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Episode 247 – Gender Schmender

Description of Show

Today’s very special guest is Sister PussyWillow and she will discuss transgender and how they interact with the different kink communities.

 Show Notes

  • Our Guest Today – Sister PussyWillow
    • Transgender and the general kink community. Sister will give us some insight.
    • Pronouns. Always important.
    • With our guest, all three of us are Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, so they all talk about gender and being a Sister.
    • Talking of BDSM and Trans, what can the “typical” leather guy do to make Trans people more welcome?
    • The immortal line between a personal preference and being phobic of a community.
      • Where does it lie between a gay cisgendered male who is not attracted to female genitalia, and a trans man who has female genitalia?
      • Must a gay cisgendered male accept every invitation to sex with a trans man out of fear of being called transphobic?
      • Are personal preferences allowed?
    • Let’s go: RuPaul and the banning of trans women from RuPaul’s Drag Race (which Ru ended up rescinding the ban and apologizes.)
      • Will Ru recover from this, or is this time a step too far?
      • If things do go negative, does Ru still need to suffer a full shunning, or maybe just less attention?
      • What about drag and its general prohibition to cisgendered females (while trans men doing female drag does not seem to be a problem?)
    • The unfortunately-common question to trans males who do female drag: Why did you transition to male if you like to wear dresses?

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Episode 206 – Newfoundcock

Description of Show

We are talking with one of our listeners, MaskdCat, about the challenges organizing events for kink groups.

Show Notes

    • Douche Pickle of the Week: Caitlyn Jenner…and this:
  • Our guest, MaskdCat, talks about spandex, rubber, and how he even gets into different headspaces with the different materials.
  • Professional wrestling: a gateway drug to kink?
  • Talking about Toronto and the scene there, notably TORN – Toronto Ontario Rubbermen Network
  • How can organizations manage fundraising without being seen as asking folks too often for money? Sparky makes the point that clearly communicating the reason why funds are being raised is crucial.
  • Organizational drama: What are the issues that affect all organizations?
    • Some give their time too freely and others don’t at all.
    • Knowing the motivations of different members can be helpful, but it’s not a question to ask in a public meeting setting
    • To avoid the risk of burnout, Sparky talks about the importance of clearly-written by-laws that lay out the responsibilities of each officer of the organization as well as clearly stating the purpose of the group.
    • Working smarter and not harder: Invest time in reducing repetitive tasks.

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About our Guest

MaskdCat is a luchador kitty with fetishes for spandex, rubber, and many other types of hoods and gear. It all started with a wrestling mask at a young age, and things escalated from there.

Currently residing in the Toronto area, he is also one of the organizers for the Toronto Rubbermen, a social group who promote an inclusive space for rubbermen to socialize and celebrate life in rubber.

He can be found on Twitter under the @MaskdCat handle, and he also has a tumblr with plenty of gear smut at maskdcat.tumblr.com

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Episode 205 – Totally Masc 4 Masc, Bro

Description of Show

We are talking with our friend Debit (first debuted on the show in Episode 51 – Covering Recovery and has been back many more times) about masculinity and identity issues within the kink world.

Show Notes

  • Douche Pickle of the Week: Women Trump Supporters Close Their Accounts At Nordstrom For Dumping Ivanka
  • Sparky is now on the path to join the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence
    • DFT and Debit share their journeys as Sisters themselves
    • There is growing acceptance of fem, drag, and trans people in the leather community
  • The group discusses masculinity and those that broadcast that they are only looking for “masc”
  • Publicly declaring who you aren’t “into” is negative energy that stigmatizes people
  • Sparky played with a whiny lispy fem-bot, and he used to be called Chanté
  • Cologne is not a good idea if you don’t know your partner likes it
  • We respect all gender-identities and misgendered colloquialisms are not the same as disrespecting trans men and women
  • DFT wants to do a gender mind fuck scene
  • The sisters are becoming more interwoven in the kink community since they share missions and members

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