoted to the human-pup, and those that love them. This is a place for pups, handlers and people curious about pup play in the Pacific Northwest and beyond. We are a group in the Seattle area that has been created to educate people about what pup play is, as well as have a family of friends where they can be comfortable about this fun type of play.

 

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Who are these pups, how did they get into puppy play?
  • What is puppy play?
  • Gear, Headspace, Role Play
  • What they do & why they do it

About Our Guests

The Seattle Pups and Handlers Association (SEA-PAH, or on Facebook) is a group that is devoted to the human-pup, and those that love them. They create a place for pups, handlers and people curious about puppy play in the Pacific Northwest and beyond. They have been created to educate people about what pup play is, as well as have a family of friends where they can be comfortable about this fun type of play. Nate and Pup Gadget are pups, and are in a committed relationship to each other for over 3 years. They have been working hard to help establish SEA-PAH for their fellow puppy play friends throughout the region.

Find Nate on Facebook or Recon. Find Gadget also on Facebook or Recon.

 

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Episode 01 – Starting It All

Episode 1 of the NoSafeWord Podcast is now live, and we couldn’t be more excited to begin this show to share with you all. We are so looking forward to having conversations with all the kinksters out there, from the most green newbie to the elders of our community, and everyone in between. We want to talk with everyone who is a part of this tribe. It is by sharing our experiences with each other that we can learn and grow. We have already started recording shows for weeks now, and have some exciting interviews that you are going to love!

In this episode we focus on introducing you to our hosts, Daddy Tony and Sparky, as well as the rest of the crew of NoSafeWord. And a special interview for our first episode you just have to hear to believe!

Stay tuned for more from NoSafeWord!

 

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

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No Safe Word?

Over the course of the last several months, as I get more and more followers to the blog (thank you to you all, BTW, I appreciate you all!) I have received several questions regarding the name of the blog.

No Safe Word

The question is always along the line of; I am assume you don’t use safe words when you play.

First, the name I chose was meant to have a dual meaning regarding the blog itself. There is no safe words here, nothing but my own truth that can at times be sharp and jagged. I don’t intend this blog to be entirely safe for everyone as it may challenge, push or prod from time to time.

But let me say, I don’t tend to use a safe word when I play, not because I don’t believe in the ability of the sub to use them, but because I don’t believe that as a Dom I need to have them. It is more of a ritual that gives the sub some form of comfort, but they may not necessarily need comfort to reach the right headspace for the scene.

There have only been a couple of times when something has become so intense that I have had to resort to a “safe word” both in scenes where none was established, yet I was able to communicate to the top that something was wrong.

When I play with a sub, I don’t use the safe word as I, the Dom, listen to the boy and the reactions, adjust when need to. And I find myself when I sub not wanting to use them with Dom’s because if I felt I needed one I don’t particularly think the Dom is in tune with me and therefore I don’t need to play with them.

When I started playing as a Dom, I used them and I am glad I did. And I encourage others to as well until you can read your subs and feel confident that you are in control of the scene. But at this point in my life, as a Dom or a sub, I don’t need them any longer.

That is one way to grow in your kink.

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