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Episode 207 – Lawd Have MIR-cy

Description of Show

Our guest on the show is Preston ‘Wexx’ So, Mr. International Rubber 2017.

Show Notes

  • In the News: A politician running for Arizona governor is actually honest…about his sex life.
  • Preston vs Bill O’Reilly:
  • MIR – Preston talks about the night he assumed his title…and a few of the more interesting parts of the contest…and it involved penetration.
  • First Asian international title-holder. Preston talks about race and kink and their interactions.
  • Unfortunately, Trump’s election reverberations even affect major kink events. Preston tells us about a fellow attendee of a major leather event who had pushed him out of an elevator and invoked Trump’s election for the reason why.
  • Preston speaks of those who are in the Asian community and their views of kink. In comparison, he talks about Margaret Cho and how even she is looked upon negatively in the Korean community due to her open sexuality.
  • Boston Pride and Preston: Preston gets to share his kink, while he is openly gay, with his co-workers.
  • Race itself being fetishized. Preston talks about his experiences of that happening…and how it seems to be a uniquely American thing.
  • Rubberize the World! Preston wants to expose the world to rubber and share the love of rubber with countries around the world…and to promote enthusiasts everywhere to be open about their love of rubber.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Stainless Steel Nut Tugger

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About our Guest

*Preston “wexx” So* is Mr. International Rubber 20 (2017) and Mr. New
England Rubber 2016. The first international fetish titleholder of Asian
heritage, he is honored to bring the MIR title back to New England and
the New England Rubber Men. Previously, Preston was the resident
materials expert at Harvard College Munch, the BDSM student organization
at his alma mater, where he educated other members about leather,
rubber, spandex, and similar fetishes at a time when the group was
vilified by Bill O’Reilly on Fox News as a university-funded “sex club.”

Proud to practice his passion by wearing latex out regularly, Preston
enjoys mentoring new rubberists regardless of their gender or sexuality,
especially through latex fetishism workshops at DV8/Purple Passion and
Cleveland Leather Annual Weekend (CLAW). As an international
titleholder, he has appeared on Vice.com and Watt’s the Safeword to
promote and foster latex fetishism. Preston’s mission as Mr.
International Rubber 20 is to rubberize the world — to bring the latex
fetish to places further afield and especially to unawakened rubberists.

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Ungagged Episode 09 – Explain the Gay Away

Sadly, we don’t live in a world where everyone is a kinkster. We can’t go about our everyday lives walking down the street in full rubber wearing a visible stainless steel chastity belt. (Excuse me while I adjust myself.)

Anyway, we must deal with non-kinksters, and sometimes we interact with them when we’re wearing gear or in a submissive or dominant head space. How do we do that? What are some interesting experiences we have had dealing with muggles?

Show Notes

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  • Missed Connections

Topics

  • “Muggles” are vanilla folk
  • Many vanilla people are very curious when they see guys wearing gear
  • Stories dealing with muggles
  • How to deal with annoying muggles
  • Strength in numbers
  • How much info to share with muggles
  • Don’t take shit from people

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Silicone Sounds.

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Ungagged Episode 08 – One-Sided Fight Club

2016 is the Year of the Butt Stuff. ‘Nuff said.

Except when it’s about flogging. And it’s all about flogging for this entire episode of the Ungagged Podcast. If you’ve ever wondered about getting flogged — or even flogging someone else — the puppies talk about the various aspects of flogging for those who haven’t done it before.

Show Notes

Game

  • Steakhouse or Gay Bar?

Topics

  • Butt play episode feedback.
  • Why do guys like to get beaten?
  • Different sensations with flogging
  • How do get to the place where you’re mean enough to beat someone?
  • Music and flogging
  • Endorphins, endorphins, endorphins
  • Trust and communication
  • Endorphin crash
  • Aftercare and what to do if the skin is broken
  • Areas of the body to avoid when flogging
  • Different kinds of materials in floggers

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Mid Size Standard Flogger.

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Ungagged Episode 07 – The One Hit Wonder

The goods. Junk. Beans and franks. Your pride and joy. Did you know that you can do mean things to them? And for many of us, it feels so good. The Ungagged puppies talk about CBT – Cock and Ball Torture. If you’ve been curious about roughing up your junk, this is the episode for you.

Show Notes

  • 100,000 Orgasm Pyramid

Topics

  • What is CBT?
  • How the puppies discovered they are into CBT.
  • Communicate
  • How to go about getting into it the first time.
  • Don’t forget that the cock is just as much a part of CBT as the balls are. You may enjoy your cock roughed up even if you don’t like anything on your nuts. So don’t say “No CBT” when negotiating.
  • Types
    • Tugging/pulling
    • Squeezing
    • Impact play – Cock or balls
    • Piercing – Play piercing; cock or balls
    • Circulation play – Balls mostly, but can be done on cock, too. This is serious play. Be sure you and the top know what you’re doing.
    • Clothespins
    • Surface or skin play
    • Stuffing things into your dick
    • Electrical stimulation
  • Aftercare

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature T-SHIRTS! Here are some favorites:

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Ungagged Episode 06 – One Notch Tighter

Bondage. Bondage, bondage, bondage. Whoops. Dick’s getting hard now. Yeah, so that’s why I enjoy doing it. Very horny. On this episode of Ungagged, the puppies talk about bondage. From the sub-getting-tied-up-perspective, naturally. So strap yourselves in, it’s going to be a cozy fun ride.

Show Notes

Topics

  • Why do we like bondage? (Hint: It involves boners.)
  • How do you get into it? What equipment do you need?
  • Geared? Clothed? Naked?
  • Stepping up your game
  • Self-bondage
  • Safety tips
  • Favorite bondage gear
  • Fun places to find fun gear and furniture

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Essential Wrist & Ankle Restraints.

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Ep 5 – Just One More Inch

Ha! You thought this episode was going to be about dick size, didn’t you? From the title, there. Nope! This one’s all about … butt play! Brutus and Mikey talk with Ansel about the basics of ass play. Oh, and prehensile penises.

Show Notes

Games

  • Would You Rather?
  • Word Association

Topics

  • Levels of anal play
  • Preparation
    • Diet
    • Cleanout
    • Lube
    • Gloves
    • Toys
    • Pee first (This is about butt play not watersports, boys.)
  • The big event
    • Misconceptions
    • Relax
    • Feelings
    • Size
  • Aftercare
    • Balms
    • Diet
  • Problems
    • Fissure
    • Hemorrhoids

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Egg Plug in SuperSoft Bronze by Square Peg.

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Ungagged Episode 04 – The Devil Is in the Details

Most of us start exploring BDSM, domination, and submission on the sub side of the equation. One of the things we find very early is that there seem to be a lot of rules about how one should or shouldn’t behave. What kinds of things are expected from us when we haven’t learned those rules or expectations? Bndgkid and Brutus talk about the most prevalent rules and expectations to help you navigate.

Show Notes

Games

  • Steakhouse or gay bar?
  • Gay Bondage Porn Star or Country Music Singer?

Topics

  • Rules for how a boy or sub should act
  • Rules for other subs can be (and probably are) different than your rules.
  • Ask before touching or interacting
  • Hanky code
  • Levels of protocol in differing situations

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Unit X-Stretch and CockSling 2.0, both by Oxballs.

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Ungagged Episode 03 – I Didn’t Sign Up for This

Are submissive guys (and gals) supposed to just accept whatever they’re told to do by a dominant? There are some kinky folks who think so, both doms and subs. That is not a very healthy way to approach something that is supposed to be fun for everyone involved. During this episode of Ungagged, the puppies talk about how to recognize when someone is either a bad dominant or is just not your type of dominant, as well as how to figure things out when in a play scene and things go wrong.

Show Notes

Topics

  • Puppynight!!!
  • How can we tell when a guy is a “bad” dominant?
  • Maybe “bad” doesn’t mean they’re actually bad. Maybe we’re just not a good fit.
  • How can you deal with a situation with a bad dominant or something that you’re not comfortable with?
  • Communication is key
  • Safety net
  • Long-distance relationships

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Head Trip Kit by Fetters USA.

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Ungagged Episode 02 – The ‘Ol Switch-a-roo

Many of us kinksters are only dominant. Many of us are submissive. But there are also those of us who enjoy both sides of the play equation. This episode is about the switches in the kink world. And this is Ungagged, so we approach the topic of switching from the submissive perspective.

Show Notes

Games

  • What Am I Thinking?
  • Two Truths and a Lie

Topics

  • Switching: Able to take the dominant or the submissive role
  • What does a sub get out of dominating someone?
  • How Brutus discovered he enjoys domming
  • Don’t play a part that you don’t feel naturally
  • Motivations for domming or switching
  • How dom energy feeds back into sub space
  • Switching quickly

 

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Fetters Max-Security Locking Shorts.

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Ungagged Episode 01 – A Submissive’s Toy Box

Well, hello! This is our first episode in a new podcast. Ungagged is a show run by the puppies on the NoSafeWord crew — Bndgkid and ThatDrewLion. We’re going to explore the gay kink world from the submissive, switch, and nerd perspectives.

In this episode, we talk about what kinds of toys a submissive should have. So if you’re a sub either just starting out or if you’ve been around kinksters for a while, we have some ideas about what kind of gear to get and what to consider when thinking about getting some gear.

Oh, and DIY = Do It Yourself.

Show Notes

Topics

  • Hello! Introductions.
  • First kink gear
  • What types of scenes or situations will you be using the gear in?
    • Bar scene gear
    • Everyday comfort gear
    • Gear for play
  • Budget
  • Wearables (Gear for wearing)
  • Usables (Gear and toys for playing)
  • Having your own toys helps a dominant to know how to use you
  • Gear you may not want to spend money on as a sub
  • What do you wish you had when first starting out?
  • What are some bad pieces of gear you’ve bought?

About Our Hosts

Bndgkid

Bndgkid has been on a few episodes of The NoSafeWord Show:

ThatDrewLion

ThatDrewLion has also been on a few episodes of The NoSafeWord Show:

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Asylum Socks and the Viper Sock, both by CellBlock 13.

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Episode 129 – Rubbery!

Rubbout 24 is coming up. Really soon! Like within the next 4 weeks. So you should get your tickets. But before we get to that…. Reid is one of the organizers of the rubbery pervertfest in Vancouver BC way up in the Canada. He’s here to talk about the event.

We also talk a lot about rubber in general. So for those of you who aren’t into rubber but are curious, there’s info for you, too!

Rubbout is April 2 to 5. Go to the web site. Hurry, get hotel reservations soon to get the discount!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Rubbout 24 details
  • All about rubber
  • Custom-made vs. off-the-rack
  • Sizing
  • How to get into your rubber
  • Body shape and rubber
  • Care for leather and rubber

About our Guest

Reid has been involved in rubber and kink for 16 years. He moved to Vancouver from Calgary in 2009 while he still held the Mr. Rubber Calgary title, and instantly became involved in the rubber and leather community in Vancouver, continuing the work he started in Calgary. He has been organizing Rubbout since the 20th anniversary in 2010 when Mitch Kenyon passed the torch to Doug, Rob, and Reid. He became Mr. West Coast Rubber in 2010 and ran for Mister International Rubber in the same year. In his 4th year organizing Rubbout, Reid has found a growing and integrated local community of gay perverts — in rubber, leather, puppy, and other forms — that are supportive of a growing interest in gear and events and groups that bring these communities together. Never shy to share his knowledge and gear, he has found a varied group of young men craving experience in bondage, kink and fetish.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Holy Trainer Chastity Cock Cage.

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Episode 73 – Rubbout

For this show, Reid and Rob tell us all about Rubbout, which is up in Vancouver, BC, ya. There are a few new things they have in store for us this year, and the guys tell us all about them.  Rubbout is a great time, and you can listen to the shows we did before and after last year’s event. Listen to the show, and then plan to head up to Rubbout 23.

Tonight’s show is brought to you by No No Square Productions.

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • What is Rubbout?
  • Go over the schedule
  • What is different at Rubbout this year

About Our Guests

Reid Dalgleish

Reid has been involved in rubber and kink for 15 years. He moved to Vancouver from Calgary in 2009 while he still held the Mr. Rubber Calgary title, and instantly became involved in the rubber and leather community in Vancouver, continuing the work he started in Calgary. He has been organizing Rubbout since the 20th anniversary in 2010 when Mitch Kenyon passed the torch to Doug, Rob, and Reid. He became Mr. West Coast Rubber in 2010 and ran for Mister International Rubber in the same year. In his 3rd year organizing Rubbout, Reid has found a growing and integrated local community of gay perverts — in rubber, leather, puppy, and other forms — that are supportive of a growing interest in gear and events and groups that bring these communities together. Never shy to share his knowledge and gear, he has found a varied group of young men craving experience in bondage, kink and fetish.

Reid joined us for Episode 04 – Rub One Out at Rubbout!

Rob Pont

Born in London, Ontario, eons ago and moved to Vancouver in 1996, Rob has been active in the Vancouver fetish community since his arrival. He represented Canada as Mr. Canadian Drummer in 1999 at the last Drummer contest held in San Francisco. He has worked continuously with leather clubs. For the last 6 years he has embraced Rubbout weekend with open arms and is now part of the ménage à trois that makes up the board and driving factor behind a busy and successful weekend of Rubber events.

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Rubber Pig Hood.

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Venus 2000

This episode is sponsored by: The Venus 2000 Masturbation machine! Your relentless milking machine! Check it out at www.nosafeword.com/venus

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Episode 70 – Puppy Stryker

We received a letter from a listener asking some questions about having a family and maintaining a kink life, as that is exactly where he is at the moment. For every episode of the show that is targeted to a specific topic we try to find someone that can speak to subject with some sort of authority. So when this listener ask, I turned it around and suggested that perhaps he would be the perfect guest to discuss the topic.

Puppy Stryker is a puppy to a female Handler with home he has a 6 month old son, and he on the journey of finding where to balance his family and his kink lives. This was a fun discussion and I think it is going to be interesting even if you never decide to have a family of your own, learning about others journey will always help us plot our own course.

Enjoy!

 

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Rubber puppy
  • Having a kid
  • Having a female handler
  • Bi, poly, rubber, puppy, and the family life

About Our Guest

From Stryker:

I am Stryker and I currently live in one of the worst places to be a rubber fetishist: Arizona. Despite battling the heat in the hotter than hell state, I have been active in the kink community for about 3 years. My Owner and I have been together for 2 1/2 years now. We are parents of a 6-month old which makes kink life a slight challenge. I am the co-founder of a local Arizona pet group called Phoenix Pets. I can be found on Twitter as @PuppyStryker.

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Neoprene Biker Vest.

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Venus 2000

This episode is sponsored by: The Venus 2000 Masturbation machine! Your relentless milking machine! Check it out at www.nosafeword.com/venus

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Episode 14 – Rubbout Recap

Sparky and Boy Trav got the chance to head to the 22nd Rubbout weekend up in Vancouver BC! It was a great time, and we wanted to share with you some of the adventures we had up there.

We do highly recommend you heading on over to Reid’s blog, as he is one of the organizers and can give the best review possible, which is exactly what he did!

We are also joined by one of the prize winners from the event, Brett.

Enjoy!

 

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Bar night
  • Gear Swap
  • Pup Play thing
  • Rubber play party
  • Brunch

 

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