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Ungagged Episode 09 – Explain the Gay Away

Sadly, we don’t live in a world where everyone is a kinkster. We can’t go about our everyday lives walking down the street in full rubber wearing a visible stainless steel chastity belt. (Excuse me while I adjust myself.)

Anyway, we must deal with non-kinksters, and sometimes we interact with them when we’re wearing gear or in a submissive or dominant head space. How do we do that? What are some interesting experiences we have had dealing with muggles?

Show Notes

OMG Funny

  • Missed Connections

Topics

  • “Muggles” are vanilla folk
  • Many vanilla people are very curious when they see guys wearing gear
  • Stories dealing with muggles
  • How to deal with annoying muggles
  • Strength in numbers
  • How much info to share with muggles
  • Don’t take shit from people

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Silicone Sounds.

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Ungagged Episode 08 – One-Sided Fight Club

2016 is the Year of the Butt Stuff. ‘Nuff said.

Except when it’s about flogging. And it’s all about flogging for this entire episode of the Ungagged Podcast. If you’ve ever wondered about getting flogged — or even flogging someone else — the puppies talk about the various aspects of flogging for those who haven’t done it before.

Show Notes

Game

  • Steakhouse or Gay Bar?

Topics

  • Butt play episode feedback.
  • Why do guys like to get beaten?
  • Different sensations with flogging
  • How do get to the place where you’re mean enough to beat someone?
  • Music and flogging
  • Endorphins, endorphins, endorphins
  • Trust and communication
  • Endorphin crash
  • Aftercare and what to do if the skin is broken
  • Areas of the body to avoid when flogging
  • Different kinds of materials in floggers

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Mid Size Standard Flogger.

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Ungagged Episode 07 – The One Hit Wonder

The goods. Junk. Beans and franks. Your pride and joy. Did you know that you can do mean things to them? And for many of us, it feels so good. The Ungagged puppies talk about CBT – Cock and Ball Torture. If you’ve been curious about roughing up your junk, this is the episode for you.

Show Notes

  • 100,000 Orgasm Pyramid

Topics

  • What is CBT?
  • How the puppies discovered they are into CBT.
  • Communicate
  • How to go about getting into it the first time.
  • Don’t forget that the cock is just as much a part of CBT as the balls are. You may enjoy your cock roughed up even if you don’t like anything on your nuts. So don’t say “No CBT” when negotiating.
  • Types
    • Tugging/pulling
    • Squeezing
    • Impact play – Cock or balls
    • Piercing – Play piercing; cock or balls
    • Circulation play – Balls mostly, but can be done on cock, too. This is serious play. Be sure you and the top know what you’re doing.
    • Clothespins
    • Surface or skin play
    • Stuffing things into your dick
    • Electrical stimulation
  • Aftercare

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature T-SHIRTS! Here are some favorites:

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Ungagged Episode 06 – One Notch Tighter

Bondage. Bondage, bondage, bondage. Whoops. Dick’s getting hard now. Yeah, so that’s why I enjoy doing it. Very horny. On this episode of Ungagged, the puppies talk about bondage. From the sub-getting-tied-up-perspective, naturally. So strap yourselves in, it’s going to be a cozy fun ride.

Show Notes

Topics

  • Why do we like bondage? (Hint: It involves boners.)
  • How do you get into it? What equipment do you need?
  • Geared? Clothed? Naked?
  • Stepping up your game
  • Self-bondage
  • Safety tips
  • Favorite bondage gear
  • Fun places to find fun gear and furniture

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Essential Wrist & Ankle Restraints.

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Ep 5 – Just One More Inch

Ha! You thought this episode was going to be about dick size, didn’t you? From the title, there. Nope! This one’s all about … butt play! Brutus and Mikey talk with Ansel about the basics of ass play. Oh, and prehensile penises.

Show Notes

Games

  • Would You Rather?
  • Word Association

Topics

  • Levels of anal play
  • Preparation
    • Diet
    • Cleanout
    • Lube
    • Gloves
    • Toys
    • Pee first (This is about butt play not watersports, boys.)
  • The big event
    • Misconceptions
    • Relax
    • Feelings
    • Size
  • Aftercare
    • Balms
    • Diet
  • Problems
    • Fissure
    • Hemorrhoids

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Egg Plug in SuperSoft Bronze by Square Peg.

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Ungagged Episode 04 – The Devil Is in the Details

Most of us start exploring BDSM, domination, and submission on the sub side of the equation. One of the things we find very early is that there seem to be a lot of rules about how one should or shouldn’t behave. What kinds of things are expected from us when we haven’t learned those rules or expectations? Bndgkid and Brutus talk about the most prevalent rules and expectations to help you navigate.

Show Notes

Games

  • Steakhouse or gay bar?
  • Gay Bondage Porn Star or Country Music Singer?

Topics

  • Rules for how a boy or sub should act
  • Rules for other subs can be (and probably are) different than your rules.
  • Ask before touching or interacting
  • Hanky code
  • Levels of protocol in differing situations

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Unit X-Stretch and CockSling 2.0, both by Oxballs.

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Ungagged Episode 03 – I Didn’t Sign Up for This

Are submissive guys (and gals) supposed to just accept whatever they’re told to do by a dominant? There are some kinky folks who think so, both doms and subs. That is not a very healthy way to approach something that is supposed to be fun for everyone involved. During this episode of Ungagged, the puppies talk about how to recognize when someone is either a bad dominant or is just not your type of dominant, as well as how to figure things out when in a play scene and things go wrong.

Show Notes

Topics

  • Puppynight!!!
  • How can we tell when a guy is a “bad” dominant?
  • Maybe “bad” doesn’t mean they’re actually bad. Maybe we’re just not a good fit.
  • How can you deal with a situation with a bad dominant or something that you’re not comfortable with?
  • Communication is key
  • Safety net
  • Long-distance relationships

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Head Trip Kit by Fetters USA.

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Ungagged Episode 02 – The ‘Ol Switch-a-roo

Many of us kinksters are only dominant. Many of us are submissive. But there are also those of us who enjoy both sides of the play equation. This episode is about the switches in the kink world. And this is Ungagged, so we approach the topic of switching from the submissive perspective.

Show Notes

Games

  • What Am I Thinking?
  • Two Truths and a Lie

Topics

  • Switching: Able to take the dominant or the submissive role
  • What does a sub get out of dominating someone?
  • How Brutus discovered he enjoys domming
  • Don’t play a part that you don’t feel naturally
  • Motivations for domming or switching
  • How dom energy feeds back into sub space
  • Switching quickly

 

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Fetters Max-Security Locking Shorts.

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Ungagged Episode 01 – A Submissive’s Toy Box

Well, hello! This is our first episode in a new podcast. Ungagged is a show run by the puppies on the NoSafeWord crew — Bndgkid and ThatDrewLion. We’re going to explore the gay kink world from the submissive, switch, and nerd perspectives.

In this episode, we talk about what kinds of toys a submissive should have. So if you’re a sub either just starting out or if you’ve been around kinksters for a while, we have some ideas about what kind of gear to get and what to consider when thinking about getting some gear.

Oh, and DIY = Do It Yourself.

Show Notes

Topics

  • Hello! Introductions.
  • First kink gear
  • What types of scenes or situations will you be using the gear in?
    • Bar scene gear
    • Everyday comfort gear
    • Gear for play
  • Budget
  • Wearables (Gear for wearing)
  • Usables (Gear and toys for playing)
  • Having your own toys helps a dominant to know how to use you
  • Gear you may not want to spend money on as a sub
  • What do you wish you had when first starting out?
  • What are some bad pieces of gear you’ve bought?

About Our Hosts

Bndgkid

Bndgkid has been on a few episodes of The NoSafeWord Show:

ThatDrewLion

ThatDrewLion has also been on a few episodes of The NoSafeWord Show:

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Asylum Socks and the Viper Sock, both by CellBlock 13.

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