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Episode 90 – AOL Inches

As modern kinky gay and bi men, we need to have profiles in “personals” web sites and apps if we want to get laid. It’s how guys connect with potential playmates. When you’re in those web sites, the first impression other guys have of you is in your profile, both what you write and the pictures you show. Good profiles will attract the guys you want to play with; bad profiles will turn them away. We have two returning guests talk with us about how to write a good (and a bad) profile, to help you attract those horny fuckers you want to get down and dirty with.

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • What should you put in your profile?
  • What should you avoid?

Hash Tags

  • #ProfileFauxPas

About Our Guests

Tony, one half of DoubleTop, has been on the NoSafeWord show once before.  DT Tony and DT Bri are kinksters from the U.K., living in Chester, U.K., near Manchester and Liverpool. They are into BDSM, CP, face fucking, BC, gloves, oral, anal, CBT, TT, milking, dildos, electro, gags, leather, rubber, and so much more. Find them on Recon as DoubleTop.

Daniel, also known as VisibleRestraint, has been on our show several times.  He has a whole lot of experience writing online profiles. You can find him on Recon, FetLife, Twitter, Tumblr, and probably some other online spots we don’t know about. He also has an awesome web site where he showcases all of the incredibly horny rope work and suspension that he does. It’s always a pleasure to have him on the show.

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Episode 72 – CBT Part 2

In our last episode, we talked about some of the unsexy aspects of cock and ball torture.  In part 2 of our discussion, VisibleRestraint walks us through the various types of CBT and how to make it fun and get guys off.

Show Notes

Discussion Topics

  • Types of CBT
  • Popping a guy’s CBT cherry
  • Questions from our listeners

About Our Guest

Daniel, otherwise known as VisibleRestraint, has been gleefully roughing up cocks and balls for many years. You can find him on Twitter, Tumblr, and he has an awesome web site with excellent photography of the bondage and cock-and-ball work he has done.

He has been on the NoSafeWord podcast several times before:

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the The Anal Spike.

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Episode 71 – CBT Part 1

Welcome to Jr. High School Biology class. Today we’re going to learn about penises, testicles, and scrotums. And how to stimulate or make these things hurt. Our teacher is VisibleRestraint, and he’s going to teach us about anatomy and some of the injuries you boys can get when you do things too roughly. This is important information, class. Just ignore the comments from the dropouts at the back of the room.

Be sure to tune into Part 2 of this show, when we discuss the fun aspects of CBT.

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Anatomy of the Penis
  • Anatomy of the Balls
  • More Anatomy
  • Cautionary Tales: Penis
  • Cautionary Tales: Balls
  • What we don’t do
  • Why do some guys like CBT?

About Our Guest

Daniel, otherwise known as VisibleRestraint, has been gleefully roughing up cocks and balls for many years. You can find him on Twitter, Tumblr, and he has an awesome web site with excellent photography of the bondage and cock-and-ball work he has done.

He has been on the NoSafeWord podcast several times before:

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Zap Electro Ball Stretcher by Oxballs.

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Episode 64 – Polyamory Part 2

We continue on with our discussion from Episode 63 on Polyamory with Allena! This time we get even more in depth with our discussion, and I think there is something here for everyone to enjoy and learn. Thank you Allena for joining!

Show Notes

Discussion Topics

  • Are there fixed rules for doing polyamory?
  • What are some key areas that need to be negotiated?
  • What are some other issues?
  • What are some key societal issues to be conscious of?
  • Reasons why poly may not be for you

About Our Guest

 

Allena Gabosch has served as Executive Director of the Center for Sex Positive Culture since its founding in 1999. She has been active in the sex positive movement practically from its beginning, and says she’s “busy creating sex positive culture on a daily basis!” Allena has been producing educational and social events for the sex positive community since 1990. She co-owned and ran Beyond the Edge Cafe in the mid-1990s, providing a modest space for parties and workshops, until they closed their doors in 1999. It was then that Jim Duvall approached her with the idea of the Center and asked her to be its Executive Director.

 

She is a frequent speaker on many sex positive subjects at colleges and conferences around the United States and Canada, with an emphasis on BDSM and polyamory. In addition, she is the Festival Producer for the Seattle Erotic Art Festival. She is a past board member of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. In the Spring of 2008, Allena was appointed to the Seattle Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Commission. Allena is a bisexual, poly switch and considers herself extremely blessed as she has a rich and full poly life, with many amazing and loving people in her “polycule”. In her less than mundane non-kinky life, she is active in Landmark Education, loves theater, good food, walking around Seattle and hopes to run for Seattle City Council in a few years.

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Mr. S Leather Co.

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Episode 63 – Polyamory Part 1

We are very excited to bring this episode to you all. Not only because it is a great to have Allena back with us (listen to her on Episode 31), because we love her! It is because the subject of polyamory is such a lively discussion.

In between our usual antics, we spend a lot of time discussing what it is and what it isn’t. What it means to us and what it can mean to other people. If you are not aligned to polyamory at all you are still going to find the discussion fascinating. It was a fun time and I can’t wait to get this to you!

This is part 1 of the discussion, we have part 2 for later in the week!

 

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Why we asked on Alena on the show
  • What is Polyamory?
  • Is Polyamory an orientation or a structure?
  • What are some Poly structures and relationships and words we can use to help us describe them?
  • Can single people be polyamorous?

About Our Guest

Allena Gabosch has served as Executive Director of the Center for Sex Positive Culture since its founding in 1999. She has been active in the sex positive movement practically from its beginning, and says she’s “busy creating sex positive culture on a daily basis!” Allena has been producing educational and social events for the sex positive community since 1990. She co-owned and ran Beyond the Edge Cafe in the mid-1990s, providing a modest space for parties and workshops, until they closed their doors in 1999. It was then that Jim Duvall approached her with the idea of the Center and asked her to be its Executive Director.

She is a frequent speaker on many sex positive subjects at colleges and conferences around the United States and Canada, with an emphasis on BDSM and polyamory. In addition, she is the Festival Producer for the Seattle Erotic Art Festival. She is a past board member of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. In the Spring of 2008, Allena was appointed to the Seattle Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Commission. Allena is a bisexual, poly switch and considers herself extremely blessed as she has a rich and full poly life, with many amazing and loving people in her “polycule”. In her less than mundane non-kinky life, she is active in Landmark Education, loves theater, good food, walking around Seattle and hopes to run for Seattle City Council in a few years.

Sponsors

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the The Claw Mitt.

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Venus 2000

This episode is sponsored by: The Venus 2000 Masturbation machine! Your relentless milking machine! Check it out at www.nosafeword.com/venus

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Episode 58 – Pervertables Part 1

For this show we decided to do something a little bit different. We wanted to talk with the two kinksters that we personally know that love playing with all kinds of “pervertables”, so we invited on Sparky’s Sir, VisibleRestraint, and DrewLion.

For those that haven’t heard the term before, pervertables are items that were not intended to be perverted but can be purposed in all kinds of kink play. The thought here was that by discussing all the different kinds of pertables and share some stories on how they can be used, we can spur some ideas out there for our listeners.

We want to hear from you and your stories of pervertables. Tell us about any we missed, or fun stories about the pervertables that you have used. Can’t wait to hear what you come up with!

This along with listener letters and this was a great show!

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Pride Parade: Center for Sex Positive Culture

This post is part 3 of 4 in the series Seattle Pride Parade 2013.

 

 

 

These are some photos from the recent pride parade of the entry by the Center for Sex Positive Culture. Here you will see the director, Allena, as well as the host of Cock Circus (and the man Sparky calls Sir), Daniel, a.k.a. VisibleRestraint.

Check out the moment when Allena gets flashed by Daddy Tony, and then getting flashed back. Priceless!

Be sure to check out the podcast episode where we interview both Allena and Daniel:

NoSafeWord Podcast Episode 31 – Center for Sex Positive Culture

 

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Episode 31 – Center for Sex Positive Culture

In our last show before our summer break, we wanted to have a discussion the fabulous Allena from the Center for Sex Positive Culture! She was one of the judges for the Best In Show event held by Seattle Pups and Handlers, SEA-PAH where we met her, and several people said, “You’ve got to have Allena on the show!”

How right they were.

And it worked out that we got to have Daniel, aka VisibleRestraint, on the show. These two have been close friends for a long time and perfect on the air together.

We talked all about the CSPC, including some history and what happens there. A lot of really interesting stories. We thinks this is helpful for everyone, even if you don’t come to Seattle to visit the center, perhaps there is a similar resource in your area. Or maybe you need to start one!

 

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

About Our Guests

Daniel, otherwise known as VisibleRestraint, and Allena have been heavily involved with running the Center for Sex Positive Culture, a playspace in Seattle. Daniel also runs a monthly play party in that space, Cock Circus. Find Daniel on Twitter, Recon, and at his website.

 

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