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Episode 194 – Bad Rep

Today we explore reputation in the kink community, sorting the gossip from the fact, building good standing yourself and ways that it impacts our thoughts and feelings. We discuss how do you treat people’s information, stories and facts shared with you.

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Trump… this time for your feet
  • What’s the difference between reputation and style conflicts
  • How to suss out someone’s reputation
  • What to share and how to share it
  • Fact checking
  • Things and people change

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Japanese Clover Nipple Clamps

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Episode 188 – It’s whatever the fuck you want! Part 2

Ever wonder why some people just automatically grab your butt when they first meet you?  What’s cool and not cool when it comes to assuming what people are into?  Sparky and Daddy talk all about perceptions of kink, and how to check your ass-umptons at the door!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Assumptions of kink!  Just cause I like A doesn’t mean I like B and C
  • Just because I am into being treated rough, doesn’t mean I want to be treated rough by you.
  • Similarly just because I am into something, doesn’t mean I am into it right now (flogging, piss play)
  • People who aere into chastity are much more gung-ho about chastity than those who are not into chastity (Bandwagon Fallacy)
  • Experience doesn’t trump facts.  It’s possible for a top to have been doing it wrong for a long time.
  • Because bad things happen to good people, doesn’t mean that you can’t have fun if you take precautions and educate yourself. Don’t be afraid of the boogie man
  • Don’t assume that because a person got off a certain way means they are going to every time. What you did to get them off may not be what they got off on.
  • Personal incredulity – Your own personal dislike or disgust to another’s kink isn’t really relevant on how the kink is a good choice for them or not. The only measure should be if  it is safe and doesn’t harm others.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Deluxe Mr. S Ball Gag.

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Episode 24 – Balancing a Kink Life

You will have to check out the letter below, a letter from a listener asking us about how we keep a balance of our kink life with our normal lives, so we take a few moments to explain how we keep the balance in our lives, and sometimes when we don’t.

This is a personal episode about us that we were looking forward to sharing!

 

Show Notes

In the News

Listener Letter

 Hey, Boundsock45 again. Thought I submit my question in a more formal way this time around rather then sending it to your guys recon’s instead. I just listened to your guys most recent podcast, which was great by the way, but something came to mind that I was curious about. How do you guys (and forgive me if this doesn’t make sense or whatever) balance the kinky side of your guys life with the normal stuff that goes on or does it just blur into perfect harmony? For me (at least for the time being) I try to keep my parents completely in the dark about my gay/kinkyness and try to keep all that stuff completely out of my normal life. If you guys get a chance,  I would love to hear your guys answer.

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Episode 14 – Rubbout Recap

Sparky and Boy Trav got the chance to head to the 22nd Rubbout weekend up in Vancouver BC! It was a great time, and we wanted to share with you some of the adventures we had up there.

We do highly recommend you heading on over to Reid’s blog, as he is one of the organizers and can give the best review possible, which is exactly what he did!

We are also joined by one of the prize winners from the event, Brett.

Enjoy!

 

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Bar night
  • Gear Swap
  • Pup Play thing
  • Rubber play party
  • Brunch

 

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